Many parents feel that children are difficult to manage now, that is because parents themselves are really not so reliable. When a soldier enters the army, he must undergo a physical examination, go through the college entrance examination for further study, and be a civil servant and be selected at all levels

Many parents feel that children are difficult to manage now, that is because parents themselves are really not so reliable. When a soldier enters the army, he must undergo a physical examination, go to school for further study, and go through the college entrance examination when he is a civil servant, and even if he enters the company to work, he must go through a written examination and interview. Only when parents have a very high technical content and require long-term investment, but there is basically no threshold, which has led to some tragedies.

Some people are young and unconscious, do not know the preciousness of life, after the birth of the child, born without raising, the father disappears from the world, the mother abandons the baby, and there are some hidden, the parents obviously live in a home with the child, but they turn a blind eye to the child every day, which will have a deep psychological impact on the growth of the child.

Some parents are unwilling to accept that their children are just an ordinary person, feel that their children are very cattle, put too many expectations on the children, force too many children according to their own ideas, let the children do super difficult problems, participate in unnecessary training, completely ignore the child's state, and completely ignore whether the child can catch it. Obviously his own child is a volkswagen, let him run like a Lamborghini, what will happen, not only the speed of lamborghini can not run, even the value of the public itself can not play out, maybe running and running has already broken itself.

How did it break? Children inherit the social genes of their parents, and they think about problems more or less with the shadow of their parents. Parents feel that their children are very powerful, a century-old wizard, children have a long time naturally have a contradictory feeling, on the one hand feel that they are a genius, but from the perspective of achievements are very ordinary, they fall into a long-term contradiction while affirming themselves, while denying themselves, over time, various mental illnesses will naturally come and go, making it worse.