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In 2013, Mo Jinyu, a 36-year-old man from Yiyang City, Hunan Province, and his husband were married, and the two fell in love with each other and lived very happily, but such a good life was broken in one night within a few days.
It turned out that it was because Mo Jinyu got up one night, heard someone whispering, and found that it was his husband and mother-in-law who were discussing things, but the content of the matter made Mo Jinyu creepy.
Only to hear that Mo Jinyu's mother-in-law and husband Mo Jianqing actually discussed taking Mo Jinyu to Guangzhou and letting Mo Jinyu make money for them by selling his body.
And they will also take away all her possessions, leaving her penniless and unable to escape their control.
Hearing this, Mo Jinyu hurriedly packed his bags overnight, and with a frightened mood, left the home that had not lived for a long time and moved to the rental house.
So is the truth really as Mo Jinyu said? Do Mo Jinyu's mother-in-law and husband really have such thoughts?
Run away from home
After Mo Jinyu came out of the house, he moved to the rental house he rented. This rental house was dark and damp, and the environment was very poor, but it was in this environment that Mo Jinyu actually lived for two months.
During these two months, Mo Jinyu's husband also found her many times and tried to persuade her to go home, but how could a normal person stupidly follow her back after hearing such words?
Therefore, Mo Jinyu did not follow her husband home, whether it was her husband's sister and brother, or her mother-in-law.
And Mo Jinyu was still very afraid of her mother-in-law and husband, so in order to ensure her personal safety, she hid a large knife under her pillow.
The door of the rental house is also locked tightly, and the door is blocked more tightly by adding items behind the door. In this way, I live with anxiety every day.
However, living like this was not a solution, so Mo Jinyu returned to his in-laws' house accompanied by someone.
When Mo Jinyu returned to her husband's house and saw her mother-in-law, she should have been extremely scared as she said, but Mo Jinyu's performance was just the opposite.
There was not a hint of timidity on Mo Jinyu's face, not only that, she also pointed at her mother-in-law and scolded, and all kinds of ugly words came out of her mouth.
Seeing Mo Jinyu's performance like this, people can't help but wonder, is she really afraid of her mother-in-law and husband?
Find out the truth
Only to hear Mo Jinyu scolding, so that he might feel angry, so he rushed to his new room and began to smash things, shouting loudly to vent his emotions.
On the other hand, on the side of Mo Jinyu's mother-in-law, her expression was very wooden, and she was completely powerless to face the young Mo Jinyu.
In the face of Mo Jinyu's scolding, there was no way to rely on her own strength to stop her daughter-in-law's behavior, hiding to the side and crying. The already humble mother-in-law seemed even smaller at this time.
Mo Jinyu, who was still dissatisfied with bullying his mother-in-law, called her husband Mo Jianqing and asked him to go home immediately.
After receiving the call, Mo Jianqing rushed to his home in a hurry, and seeing the "battlefield" after Mo Jinyu vented just now, Mo Jianqing sighed helplessly.
Mo Jianqing is 41 years old, a generous and honest person, and is a well-known old and good person in the village, but because of his poor family conditions and his personality, he is not good at words. Therefore, as the youngest child of the Mo family, he did not marry at the age of 41.
However, at the age of 41, he ushered in a turning point in love. A 36-year-old woman named Mo Jinyu appeared in his life.
For this young man, Mo Jinyu, who could speak the Tao, quickly fell under her pomegranate skirt. And Mo Jinyu seems to be attracted by Mo Jianqing's honest personality.
So not long after the two of them knew each other, they entered the palace of marriage. After marriage, the two can be said to be relatively happy.
For this daughter-in-law, Mo Jianqing's mother was very satisfied. Thinking that her young son is finally married, it is also a wish of her own many years, and she is still looking forward to being able to hold her grandson as soon as possible.
For this hard-won daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law who has gray hair serves Mo Jinyu comfortably every day, afraid that this daughter-in-law will not be able to hold her grandson if she is not happy to run away.
Therefore, she would get up early every morning to make breakfast for Mo Jinyu, as long as it was what Mo Jinyu wanted to eat, no matter how troublesome, Mo Jinyu's mother-in-law would find a way to satisfy.
And Mo Jinyu is also pampered and proud, every day to sleep until noon before he is willing to get up, get up to eat, in this family, basically what Mo Jinyu said is what it is.
And Mo Jianqing and his mother did not care about Mo Jinyu's behavior at all, and even Mo Jianqing's mother would feel that it might be because Mo Jinyu was pregnant, so she was tired and unwilling to get up.
In their hearts, as long as Mo Jinyu can get pregnant, let them do anything. But the good times did not last long, and it was not long before Mo Jinyu ran away from home, for the reason mentioned at the beginning.
Seeing this, it should be felt that Mo Jianqing and his mother would do the beginning.
At this time, the neighbor next to him told the truth.
Mo Jinyu had been married 8 times before marrying Mo Jianqing, and each time it was not long, and the first 8 husbands were also from the same village.
What was even more frightening was that the female neighbor pointed to a house in front of her, and she said that this building was mo Jinyu's first person to marry.
Moreover, among Mo Jinyu's previous 8 husbands, only three of them have received marriage licenses, and the rest are just living together.
Mo Jinyu's second husband even told the truth about his divorce from Mo Jinyu.
It turned out that it was because Mo Jinyu did not have a word of truth in his mouth, and he was lazy and lazy every day, did nothing, and attached great importance to money, and the most important thing was that Mo Jinyu also had paranoia about being killed.
In the end, he really couldn't live with her before divorcing her. But this second husband became the most compatible person in Mo Jinyu's mouth.
And in Mo Jinyu's eyes, she divorced her second husband entirely because her second husband's ex-wife had returned, so he wanted to reunite with his ex-wife, so he divorced himself.
The two sides have their own opinions, but after many people have confirmed that It is Mo Jinyu who is lying.
It turned out that Mo Jinyu was a person who loved to lie, and he could even say that opening his mouth was a lie. After knowing this, it is not difficult to deduce that the things that Mo Jinyu said earlier about her mother-in-law and her husband wanting to take her to Guangzhou to do bad things are also made up by herself.
So Mo Jinyu, who loves money so much, has been married 8 times, is it because he wants to cheat marriage?
However, when he inquired about Mo Jinyu's mother, he found that Mo Jinyu's family ran two bamboo weaving factories, so the family's living conditions were very good, so it was impossible to cheat on marriage.
So it seems that Mo Jinyu is not cheating on marriage, so what is her ultimate goal?
It turned out that in Mo Jinyu's heart, although he valued money, what he wanted to pursue more was love, and in her opinion, the first 8 husbands were not what she wanted to find.
So she chose to marry Mo Jianqing again, but not long after she and Mo Jianqing, she felt that Mo Jianqing was not the husband she was looking for, so she had to separate.
And these things were also exposed when Mo Jianqing returned home. Mo Jinyu, who was pointed out for pain, faced her husband's questioning, and she did not deny it.
In Mo Jinyu's mouth, these divorced exs are all sorry for themselves and want to harm themselves, so it is not difficult to hear from Mo Jinyu's own words that she does have paranoia about being killed.
In her heart, her life is successful, but the only thing that makes her dissatisfied is that there is no perfect love.
So what is perfect love in her heart?
Maybe it is that every day as long as you are idle at home, and all the money earned by your husband is kept by yourself, you can do whatever you want.
For Mo Jinyu's thoughts, it can only be said that unless you are a beautiful heavenly immortal and marry a rich man, you can achieve the love she wants.
At this time, Mo Jianqing's sister-in-law also came to Mo Jianqing's home, complaining about various dissatisfaction with Mo Jinyu, and saying that Mo Jinyu had spent all the family's savings, and saw that there was nothing in this family that he could squeeze, so she left.
The quarrel grew louder and louder, and the neighbors around them gradually gathered around, and these neighbors all knew that Mo Jinyu was a person, so you said Mo Jinyu word by word.
At first, Mo Jinyu still quarreled with them, but after all, it was difficult to fight with one punch and four hands, so Mo Jinyu wanted to go back to his mother's house.
For the current marriage, Mo Jinyu does not want to continue anymore, but it is not a long time to live in a rental house, so he wants to move back to his mother's house, but now it is difficult to move back to his mother's house.
It turned out that Mo Jinyu's father and brother had left early after knowing that Mo Jinyu was coming back, and avoided seeing him.
The mother who was alone at home saw that Mo Jinyu was also impatient, because Mo Jinyu had been married 8 times, originally in the countryside, divorce was pointed out behind his back.
What's more, Mo Jinyu even got married 8 times, which made Mo Jinyu's parents lose face in the village, so they didn't want to see this daughter who made them lose face.
As mentioned earlier, Mo Jinyu's family is rich, and Mo Jinyu's mother said that her daughter has no place to live in the divorce, and they can buy a suite for her and let her live by herself.
However, Mo Jinyu got married and divorced again and again, which made the whole family lose face, so he directly and fiercely refused Mo Jinyu's request to live back to his mother's house.
The compromise of the Mo family
At this time, Mo Jinyu, who had no way to live in her mother-in-law's family, had no choice but to return to her rental house, and after returning to the rental house, the first thing Mo Jinyu did was to take out the new clothes and lighter that Mo Jianqing bought for her and burn the dress.
Perhaps in his heart, this dress was like her love, and it was also cleaned with this fire.
When Mo Jinyu was burning clothes, he found a photo of a little boy in these clothes, and Mo Jinyu, who was originally full of sorrow, smiled slightly when he saw this photo.
It turned out that the little boy in the photo was Mo Jinyu's 3-year-old grandson, but at this time, Mo Jinyu was only 36 years old, and he actually had a 3-year-old grandson, which was really shocking.
At this time, Mo Jinyu told the truth. It turned out that Mo Jinyu, who had always pursued love, met her first husband when she was 16 years old and gave birth to a lovely daughter with him.
The daughter also got married early, so when Mo Jinyu was 31 years old, she was already a grandmother.
When Mo Jinyu was thinking about his grandson in the rental house, the Mo family was not idle, and they still wanted to continue their lives for the daughter-in-law who spent all their family's marriage.
So they went to the rental house together to discuss with Mo Jinyu and persuaded her to go home and live a good life with Mo Jianqing.
When the Mo family saw Mo Jinyu, they first apologized for the quarrel a few days ago, and then persuaded him to go home and live a good life with Mo Jianqing.
But at this time, Mo Jinyu put forward the condition that she could go back, but she hoped that Mo Jianqing could keep all the belongings in the family by her.
For this request, the Mo family obviously would not agree, because Mo Jinyu was a person who lied and did not deserve to be trusted, so how could they possibly entrust the family's property to an uncertain woman for safekeeping?
At this time, Mo Jianqing's sister-in-law, who really couldn't look down, said that if she wanted to get a divorce, she would first return the dowry money that Mo Jianqing spent when she married her.
Otherwise, he would go to Mo Jinyu's father and brother to ask for it, and finally if he really couldn't do it, he would go to the court to sue. But in the process of their discussion, Mo Jinyu never mentioned his feelings.
The theme that has always been around is to want to be the head of the family, although as the hostess of this family, it is understandable to want to be the head of the family, but the premise is also to give the people in their own family a certain sense of security.
This can get what she wants, so in general, if Mo Jinyu doesn't make certain changes, then she may still not get the results she wants.
A woman who has been divorced four times - Wang Jinrong
The above Mo Jinyu divorced again and again in order to pursue love, and the following Wang Jinrong also experienced 4 divorces, what is the matter?
Wang Jinrong was born in Suining, Sichuan Province, a girl with a heart attack, who grew up with her adoptive mother, who owed a debt when she was sick and looking for someone to borrow money for her illness.
It was hard to wait for her to get married, and the family was happy for her, but the good times were not long, and this adopted daughter, who had grown to 33 years old, had been married 4 times in 10 years and had three times to get a certificate.
What is the reason behind this?
It turned out that because I grew up with my adoptive parents, I felt that I had no status in this family and did not like to talk. And because he always knew that he was not biological, his personality became isolated and strange.
When Wang Jinrong grew up and married, although he was introduced to wang Jinrong when he fell in love with her first husband, this man was very kind to Wang Jinrong and did not feel bad because she had a heart condition.
On the premise that both families agreed, the two soon got married. But because it was introduced, the two of them didn't know each other very well.
The two don't see each other very often when they're in love, so there's not much information to expose, and all they see is the surface of each other.
But when he really got married, it became different, all the small details of life were exposed in front of each other, and Wang Jinrong had a strange personality.
In addition, after marriage, he lived with his mother-in-law, so the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will definitely be tense. It is said that home and everything is happy, and that the family can bear a daughter-in-law who has a strange temper and does not know why she is angry every day.
So within two years, Wang Jinrong divorced his first husband.
So how is Wang Jinrong's personality weird?
From Wang Jinrong's second marriage to analyze, after experiencing the first failed marriage, Wang Jinrong ushered in his second marriage.
In the first paragraph, she just had an eccentric personality, and she wanted to quarrel after saying two words with her family, but in the second marriage, it became more and more intense, and Wang Jinrong actually started to beat people.
This situation is put into any family that no one can bear, so the result can be imagined, and the end is destined to be divorce.
The reason for the divorce between the second husband and Wang Jinrong in the back is similar to the reason for the divorce of the previous two husbands, all because they can't stand Wang Jinrong's strange temper.
So what does Wang Jinrong think about these marriages?
It turned out that it was because Wang Jinrong did not get the sense of security she wanted for these four marriages, so he would finally beat people and end these four marriages.
epilogue
For the above two women, what they may want is very simple, but if they just want each other to blindly pay and they don't want to do anything, then the final result must be imaginable.
In our lives, there are many people who are only thinking about themselves in doing things, just thinking that they are happy, if they just live alone, such an idea is not too much of a problem, nothing more than a little less friends.
But when you get married and can't understand each other and understand each other with your other half, it's easy for marriage to go around the camera.
Most long-lasting marriages are based on the premise of making each other feel comfortable and safe, no matter what happens and how much happens.
And marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, from love to marriage, it will get better and better in mutual friction.
The relationship between the family must also be coordinated by both husband and wife, so that both families can have a sense of happiness. The most taboo in marriage is concealment and selfishness.
Therefore, in marriage, both parties must pay something and can not hide something, the most important thing is that both parties must give each other enough security to really run their own small family.