My husband's brother called us last night and said that my nephew and daughter-in-law were going to come to my house today. The nephew got married last May and we have our first year of marriage here

My husband's brother called us last night and said that my nephew and daughter-in-law were going to come to my house today. The nephew got married last May, and we have the custom of inviting a new wife for the first year of marriage. It is that the newlyweds go to the main elder's house to recognize the door, and the elders prepare a red envelope for the new daughter-in-law. Since my mother-in-law died and three years have passed, we have not returned to the village for the New Year, and we have been living in the city.

It was a matter of course to invite nephews and daughters-in-law, but I did not let them come, because the daughter who married according to the custom on the third day of the first month of the first month had to return to her mother's house. So I think this time arranged by my brother and sister-in-law is not appropriate, I want to go home to see the old woman, the old woman is more than 80 years old, if I don't go, she must be standing in the doorway looking at it. Later, we decided to go to my mother's house in the morning and go back to my hometown at noon.

As soon as our car pulled into the alleyway where my mother's house was, I saw the old woman standing in the doorway looking at the road we were coming. My sister-in-law was also ready to go to her mother's house, and my brother said that no one was cooking for us today, and I said you go, we are self-reliant, we don't need you to cook.

I think my sister-in-law's mood when she returns to her mother's house is the same as mine, and I can't let her stay and entertain guests, and then say that the daughter who is married is the master when she returns to her mother's house.

Bringing gifts to the three fathers and cooking with my mother, my mother asked me why my two sisters didn't come? I said they wouldn't come today, they wouldn't come until tomorrow. The mother said disappointedly: "Two cow eyebrows to make eye goods, today are not good?" The mother probably felt that the family next door was also three daughters, and they came back every year on the same day of the third day of the first year. Happily chatted with her mother cooking.

In the past, the two sisters also had to entertain guests at the in-laws' house in the morning, and they would come to their mother's house at noon. Last night I called my second sister and said that if she went back to her mother's house, I would carry her today. She said she was going to her sister-in-law's house, and I didn't say anything. Last year I invited her back to her mother's house with me, and she said that she was fucking her daughter to her house, and I scolded her at the time: "Is it more important for you to fuck your daughter than your mother?" The old mother is more than 80 years old, and every year on the third day of the first year, she looks forward to her daughter. I sometimes don't understand, my two sisters are running 6 people, how can they be so ignorant? Both men made a mess of their marriages and even affected their children. In the past, I used to invite them to dinner and chat together, and then I saw that they talked about family conflicts all day long. I advised them to tolerate each other in the family, and they all felt as if they had been wronged at home and would not listen to advice. The eldest sister and her two sons quarreled for three days and two days, and the second sister has been fighting cold wars with her brother-in-law for many years. I said you're either going to get better or get divorced, what's the good of torturing each other like this? But they never separated and refused to live well, and then they saw them day by day like a complaining woman, I didn't want to be with them, all day long affected by negative emotions, and I was also in a bad mood.

I remember once when we were together, they first said that I was not good, and then they said that my husband was not good. I also know that my husband is very ordinary, he is just a small clerk, can only guarantee that I have no worries about food and clothing, and will not be rich and expensive. But I think that ordinary life is like this, and the family is healthy and harmonious. They belittled me and degraded my husband, and I put up with it. Later, as he spoke, he began to belittle my son, saying that my son was not as handsome as their son and not as smart as their son. I finally couldn't take it anymore and I said, "Do you see how you still don't look like an aunt?" I admit that my son is not as handsome as the son of the second sister, and the son of the eldest sister is also very smart. But it's not bad for my son to be educated. The eldest sister's son is still relatively well-behaved and obedient, the second sister's son gets along with relatives OK, in front of her is particularly rebellious and truant from school, before she often let me persuade her son. With these two sisters I am really speechless!

Looking at the lonely old lady and our family of three, it is impossible to feel nothing in my heart! At noon, I went back to my hometown to stay at my brother's house for a while, sent a red envelope to my niece and daughter-in-law, and hurried back to my mother's house to make lunch for my wife. If I didn't come today, how sad would it be for the old lady to watch someone else's girlfriend go back to her mother's house alone! Alas, I was also drunk with such a sister on the stall! From the two of them, I deeply understand: character determines destiny! No one in the world will always let us, and we must tolerate each other in the family. Look at the other person's strengths and don't feel like you're always right. Live your own life and help your loved ones and friends when your ability permits. Only by honoring the elderly can we become a role model for our children.