Why is there a large number of leftover women in the organ that no one takes over?

In the third- and fourth-tier cities, there are especially many leftover women in government agencies and institutions. Because, itself is admitted to the female more, and the third and fourth-tier cities basically recognize the organs and institutions, enterprises generally do not recognize.

Wang Zhiqiang is a leftover man, and he has also seen several leftover women during his blind date. When Wang Zhiqiang took the teacher examination, of the 45 people, only 4 men remained. But do you think male teachers will find female teachers? Wrong, big mistake.

Again, in government organs and institutions, more than 30 years old has really been called a leftover woman, and there are many high-level leftover women over 35 years old, and there are a lot of leftover women.

1. Demanding and look down on each other.

It is difficult for male teachers to find female teachers as girlfriends because they look down on them, are poor, and have poor jobs (except in first-tier cities). This is very simple, especially civil servants, Wang Zhiqiang has met a 32-year-old female civil servant, once tried to contact it, the result was: Do you think you are an ordinary teacher, worthy of me?

Wang Zhiqiang also met a strange woman, the first time to meet, by the way please eat, she ordered more than 400 things, in the fourth-tier small city, just two people to eat, indeed high. Later, I heard the introducer say that she was just testing whether I had any money.

Also, after seeing one, after hearing that my parents were just ordinary workers and needed a loan to buy a house, they directly bowed their heads, played with their mobile phones, and ignored me. When they were separated, they muttered at the door with the person who picked her up, and the introducer was sick and a poor ghost.

I've also met a girl who is particularly funny and straightforward about money. Because she was shorter and less educated than me, she was reluctantly willing to accept me. But when I heard that I needed a loan of 200,000 to buy a house, I immediately refused.

In fact, if you want to find good conditions, there is nothing wrong with it, and it is natural. However, judging from my experience and the situation around me, most of the time, some of the requirements are outrageous. There is a car and a house, a good long life, a good job, a good family, a high education, and so on.

What I want to say is that life is not a Korean drama, and it is not a small era. When you ask for it like a Korean drama, there is basically no hope of finding it.

2. The mentality is unbalanced and the requirements are getting higher and higher.

Because of the previous breakup, or contrast, resulting in psychological imbalance, the older the requirements, the higher.

There is such a female teacher in my school, who is very good and only child. I had seen a civil servant before, and then I was divided. After that, it is not a civil servant or a central enterprise or anything like that. It's about finding balance. And with the increase of age, the requirements are getting higher and higher, at the beginning of the township civil servants can also be, more than 30, must be municipal civil servants.

In addition, the comparison between friends is also a problem, and the boyfriend has become a capital to show off, so he is reluctant to find a low.

3. Psychological immaturity, do not understand life, will not understand each other.

Especially women who are only children or live with their families are psychologically immature and regard life as a Korean drama with wind and snow. Such a person, the character is very good, but do not know to understand the other party, the other party's feelings for you as a matter of course, not moved, slightly unsatisfactory, will be sarcastic, angry and reprimanded. Especially the satire of language and cold violence.

Wang Zhiqiang's ex-girlfriend is somewhat like this. When she was in a bad mood, she said that she would turn her face and turn her face, and in winter, because the things she bought were not satisfactory, she threw him out of the door, and he watched downstairs all night, begging for forgiveness and not being moved. The next day he asked him coldly, do you know you're wrong?

4. Parents interfere too much and demand outrageously.

In fact, in our generation, parental interference with their children is very serious. My ex-girlfriend's mother was like this, and she had to agree to everything else, otherwise she wouldn't think about it. Of course, the parents' starting point is good, but the difference in concepts leads to many problems. For example, two people go out for a meal, whether they go or not, where they go, what they eat, when they go, when they go back, and how they go. In particular, marriage is not a daughter-in-law, but a mother-in-law.

5. Socially closed, mixed ball girlfriends.

The social circle of leftover women is relatively closed. There is no contact with the outside world, so the ideas and opinions are also dusty. Especially girlfriends, since they are girlfriends, your concepts must be similar, so her advice is what you want, but it is not necessarily true and objective.

A friend of mine broke up with his girlfriend, and that's why. The reason is probably that he went out to eat, did not answer the phone, his girlfriend looked for a girlfriend, the girlfriend said that we tried to test him, so the girlfriend designed various conspiracies and tricks, the two of them got great satisfaction, but he was injured to death, and finally divided.

Feelings are used to cherish, not to test, baking, baking paste. The so-called test, many times, is actually hurting the other party's heart.

6. Suspicious, negative emotions, persecuted delusions.

Over 30 years old, the average woman is anxious. However, the more urgent the more suspicious. More distrust of men. There are a lot of men in this world who are bad, but more are ordinary people, not bad. Sometimes, all kinds of suspicion lead to harm.

That's how a friend of mine got divorced. After he got married, the woman had to control everything, suspected him, and even when he was on a business trip, he called the police to check the room to see if there was a woman. In the end, he went to the company to make trouble, wrote letters to his hometown, called the police, injured people with knives, and spread rumors. In the end, the court ruled for divorce, and she appealed on one reason, I love him, that's why.

If you don't die, you won't die.

More classic, my classmate, heard that he was married for 20 days and divorced, it is very simple, she thinks, after marriage she has the final say, otherwise you are having an affair. Finally, he took a stick and knocked the man unconscious. Divorced.

Therefore, many men are reluctant to find leftover women, not because they like young people, but because they are worried that most of them are not good at serving.