The troubles of older single young women returning home for the New Year must be asked every year "Have you found a partner?" "Why not find someone?" "Don't look too high, almost get it, people are in this life."

The trouble of older single young women returning home for the New Year

Every year you must be asked", "Have you found a partner?" "Why not find someone?" "Don't look too high, it's almost enough, it's impossible for people not to get married in this life, why don't you get married alone?" Answer "No, don't want to find, don't want to settle, not married a person can also live well, or even better." But parents and relatives said that they did not understand, introduced you to the object, said that although this man is like this, but that way and that, in short, it is a meaning of "don't be too picky, just be a man." "Feeling powerless and tired in the heart, do people have to get married when they are alive?" Obviously, their own marriage is not much happiness, every day noisy and noisy after a lifetime, why are they so keen to let others follow in their footsteps? What does marriage bring to girls? In addition to the damage caused to the body by having children, having to deal with complex mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships and relationships with relatives and friends, raising children, and doing a lot of housework, what is left, marriage makes people lose themselves, and childbirth makes the human body weak and also worries about disconnection with society, so how has society ever been considerate of women, and how women have no hesitation in entering marriage. Now times are different, it is not necessary to get married to live a lifetime, marriage should be based on the willingness of two fit souls to spend a lifetime together, not something that must be possessed when they are older. It is hoped that society can give the elderly unmarried people corresponding respect and tolerance, rather than blind criticism and accusation. I hope that parents and relatives can truly respect and care for the elderly unmarried people, and not force, ridicule, and immoral kidnapping. I hope that our elderly unmarried young people will finally get married based on their own will and carefully consider their subsequent choices, rather than the result of following the current, being wrapped up in the thoughts of others, being overwhelmed, losing themselves, and obeying the persuasion of their parents and relatives. #What marriage can do for us ##大龄未婚 #