The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth remains in the heart
Although Zhang Bin clearly understood that his girlfriend was a typical phoenix woman, he thought that he could slowly change her, but when the two families discussed the marriage event, at the beginning, the girlfriend's mother proposed a dowry of 400,000 yuan, and when zhang Bin's family did not agree, the girlfriend's mother borrowed the girlfriend's mouth to ask Zhang Bin's family for a dowry of 200,000 yuan. And the girlfriend actually felt that this was her mother's open side, and she was a little arrogant to Zhang Bin, but as everyone knew, Zhang Bin did not say anything after listening to it, nor did she agree, and it was not long before Zhang Bin married someone else.
Zhang Bin and his girlfriend were lovers when they were students, and they experienced the love during the campus period, the helplessness of long-distance love after graduation, and the dilemma of life after graduation.
The two have experienced so much together, according to the general situation, the next step should be to enter the palace of marriage, but for Zhang Bin, he does not want to go to this step.
When he was young and did not understand things, Zhang Bin thought that as long as two people truly loved each other, they would definitely be able to enter the palace of marriage, with the increasing age, and his girlfriend experienced more and more things, Zhang Bin gradually found that his girlfriend seemed to have some potential for a phoenix woman.
When alone with herself, the girlfriend always looks meek and listens to herself in everything, but once it involves the girlfriend's family, whether the parents are right or wrong, the girlfriend seems to have changed as a person, and she listens to what her parents say.
Therefore, Zhang Bin saw that his girlfriend was a typical phoenix woman.
But after all, as a first love, the two have experienced so many ups and downs together, Zhang Bin can't bear to give up, he decided to slowly change his girlfriend in the follow-up together.
However, Zhang Bin overestimated his own ability, perhaps because of the living environment since childhood, no matter what zhang Bin tries, he cannot change his girlfriend.
In the end, under the joint consultation of the two families, Zhang Bin's wedding with his girlfriend was put on the agenda.
Zhang Bin can only secretly pray that his girlfriend's parents can be reasonable and not mention some excessive demands.
However, unexpectedly, when the two families discussed the bride price, the girlfriend's parents actually put forward a request of 400,000 yuan, and Zhang Bin's family was obviously shocked, you know, even according to local customs, it is only half of the compromise.
But the girlfriend does not think so, she feels that it is not easy for her parents to raise themselves with hard work, and she should repay them more.
Zhang Bin said: After we get married, will we slowly filial piety to them?
The girlfriend did not agree, and she even felt that Zhang Bin's family should have to come up with a dowry of 400,000 yuan to be qualified to marry themselves.
Perhaps seeing that Zhang Bin's family has not moved for a long time, the girlfriend's parents suddenly changed their mouths, saying that as long as the 200,000 bride price is enough.
The girlfriend thought that this was her mother's tolerance and generosity, and she dropped a lot, so she said to Zhang Bin in a commanding manner: My mother said, now don't want your family so much, as long as 200,000, you can marry me.
After Listening to his girlfriend's words, Zhang Bin did not say a word and silently walked away.
A few days later, when the girlfriend received Zhang Bin's call, she thought he agreed, so she happily answered the phone, unexpectedly, Zhang Bin's first sentence made her stunned on the spot.
Zhang Bin said: I am getting married recently, if there is no need, the two of us should not contact each other again.
After Zhang Bin finished speaking, he hung up the phone and listened to the busy tone of "beep" on the phone, and his girlfriend's tears flowed out unconsciously.
If there is no way, who is willing to give up this innocent relationship, from the first love to marriage is only one foot away, choosing to break up at a critical juncture, for Zhang Bin, it is also a choice.
For his girlfriend, Zhang Bin is holding ten thousand confidence and determination to go to the end with him, but for the quality of his girlfriend Phoenix Woman, Zhang Bin is not at all able to do anything, he does not want to marry a person who is obedient to his mother's family after marriage, of course, in the face of his girlfriend's parents put forward a request for a 200,000 dowry, Zhang Bin also feels a burst of powerlessness.
Under all considerations, Zhang Bin can only give up this relationship and seek someone who really belongs to him.
Conclusion: The Phoenix woman thought that her parents' request for a dowry of 200,000 yuan was a tolerance for the boyfriend's family, but she did not expect that after hearing this request, the boyfriend actually took the initiative to break up and told her that she was about to get married.
I hope that the phoenix woman can understand some truths from this matter and stop blindly listening to the opinions of her family.