On the fifth day of the Chinese New Year, I accompanied my 30-year-old son on a blind date, and the other party was a 28-year-old girl, a primary school teacher, and the family conditions were very good. They had a great chat when they first met and added to each other

On the fifth day of the Chinese New Year, I accompanied my 30-year-old son on a blind date, and the other party was a 28-year-old girl, a primary school teacher, and the family conditions were very good. The first time they met they had a good chat, but also added WeChat to each other, I thought this thing will become, did not expect to return home, I let my son contact the girl more, but the son said that the girl has deleted his WeChat. What's going on here?

My name is Jin Shuangmei, 56 years old this year, I have an only child who is 30 years old this year, I and my wife worked hard to pull him up, after graduation I entrusted someone to find him a foreign company as a sales manager, with a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan, after the work is stable, it is time to consider the son's lifelong event. The son is a down-to-earth and capable person, who is obsessed with work, but does not call for emotional matters, and has no girlfriend until now.

My nephew is two years younger than my son, and now children can play soy sauce, which makes me envious! So I asked my sister to introduce the object to my son, and it just so happened that my niece and daughter-in-law were primary school teachers, and she had a colleague who had not yet married, and she knew the roots, so she introduced her son to a blind date!

For this blind date, I specially prepared some gifts, but also specially instructed my son to pay attention to some matters when dating, the sister also did a survey of the girl's situation, the girl is called Xiaoli, 28 years old this year, is the only daughter of the family, although it is regarded by her parents as a pearl in the palm of her hand, but it is not the kind of pampered child, her parents are dual workers, there are two houses in the city, and the family conditions are good.

My sister told me about these situations and sent two photos of the girl, from which it can be seen that the girl is a gentle and kind person, with two small dimples on her round face, and she looks good when she smiles! I was right at a glance! I told my sister to let her arrange for her two children to meet!

The blind date place is at my sister's house, early in the morning of the fifth day of the first month, I accompanied my son to go to my sister's house with gifts, and when it was almost noon, my niece and daughter-in-law came with Xiaoli, and after politely greeting us, I let my son chat with her alone in the living room. My sister and I were busy in the kitchen, saying that it was busy, but our hearts were always on the two people in the living room, afraid that my son would say the wrong thing!

To my surprise, my son, who is usually not good at words, talks about it, and they talk very happily with your words! My sister whispered to me, "Big sister! You don't have to worry, the kids have kids talk! ”

Soon it was lunch time, I deliberately let the two of them sit together, we prepared a very rich meal, my niece and daughter-in-law told us in advance that Xiaoli's favorite dish was braised prawns, and my sister went out of her way to buy live shrimp to make. Both children at the dinner table are very polite, and I have been signaling my son to give Xiaoli more dishes. The son didn't think so!

Later, I asked my son to peel a shrimp for Xiaoli, and my son was about to put it in Xiaoli's bowl after peeling, but accidentally fell on the dinner table, and Xiaoli saw it and directly clipped it up and put it in the bowl to eat. It's a bit embarrassing to make a table of people.

In order to ease the atmosphere we raised a glass and drank a few drinks, during which I noticed that Xiaoli's bowl is always clean, she also gives her son vegetables from time to time, but the son always eats a bite and puts it down, and the dishes in the bowl are poured into the trash can, and I give him several times to make a look he did not pay attention!

When she finished eating and tidying up, Xiao li took the initiative to come forward to clean up, and when she saw her sister pouring all the uneaten dishes into the garbage can and preparing to throw them out, she hurried up to stop her and said: "Auntie, many dishes have not moved much, do you just throw them away like this?" The sister said not to eat the rest. Xiao Li then said, "Auntie, don't throw it first, let me take it with you when I leave?"

We don't know why she even ate and took it, now her life is better, there is no need to eat leftovers! And they are not the kind of people who live a hard life, but Xiaoli's habit of saving has left a good impression on my heart!

When Xiaoli left in the afternoon, I also specially asked her to take away the leftover meals! Who knew that his sister and son's faces were green, and the son said that he was eager to dig a pit brick to go in, saying that I was too ashamed. Xiaoli may just be talking, but I really ask people to take the garbage away!

My sister also said that I was pulling the back of my son The girl's conditions are so good, so rare, I do this as if I look down on people!

Back home, my son gambled with me to tell my wife about this matter, and my wife also reprimanded me for being superfluous, and a very good marriage made me mess up. I think it's not because of a word!

I asked my son to contact Xiaoli more, but my son sent a message to Xiaoli through WeChat, but it was deleted by the other party. I was even more incredible. So I called my sister to ask about the situation. Sister said, in fact, we are all wrong, Xiaoli is not because I let her take away the leftovers to be unwilling to associate with her son, she feels that she can not integrate into our family, she is a teacher, teaching and educating people must first do a good job of themselves, her family conditions are good, but has been thrifty and thrifty, but also very loving, she gave the leftovers to those stray cats and dogs. She said she felt her son was being so ashamed of the waste at dinner! She couldn't stand such men and families! So there is no need to continue to associate.

The son was very angry when he knew it, and he felt that it was just a leftover meal, as for it! But I comforted my son: "Xiaoli is a thrifty and kind girl, and our family is not blessed to marry such a daughter-in-law. No matter how rich you are in the future, don't forget the fine traditions! ”

My wife and son both said that I was confused and did not speak to myself.

People say, am I really wrong? #情感故事 #

#Shimen Emotional Harbor #Hello! From your story, I like this kind of girl, as a teacher, she leads by example, full of positive social energy! Your son's consciousness is low, no way. Two people have different concepts and will not be happy even together! I hope that your son can take this as a precept and inherit more good traditions and habits in the future! I believe that he can also find a girl who is consistent with his own three views! Find happiness!

As parents, you must also have a good education while raising your children. In the face of things, we must adhere to our own position! You are not wrong, I hope your wife and son can understand you!