Women should understand that the man does not contact you, it is not that he likes to be alone, people are just connecting with people who really like it.
"The road knows the horsepower, and the people's hearts are seen for a long time." Feelings are good or not, who will accompany you to the end, time will tell you.
If a man loves you as he pleases, even if life is particularly sad, he will not leave, which is a responsibility. If he doesn't take you to heart, sooner or later he will leave. This is true of husband and wife, lover or lover.
Therefore, I want to tell you: when the opposite sex gets along, if the man "breaks the connection" at these times, it means that the fate will be over.
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When you are alone and helpless, he breaks the connection, to hurt you to the end.
I've seen the saying: "When a person is isolated, they need a hug." ”
Let's say someone in a group loses their phone. Then, all the people thought that you took it, and you had to take it out. You can't argue with it, and it's useless to ask anyone for help.
At this point, there was a man who stood up and said with great certainty, "I believe in you." ”
In a word, like a warm embrace, let you have a dependence, and the tears of grievance can be sprinkled in his arms.
Two people in love are like two grasshoppers tied together, even if anyone makes a mistake, they need to bear it together.
Some men, when you are most helpless, suddenly disappear, he can only enjoy the blessings with you, can not empathize with you. You need him, but he stands with the people who isolate you and kicks you hard.
Who wouldn't, who wouldn't, who could send charcoal in the snow?
Relying on the mountains, relying on everyone to run, when a woman, living into such a situation, it is estimated that she will never believe in love again.
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When you are transforming and upgrading, he is disconnected, that is, "the Tao is different and does not conspire with each other."
One of my friends, Old Li, was in the civil service for many years and was still a small clerk.
Old Li's wife, who also works in the system, has been mixed from an ordinary employee to a cadre at the level of a section.
In December last year, Lao Li's wife was included in the selection of cadres at the department level.
For some reason, Old Li's face changed drastically, and he inexplicably quarreled with his wife. After that, Old Li often went fishing and could not go home for several days in a row.
In Lao Li's view, his wife mixed better than him, very faceless; ordinary family days, with a stable income, can be, no need to struggle; worried about his wife's side, around a lot of people doing things, looks very beautiful.
One goes up, one goes down, how can the fate of husband and wife be long-lasting?
The opposite sex gets along, it is like two iron absorbing stones, as long as one person progresses, the other person will follow, if not, it is a sign of parting ways.
If it is a couple, then the speed of breaking up is faster, after all, there is no formal contract between each other, and it is enough to shoot two and scatter.
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When you are stretched, he breaks the link, making it clear that "money" is more important than feelings.
Xiao Hong, a female writer of the Republic of China, when she was 19 years old, opposed the arranged marriage of her parents, got rid of the entanglement of her fiancé Wang Enjia, left her hometown, and went to Beiping to study.
Because she couldn't afford to pay the tuition, she had to go back to her hometown.
Later, Wang Enjia accompanied Xiao Hong to beiping to study again, and the two also lived in the hotel together in the name of husband and wife.
Suddenly, half a year passed, and they owed a large amount of accommodation and living expenses. Wang Enjia pretended to go to his hometown to get money, and left Xiao Hong, who was pregnant with Liujia, in the hotel, regardless of it.
Since then, Wang Enjia has evaporated in the human world.
It is often said, "If you want to see a person clearly, talk to him about money." ”
It is true that money can test a person's "heart". If not, you can also test his economic strength, money.
A reliable man will definitely give you money, even if he is poor, there is no exception.
Husband and wife get along, money is the stepping stone of the family, saving is the bottom; lovers get along, spending money is a romantic life, making money is a good start.
Men who don't give money, don't really; when you need money, he plays missing and is extremely vicious.
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When you are in pain, he breaks the connection, which is "throwing baggage".
Bai Wei, who is also a female writer in the Republic of China, has a particularly difficult road of love.
Since she knew Yang Sao, the world of feelings has never stopped.
In 1928, Bai Wei and Yang Sao prepared for the wedding and sent a happy post, but Yang Sao ran away.
Moreover, Yang Sao's departure is very infuriating and painful. One day, Yang Sao sent Bai Wei to see a doctor, and halfway through, he left and did not come back.
Bai Wei fainted in the street and was rescued by well-wishers.
"Writer's Impressions" recorded: "Bai Wei often took those board cars that went into the city to sell small dishes, in order to save a few money, once she was very ill, she did not eat for five or six days in a row, and no one went to see her, she was so hungry that she couldn't stand it, and she struggled to get up to buy bread." ”
How can people eat grains without getting sick? People who truly love you, no matter whether they live or die, will not leave. In the midst of illness, his companionship and care are precious.
When love becomes affection, husband and wife or lover will become "nannies" and help them come out of their sickness.
Men leave when you are sick, on the one hand, they are afraid of spending too much money and dragging themselves down; on the other hand, they don't love you enough and feel that the sick person is around and has no future.
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Conclusion.
Tu Lei said: "Girls don't believe that there are honest men in this world, only men who have no chance to be bad for the time being." Women, never believe in men's promises, that stuff is like the weather in February and August, there is no fixed number. ”
Some words seem to be very extreme, but they come from life, and they are not unreasonable. Love doesn't just say it's just a word, it requires practical action.
If he "throws you" the back of indifference, he is telling you that there will be no return. Even if you meet, you are a stranger.
Of course, you don't have to chase, and chasing is futile.
Love, need to run in both directions, women, if you meet a person, when you need it most, you will break the connection, just decisively let go, even if he is down in the future, please compound, but also carefully consider.
Women need a partner who is the one who stands shoulder to shoulder and bravely at the head of the tide, and also the person who survives the trough together.
If you don't find it, be the strongest version of yourself.
If you are strong, there are harbors of happiness everywhere.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.