The Chinese nation has always been a country of etiquette, and its fine etiquette culture and tradition have a long history.
As the most grand traditional festival, during the Spring Festival, it is indispensable to visit relatives and friends, and gather for dinner. At this time, it is a good time to educate children on gratitude and civility and etiquette.
How to treat people and things appropriately? How to eat at the table is not rude...
Moms and Dads don't forget to give their children such a "etiquette lesson"!
Guest etiquette
Be polite to people and things
The host brings tea (water), gets up and catches it with both hands, and thanks. When the elders give the red envelopes, they should take them with both hands and say thank you to the elders.
Take the red packet, never open it in person, the best thing to do is to put the red packet away and put it in your parents' pockets or your own pockets.
Don't move other people's things
Before visiting the home of relatives and friends, children should be taught that it is impolite to move other people's things casually, and if they want to play with toys or read books, they must obtain the consent of the owner.
Nursery rhyme: Little guest
Go to your house, be a guest,
Before entering the house, please knock on the door.
Meet the host, say hello, adult chat without disturbing.
Goodbye goodbye, everyone praised me for being polite.
Tips:
Before going to someone else's house, you should confirm in advance whether the host is at home, and after agreeing on a good time, be careful not to be late.
When leaving, say goodbye to the owner's family in a gentle tone, and ask the master to stay behind, not to send it away.
Hospitality etiquette
Treat guests with kindness
When there are guests, parents should guide and encourage children to greet guests kindly and actively, and after guests enter the house, older children can do some simple hospitality work, such as: greeting guests to sit down, pouring tea for guests, etc.
When guests talk to themselves, be generous, sincere and polite, and not perfunctory. When talking to people, keep your eyes on each other and don't bow your head or hide to the side.
Nursery rhyme: Today I am in charge
The guest arrives and welcomes him,
Please sit down, please drink tea.
The guest goes, send him,
Wave your hand and say goodbye!
Adults don't interject
When guests talk to their parents, children cannot casually interject, and if there is something wrong, they can say "Can you bother me?"
Don't be stingy about sharing
If children come together, they should learn to share their toys and snacks generously. Because, delicious things are shared with everyone, it is more delicious to eat, fun toys are shared with everyone, and it will be happier to play!
Nursery rhyme: Humility
Little baby, understand humility,
Good stuff, share with.
Contradictory, not quarrelsome,
Smile slightly, hug.
Tips:
When the guests get up to say goodbye, the child should stand up, send the guests with his parents and say, "×× goodbye, and come again when you have time!" "Better to wait until the guests have left before closing the door.
Dining etiquette
During the Spring Festival, dinners are frequent. Parents can pay attention, don't think that the child is young, you can let it enjoy everyone's pampering, become the table "little bully".
Because, every detail in the dining process reflects a person's upbringing.
Parents should cultivate their children's civilized "eating appearance" from an early age, and cannot only pay attention to the nutrition on the table and forget the upbringing on the table.
Nursery rhymes: Share the joy
Your little car, borrow me to play.
His chocolate, give you a piece.
My good mood, to everyone.
We love to share, happy friends and many.
Don't be exclusive to the delicious stuff
Before eating, you can tell your child like this: "Everyone likes good things, so there are good things on the dinner table, you don't eat them all by yourself, you have to learn to share them with others." ”
Dining etiquette is kept in mind
When eating at parties, it is often encountered at a round table with a turntable, and if there is a difference between the elder and the young at the dinner table, a dish should first be turned to the host, the guest of honor, and His Holiness, and after it is enjoyed, the others will slowly turn the turntable. Also, the turntable should be turned clockwise and should not be rotated quickly.
When eating, you should chew slowly, try not to make a sound, do not swallow, and do not speak with rice;
When picking vegetables, try to take the nearest dish to yourself, do not pick it over and over on the plate; after eating, collect the residue into the garbage bin, set the chair straight, and politely say to the people on the table: "Please use it slowly." ”
Nursery rhyme: The little gentleman at the table
Let's eat, help set the dishes,
Don't eat first, wait for the adults to come.
When eating, be quiet and silent,
To leave the table, say please eat slowly.
Whether in their own home or relatives' homes, when eating, they should sit in the order of the elderly first and the younger ones, let the elders move chopsticks first, and parents should encourage their children to serve meals to the elders.
When visiting someone else's home, the hosts should thank them for their hospitality, regardless of whether the meals prepared are to their taste.
Telephone etiquette
Nursery rhyme: The phone is ringing
The phone rings, the jingle bells, pick up the phone and weigh you first.
Hello Hello Who are you looking for? I'm Mommy's Little Helper,
I will convey your words, please don't worry!
When the child answers the phone, he will say polite words such as "Hello", "Please ask", "Please wait";
The phone rings, do not answer immediately, it is better to answer it after three rings;
When answering the phone, the voice should be softer and not shout loudly on the phone.
Answer questions and answers when answering the phone, and be generous when answering questions. If you need to tell Mom and Dad the contents of the phone, be sure to listen carefully to the phone, or take notes, don't forget to say "goodbye" after answering the phone, and then gently hang up the phone.
During the Spring Festival, parents can take advantage of this opportunity to let their children cultivate a grateful heart, experience the beauty of family affection and the happiness of life.
It should be noted that good etiquette for parents is the most direct and effective education for children.
Because their every move is subtly influenced by the daily behavior of parents, if they want their children to become a delicate and courteous person, parents must make a good example!
Finally, I wish you all a Happy New Year and a pleasant and wonderful holiday!
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