I woke up early today, I was still sleepy, but I habitually opened the headlines and suddenly saw 20 message reminders with bright eyes! Open a look, is yesterday to reply to a comment from a netizen, the author

I woke up early today, I was still sleepy, but I habitually opened the headlines and suddenly saw 20 message reminders with bright eyes! Open a look, is yesterday to reply to a comment from a netizen, the author replied to like and followed me, and 19 people liked.

I found that some of the articles I've written in recent years speaking for men have immediately had a lot of male supporters. I vaguely feel that after the awakening of the weak women led by Tu Lei in those years, due to the intensification of feminism in recent years, women have completely become the king of the mountain in the family, so that the men in the marriage can work hard and work hard at home without stopping, while being cautious at home (I am afraid of offending the empress), or angry but quarreling with women, and finally have to compromise secretly, because they know that they cannot afford to lose (ordinary people marry a daughter-in-law has paid everything, and the tradition of Chinese men is still very face-loving), so they live a long-term depressed life! Therefore, some couples also have diseases directly due to anger (such as hyperthyroidism, hypertension, stomach disease, heart disease, cerebral thrombosis, cerebral hemorrhage, etc.). Therefore, the strange development of feminism not only makes men suffer, but at the same time, while men and women struggle, women themselves will get sick! You will find that such a family, how much money to earn, is finally handed over to the hospital!

So I want to further think about and analyze this topic today, of course, my mind and experience vision are limited, and I am not willing to bother too much, so I will leave more thinking and improvement to netizens!

Speaking of the theme, why is female boxing so crazy now? One reason for this is this: "Men are afraid of losing women!" In fact, in marriage, love should be mutual, because "mutual" can be equal. However, in reality, there are many men or women who play the role of "licking dogs" in love in order to get each other. And some people in this role have even played it for a lifetime.

Take men as an example: I think there are three types of men who are very eager to have a female partner and afraid of losing the woman around them:

1, parents divorced, especially boys living with their father, he is very eager to find maternal love in another girl, he is eager to leave his stepmother life and have a home of his own.

2, due to the hormonal factors of adolescence, he is very fond of young and beautiful girls, so he will find ways to chase. But when he got his hands on it, he found that she had become a hot potato! Because girls have to "love" all the time! Especially those frivolous material women, who do not get sustained money and emotional value", they will not agree! Some men have no way, they have no financial ability, only to go home as robbers to ask their parents!

3, since he thinks that he is poor in appearance and economic conditions, he will have to pay more to win the favor of women.

In short, these types of men, especially the first category, are particularly afraid of losing women. Marrying a daughter-in-law will give everything for her. But the more frightened he was, the more the woman saw through this, the more she pinched his weakness, and she used him as a tool to make money, using this as a chip to maintain the marriage relationship between the two people. At first, this man wanted to find a wife who could have a sense of security and love, but he did not want to, because he was passive for fear of losing his marriage, and became a passive defender of marriage. To put it bluntly, men want to get in marriage, but they lose it. (Even people with money have become women.) A man's innate desire to dominate makes him unwilling, so the family will often be at war because of power and money! Because at this time, women will feel that the man has "changed his heart" or "showed his true face". In fact, she did not know that the initial love was all thought, and only those who understood human nature and could conform to human nature could become long-term beneficiaries in marriage. But a woman's nature is an emotional animal, and she wants "love"! You didn't see, women are old to find objects and want men to spend money! She doesn't know that the man who is willing to invest a lot in you, he is the one who wants to eat you! Because it is human nature to give and not want to give it all for free. Especially men, who invest a lot of money, he has the idea of buying you out. Why is it that after you get married, you force his money and he will be reluctant? That's why.

Smart women, wise women will never do things against a man's humanity! She will go along with the nature of men! It is advisable to let the man fulfill his wishes (to be a parent). In fact, in addition to worrying about financial management, this parent usually has to save money and use it frugally, because "the family does not know the price of chai rice." You have to think carefully about family expenses, and you have to be thoughtful in terms of human feelings, so you have to stop making money outside, which is really a matter of bothering yourself but not getting much benefit. "Just grab the empty name of a parent, but the current woman will not give it" (this sentence was said by Professor Zeng Shiqiang of Taiwan, who has now died).

In my opinion, being a worry-free role at home, I don't know how many more years I have to live? How many years younger than someone their age? What do people live for? Just two words "worry, not tired". However, the vast majority of people, striving for this ultimate goal, live a life of "unconsciousness and tiredness.". In fact, you are not so attached, you are not so hard, and you are living in liberation in the moment.

Men should stop being afraid of losing women! Whether a person is happy or not depends on whether you have an independent and sound personality and a healthy body. You always want to rely on others to get happiness, others (especially women) she also wants to rely on you to get happiness, but when you can't balance your heart, your heart is split and half, hurt, how can you give happiness to others? Two incomplete minds together, can only be each other to tear each other up and fight continuously!