I have been helping my daughter with her children for 5 years, and recently I have been sick, and I really don't have the energy to take my grandson, so I called my mother to come and take care of her grandson

I have been helping my daughter with the child for 5 years, recently I was sick, I really don't have the energy to take my grandson, so I called my mother to come and take care of her grandson, I didn't expect what my mother said, it really stunned me! So I also made a decision!

I'm 62 years old, my husband is 64 years old, and my husband now retires for 7,000 yuan a month because he's a civil servant and I didn't go to work when I was 50. So I didn't have a pension, but my husband and I had a good relationship! Lived for decades, never had a fight!

My husband and I only have one daughter, so we are very fond of her, my daughter has been obedient since she was a child, learning well, after how to cultivate, my daughter did not fail us and was admitted to college. After graduating from college, I worked and found a boyfriend.

Later, my daughter brought my boyfriend home, and I was still very satisfied with his appearance, but his family and my wife were not very satisfied. His parents divorced when he was very young and he grew up with his father!

Later, we also persuaded our daughter, but the daughter said: He loves me and is good to me, as for how his parents are, it doesn't matter, the future life is the two of us, as long as we can be happy!

Listening to my daughter say this, it seems to make sense, and my wife and I are not saying anything!

Later, when we talked about marriage, both of our parents got together, and before we could mention the bride price, his father said: My mother and I have long been divorced, I raised him alone, it is not easy for him to go to college, and now I also have a new family, and my wife also has a son, so I can only pay 30,000 yuan for the bride price! His mother went on to say, "I'm married now, too." I don't have a job and I don't make any money. I don't have any points! I can only wish them happiness together!

In fact, I also know the situation of their family, as for the bride price does not matter, we have a daughter, as long as they can be happy together, we do not want the bride price.

Before getting married, the son-in-law did not buy a house, my wife and I gave 200,000 yuan, plus the son-in-law himself also had some savings, so he paid a down payment to buy a marriage house!

After the daughter got married, she became pregnant the next year, because the house my daughter bought and we were all in the same city, so most of the time during the pregnancy was in my house, because the son-in-law had to go to work, she was bored at home alone, in our house, I made a meal every day, the son-in-law came back to eat, and the daughter did not have to bother to cook!

Until the daughter gave birth to a child, I moved to my own home, the daughter was in her house to take care of her during the confinement period, the father-in-law, and the mother came once, considering that they are far away, it is inconvenient to go back and forth, we did not blame him!

The grandson, just turned one year old, the daughter went to work, the daughter said: Mom, you will help with the child at home in the future! I want to go to work!

I said, "Okay, who called you my daughter?" Your in-laws can't count on it!

Later, I took care of my grandson at home, and my grandson was also very well-behaved, and I managed all the affairs of the family, and my daughter and son-in-law worked every day to earn money, and they would give me living expenses every month.

A few years passed in the blink of an eye, and my grandson was about to enter the first grade, but I was sick! The headache was severe, go to the hospital for examination, the doctor said: to rest well, do not tired. Prescribed me medicine. Take a look at the observation for a few days!

I had no choice but to call my mother, and I said: I have a bad headache lately, please take care of the child for a few days, I will rest for a while!

Unexpectedly, my mother said: I have never brought a child, my son was brought by his father when he was young, you call his father!

I said, "This is your grandson too!" Why can't you help with two days!

My mother said: I don't have time, I still have to go to work! Let me take the kids too, give me 3000 bucks a month!

After hearing my mother's words, I said: How do you mean to say it, take your own grandson, you still have the face to ask for money, what is the difference between that and a nanny! Are you not afraid that your son will not give you a pension in the future?

But the mother said: Whoever gives birth to me will bring it, I don't expect my son to be able to give me a pension in the future, he has a conscience to raise me, and I can't do it without conscience! Before I could speak, she hung up!

After the phone hung up, the more I thought about it, the more angry I became, because they were divorced?

When my son-in-law returned, I said to him: Tomorrow you will take your own children! Or ask your parents to help you bring, I'm not in good health now, I can't bring you children! The son-in-law said: Mom, my parents can't come and bring us children.

I said: Then I don't care, why should I bring it?

In fact, to tell the truth, if it weren't for my headache and the doctor asking me to rest more, I wouldn't have bothered to think about it, after all, it was my own grandson, who had been brought so big since I was a child, and I wouldn't give up. But there's nothing I can do about it!

Have you ever seen a parent do this? The grandchildren are not brought, and the heart is too fierce! #Emotion# #情感咨询 #

@ Solo Journey: In fact, you don't have to care so much, the reason why you pay, is not because you are sad for your girlfriend, son-in-law?

You are not in good health now, if you can't take your children, don't bring them, let your daughter hire a babysitter! As for your son-in-law's parents, it's normal for them not to have children! They are not obligated either!

It can only be said that their approach is incomprehensible, and what are they afraid of for their son?

So in the future you have to live your own life, don't worry about it!