#How to deal with the soul torture of relatives # As a 92-year-old girl who has always been independent and self-reliant, although I will soon be 30 years old, my relatives have known me for so many years

#How to deal with the soul torture of relatives#

As a 92-year-old girl who has always been independent and self-reliant, although I will be 30 years old soon, for so many years, my relatives know that I am not easy to mess with, so I will not urge me to get married and have children. [Laughing and crying]

As far as my parents are concerned, they will urge me, we are old, it is impossible to accompany you for a lifetime, you still have to start a family early. Now you are still young, in good health, and greedy, when you are old, no one will play with you after your friends. Or have to have your own home and kids.

Then I told them that high school classmates of the same age and college classmates who were married, divorced, and some of them had a child, wasn't it more miserable than me?

Then we discussed why it's so easy for today's young people to get divorced. I said that most of my generation, who don't live with their parents, buy their own house, pay off their own loans, and get divorced because no one cooks or does the housework.

For example, I have a female friend, 93 years, in love for a year and married, two people free love, two love. Women look beautiful, class flower level, men look handsome and will make money, monthly income of 4-5 million, but also 93 years, 30,000 after payroll tax, plus their own financial professional will manage money, 40,000 to 50,000 per month.

Only a few months after marriage, the reason why there is a lot of noise every day is that there is no one to cook and do housework. Girls are not paid high, six or seven thousand, marketing specialists, but the daily work is not easy, 6-7 o'clock to leave work. And boys work harder, the financial industry, very brain-burning, busy time to eat.

At the beginning I said to my female friend that you can cook and let him wash the dishes, and she said that the man came home and didn't want to move at all, he was too tired. And I have such a high salary, and I cook and do housework, so why should I marry you?

Two people are only children, do not give in to each other, for this problem, the two people quarreled for a long time, and finally found the only way to solve, that is, the family does not open the fire, do not cook, ask the hourly worker to do housework.

I told my parents that this is a new type of marriage, much easier than the marriage of your generation, but the divorce rate is still very high, there are no children now, after having children, all kinds of trivial things every day will wear out the feelings to a drop.

Everyone used to be the baby of the family, why did they get married? With children, I have to do all kinds of things that have no social value?

Then I asked my parents if you would rather I get divorced and have a child or if I didn't get married.