As the old saying goes, a son-in-law is half a child. Mother-in-law's family for the New Year, do you have good food and drink?
Compared with the general mother-in-law, the East On netizen @ hot water bottle Xiansen This mother-in-law is a bit humiliating.
What's going on? And listen to the poster:
Every time I accompany my wife and children to her mother's house for the New Year, I feel that I and my children are outsiders and can't integrate into my wife's house (my wife's Anhui). No one cares what we need.
My wife's family relatives and our communication are all speaking dialects, completely do not understand, every time when listening to the same book, did not think of using Mandarin and our communication, in my family my family relatives and my wife communication are speaking Mandarin, my grandparents did not go to school and my wife to communicate with my wife to try to speak Mandarin.
In addition to the meal time, my father-in-law and my mother-in-law are on the mahjong table, so the mother-in-law cooks rice every time from the mahjong table in a hurry, and the rice can only be said to be edible, not delicious, and then go to the mahjong table as soon as the rice is eaten.
My wife also often goes to play mahjong, leaving me and my two children at home with big eyes and small eyes, I don't know what I am doing with the children, my wife and family ignore the existence of me and the children at other times except when eating.
Usually, when we don't have time, my mother-in-law often asks us to take our children to play and say that she misses our children. Now when the child can play at home, and no matter what the child runs to play mahjong, I really don't know what to think.
The most embarrassing thing is me, the language is not clear, the life is not familiar with the disease is coming out! Every year I say I don't want to go, my wife still has to be anxious with me, go and don't care about us, very depressed!
How do Oriental Hotline netizens see it
@baby Mama 521:
I was out of town, and every time I went back to my mother's house, my husband and children quarreled to go back. I won't let them go back. There is indeed a problem you are talking about. Husbands and children will be bored. A few people who have no feelings, there is no need to grievance their husbands and children for the sake of face.
@Ningbo Little People 2020:
There is a kind of person, called the son-in-law, like me, going to the mother-in-law's house is two words boring.
@lee7939：
The foreign wife you are looking for yourself is that you are not well considered; you listen to your wife yourself, it is your lack of courage, you go not to rub mahjong, it is your emotional intelligence that is not enough, you know that you are not good and always have to go, it is your own guilt. As long as there is one change, there is no such problem.
@Ren... I:
The last place I want to go in the New Year is my wife's house.
@rubyshu：
That's your own birth, you can find your own program to integrate into it, you position yourself as an outsider, and the New Year's Festival is not how to relax by mahjong play.
@ph002：
The rustic style and home style are really important! Playing mahjong in these places in Hunan, Anhui and Jiangxi is very powerful! My wife's family has no one to play mahjong, and the New Year is also a chat! They really want to have children, go back and play with them! Until now, I have not returned to Tianjin for two years! Even if I can go back in the summer vacation, it is almost 3 years!
@doy：
Very understandable, my father can only see it when eating, the rest are playing mahjong, really don't want to go back to such a home.
Doesn't your family have the same mother-in-law?
Let's talk about it
Source: Oriental Forum | Edit: Pico soy milk