Envy and appreciation is a benign virtue, there is envy all the time in life, envy is an instinct, envy others are excellent, envy others are better than themselves, envy others are attracted by all, but for human greed, if you fail to control this emotion of envy, it will evolve into the inferior root of adult "jealousy".
As the saying goes, "Jealousy makes people look beyond recognition", when you start to envy a person, your personality, words and even behavior will be distorted. In Ningbo, Zhejiang, there is an elderly mother "Zhang Lanzhi", because she is jealous of the happy life of her son and daughter-in-law, she will not hesitate to brutally kill her daughter-in-law.
Widowed in his early years
Zhang Lanzhi was born in 1957 in Ningbo, Zhejiang Province, grew up in a poor family environment, from childhood because the family could not afford her life, Zhang Lanzhi almost grew up eating a hundred meals, and finally forced by the gossip of people around her, Zhang Lanzhi's parents decided to give her to others.
Although Zhang Lanzhi also felt warmth in her new family, the inferiority complex brought about by being abandoned by her biological parents since she was a child made her psychology extremely fragile and sensitive.
After adulthood, Zhang Lanzhi set up her own family, and had a son "Wu Ping", but unfortunate things never stopped happening, shortly after the birth of her son, Zhang Lanzhi found that her husband was looking for a new love outside, and Zhang Lanzhi with a glass heart was heartbroken, but she did not choose divorce, but turned this painful emotion into doting and invested in her son.
In Wu Ping's childhood, Zhang Lanzhi was almost meticulous to Wu Ping, and even slept next to her son.
After graduating from Wu Ping University, Wu Ping brought his girlfriend Zhao Yang home and met his mother, Zhang Lanzhi knew that his son had also reached the age of marriage, and at the same time he liked this lively and sweet little girl very much, and soon after Wu Ping and Zhao Yang successfully entered the palace of marriage and gave birth to a child.
Jealousy is the beginning of a nightmare of original sin
The two children have their own jobs, and the children born naturally need someone to take care of them, at this time, Wu Ping's mother Zhang Lanzhi chose to move to Wu Ping's new home to help him take care of the children, but what people did not expect was that Zhang Lanzhi did not avoid suspicion, but directly moved into Wu Ping's husband and wife's room and shared a room with them.
Zhao Yang began to mind a little, but thinking that Zhang Lanzhi was to help them with their children, and that this mother was older, there might be some differences in thinking from people now, so he didn't say much.
Later, as Zhao Yang finished the confinement and began to officially resume work, because she was arranged for a long period of night shift, so at night, there were generally only two people in the family, Zhang Lanzhi and Wu Ping, this feeling made Zhang Lanzhi recall the time when she had spent time with her son, and what no one expected was that this emotion gradually evolved into jealousy with the fermentation of time.
Once, Wu Ping and his wife took advantage of the holiday and prepared to go on vacation, Zhang Lanzhi did not want to be separated from her son, so she used the reason of taking the child as an excuse to travel with Wu Ping and his wife.
During the journey, Zhang Lanzhi has always looked at the scene of Wu Ping and Zhao Yang's kindness and love in her eyes, and this beautiful scene has gradually turned into jealousy in her eyes.
In Zhang Lanzhi's eyes, there was only the scene of his son being snatched away by other women, and then he thought of Wu Ping's transformation after marriage, he didn't care so much about himself, he always took Zhao Yang with him in everything, holding Zhao Yang in the palm of his hand as a treasure, compared with himself, it was simply a heaven and an underground.
In this jealous mood, Zhang Lanzhi's psychology gradually began to distort, and then she found a small who had been imprisoned many times, and gave him 150,000 yuan to help him get rid of his daughter-in-law Zhao Yang, a small who has long been a dirty person in society, and in the face of this huge amount of money, you are naturally happy to accept this action.
Then, on February 16, 2016, in the face of the meticulous planning of gangsters and his mother-in-law, Zhao Yang tragically died under the knife of the little gangster, and Zhang Lanzhi, who thought he could regain his son's attention, only waited for the lawyer letter from his son and the arrest of the police, and finally pronounced the death penalty for murder.
epilogue:
There is nothing wrong with a mother's love for her son, but we need to face up to this kind of affection, everyone is an independent individual, even if it is a parent, can not be because of the birth and upbringing of this point can not be bottomless domination of children.
As a parent, we must do more to guide, and at the same time set a good example for our children by example, as the enlightenment teacher of our children, it is also the most influential and longest existence, if we only dominate our children at the moral high ground, then in the future, whether it is for children or parents, it is a very sad thing.
Source: Cai Xu Ai Li