People over the age of 50 are prone to encounter the following "four traps" and need to be treated rationally. According to the perspective of a hundred years of life, a 50-year-old person, halfway through his life, from now on, he is

People over the age of 50 are prone to encounter the following "four traps" and need to be treated rationally.

According to a hundred years of life, a 50-year-old person, halfway through his life, from now on, he is going downhill.

How to spend the rest of your life is sloppy. It's time to retire. If you don't want to prepare the necessities for the elderly, you will really regret it after the age of 60.

We should be prepared for everything and avoid bleak night scenes. People over the age of 50 are prone to encounter the following "four traps" and need to be treated rationally. Keep a clear head, do not blindly pursue the perfection of life, and get rid of the control and entanglement of desires from the depths of the heart.

01

The trap of "having true love outside of marriage".

Many people realize after divorce that there is no true love outside of marriage. It is best to match husband and wife.

However, why is extramarital love so beautiful? Why do so many people get moved? In fact, this is an illusion. When a person meets an extramarital affair, he actually begins a new love. Although it is not as beautiful as first love, it is really much better than marriage.

When in love, two people can say a lot of nonsense, will not be disgusted, and will not feel tired. No matter what trouble they encounter, they will not complain to each other, but will consult with each other and carry it together.

Marriage is different. My wife's life is very plain. When you're not bored, it's a time to argue. "I'm really bored, I really want to get a divorce," the kind of words keep popping up in my head.

Some people say, "Marriage is the graveyard of love."

Love is definitely better than marriage. However, can a 50-year-old still meet true love? Extramarital love is often short-lived and often of a deceptive nature.

My fifth cousin is 56 years old. At the age of fifty-three, he divorced because of an extramarital affair. I thought it would be better to have a family, but the other person has been reluctant to marry him.

The young man's lover, who was only in her forties, was a divorced woman with a child. Because her child needs a lot of money to go to school, she "pesters" the fifth child and asks him to give money.

In recent years, the fifth child has given his lover tens of thousands of dollars. The more he thought about it, the more wrong he became, and he decided to break up with his lover. Of course, the money won't come back, and it's impossible to get home.

A 50-year-old man who has lost his family is likely to have a bleak evening view. Don't think that "dim love" is reliable, and don't think that people who keep saying "I love you" are not greedy at all.

"Young couples always come to be companions", although this sentence is "quaint", it really works. The noisy days passed quickly. From the age of sixty, staying together until old age is happiness.

02

The trap of "disagreement is a blessing".

"Being alone is the pleasure of being alone", are you fascinated by this saying? A person who has time to read a book can live a quiet life. In the bustling city, you can still go your own way, and even go your own way.

Reality tells you that loneliness is temporary, not eternal. Happy people are gregarious, have high emotional intelligence, and are good at dealing with people.

At the door of the community where I live, there is an old man who lives alone, Uncle Wang. Uncle Wang's wife died many years ago, but he was not alone at all.

Uncle Wang has a fruit shop downstairs. The owner is a middle aged couple. Uncle Wang went to the fruit shop to help when he was bored, and he didn't need any money.

Now, Uncle Wang has made the fruit shop his home, and his life is busy. Of course, the couple was also very good to Uncle Wang. Last winter, Uncle Wang was hospitalized for a month because of a recurrence of an old injury, and they were all taking care of him.

Since Uncle Wang was "busy", his son had a lot less trouble and was more at ease when he went out to start a business.

Uncle Wang also joined an erhu band and often went to group activities. He was cheerful and had a lot of friends.

Blindly pursuing "unsociable" is not a good thing. For the elderly, it is a blessing to have three or five friends together to say hello.

So the pursuit of disharmony by people over 50 is also a trap. People need to live in groups, and they also need the attention of others. "Loneliness and old age" is fate.

03

The trap of "having money can make ghosts grind".

Someone said, "After the age of 50, people realize that raising children is not reliable, but they still have to rely on houses, money, and wives."

Many people attach great importance to money, thinking that with money, there is everything. So at the age of 50, working hard, working hard to start a business, working overtime and staying up late is a common thing, and it is also common to drink with customers.

In fact, when people are over 50, health is the greatest asset. When a person loses his health, he loses everything.

"Greed is not enough to swallow an elephant", greed for money often makes people lose themselves, get carried away, and even do some strange things.

Give up the desire for money, stick to health, exercise, and live your old age, and you'll be happier. Rich people in wheelchairs are certainly not as happy as ordinary runners.

In addition, in order to make money, some people have fallen into the trap of "greedy and cheap, eating big losses", which is really worrying.

04

The trap of "resignation".

After the age of fifty, fate has become a foregone conclusion, even if it is difficult to change, there is no way.

More and more people believe that "everything is fate, and no one else can do anything". In fact, many people "only know one thing and don't know the other" about fate.

A person should accept his own destiny, not resigned to fate, but recognize his own destiny, find the crux of its development, adjust his direction in time, and then strive to change it.

To see one's destiny is to change one's destiny, not to let it go. For a 50-year-old, if his fate is still bitter, then he should strive to change his fate. From now on, it's not too late.

Pushkin said: "If life deceives you, don't be sad, don't be anxious!" Melancholy days need to be calm: believe it, happy days will come! ”

From the age of 50, we must prepare pension materials and money in time to support our families and care for our families.

Life, understood with conventional thinking, tends to get into an impasse, break the routine, keep a clear head, and anything difficult can be easily solved.