At night, my wife was washing dishes, and the mobile phone she put on the desk suddenly rang, and as soon as I saw that it was my brother-in-law calling, I answered the phone. He said: Sister, I am getting married, and my girlfriend has proposed it

At night, my wife was washing dishes, and the mobile phone she put on the desk suddenly rang, and as soon as I saw that it was my brother-in-law calling, I answered the phone. He said: Sister, I am getting married, my girlfriend offered to buy me a car, we have a fancy to a 150,000 car, there is a difference of 80,000, want to borrow something from you. ”

I said to him loudly: Our family can't afford a 100,000 car, and now we commute to work every day and ride an electric car, you bought a house last year, and you have to buy a car this year. 5 years ago, your sister got sick and had surgery and asked you to borrow money, and you shirked that there was no money, you didn't have so much money, why buy such an expensive car? To borrow so much no, borrow up to 500, if need I will turn it over to you immediately.

The brother-in-law said: My sister, I am looking for my sister, not you, you give my sister the mobile phone, I told her. ”

I said, "I mean to mean your sister, 500 has, don't you want it?"

I had just finished speaking and my brother-in-law hung up the phone angrily. Only then did I realize that my wife had come out of the kitchen, and she looked at me angrily, and her face was particularly unpleasant.

She said to me angrily, "This is my brother!" If you don't want to lend him money, you don't have to talk so ugly and humiliate him! Besides, he had an emergency before he opened his mouth to ask us for help, and our family did not fail to take out 80,000, and it was not enough to lend him.

I don't want to make me quarrel with my wife for other people's family affairs and affect our feelings as a couple. So I kept silent. Who expected my wife to talk more and more vigorously, chattering in front of me for half a day.

I suddenly yelled at my wife with all my strength: What he said to me 5 years ago, I just took this opportunity to return it to him today. You can choose to forgive him, but I am like a bone in the throat, and I can't let go of it for the rest of my life. My wife said, "That's because of my parents, he didn't lend us money." ”

My wife and I were each other's first love, and we loved each other very much, but because my family was very poor and two brothers, my father-in-law and mother-in-law did not agree, but my wife insisted on being with me. I still remember her parents saying: Whether her wife is alive or dead in the future has nothing to do with her mother's family, and also told her brother-in-law not to contact us.

I am an accountant, my wife is a kindergarten teacher, 5 years ago a scorching summer, that weekend, we rode out to buy things together, unfortunate things happened, my wife accidentally fell down on her bicycle, shed a lot of blood, fortunately sent to the treatment in time without life danger.

The doctor said surgery was needed right away. Need 60,000, when we just came out to work, almost no savings, I was in a hurry to fidget, I thought that the place where my brother-in-law worked, less than 1 km from the hospital, I called him and asked him to send money to his wife to pay for the operation.

Who expected the brother-in-law to reply to me that he had no money and had not yet been paid. It's only $1,000, so let me find another way.

The brother-in-law works in an investment company and earns 10,000 a month, how can he not have money? I just don't want to borrow money.

I was very disappointed after listening to it, and I had the anxiety and despair that I had jumped out of the building. Later, my eldest brother took a car 5 kilometers to send me over, after the treatment of the wife is fine, go home to recuperate for two months to heal, the doctor said that if it is a step late, the consequences are unimaginable, I now think about it and still feel palpitations.

The wife said that so many years have passed, why should she be more truthful about the old past of that year? I heard that he was later dismissed by the boss because of work mistakes, it seems that it is not easy, so many years my brother has been difficult to open his mouth to borrow money from us, you not only did not borrow but also counted him down, is it too much?

My wife can not worry, but I can't, I only know that he did not lend money to my wife for surgery, and today I can also buy him a car without borrowing money.

I don't think I'm doing anything wrong, and everybody says, am I doing this wrong?