The mother-in-law has always had a heart in her heart, that is, she is worried about her half-sister who has not been seen for ten years, or that sister went to celebrate her birthday when she was eighty years old, and this year she should turn ninety.
My aunt's family lives in Xiangtan, and in reality I have no contact with my in-laws' family, and there has been no contact between the cousins of the two sides in ten years (I also saw this aunt for the first time today). I heard that the old sister (aunt) is now living in a nursing home, hearing impairment, want to communicate can simply rely on writing, the mother-in-law is more anxious, must personally go to the sister to visit the New Year.
When we entered the room told by the staff, when the mother-in-law saw her sister (a person lying alone in the bed, seeing someone come to sit up violently), she actually said twice in a row, "This is not, this is not", "The wrong person", "The face is completely wrong"... That scene was really embarrassing, and after being confirmed by the staff, how sad and heart-wrenching that situation was.
My hands clasped together, and when I heard my mother-in-law's name with difficulty, I actually repeated it twice, and soon I burst into tears, and then I cried...
More than half an hour of communication (shouting loudly, writing words, etc.), sometimes grabbing this hand, sometimes grabbing that hand, leaving still long and unwilling to let go... It is estimated that we will not be calm for a long time after we leave.
People are old, their health is not good, to some extent, they may become a burden to others or society, it is a little sad to think about, think about what kind of situation will be when we are old? Sometimes I really don't dare to think about it, I don't want to think about it.
#Bye-bye#Chinese-style affection# #红红火火过大年 #
