These kinds of behaviors of girls are really "very hurtful" in love.

Recently, a boy left me a message saying that the process of falling in love with his girlfriend made him feel more and more tired.

The girlfriend is emotional, unreasonable, can't listen to advice, and does her own thing; and when two people get along, the girlfriend often doesn't give him face and loses her temper with him in front of her friends.

As long as his attitude changes a little and speaks louder, he will immediately be put on the hat of "you scumbag, you changed your heart so quickly".

After 1 year together, he felt a little overwhelmed and decided to give up the relationship; however, after thinking about it, he felt that it would be a pity if he gave up.

In fact, in the love experience of many boys, they will feel that their girlfriends are unreasonable.

Girls' emotionalization in love can also cause them to do certain things that make their boyfriends feel stressed.

In love, these behaviors of girls really hurt the boy who loves you.

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Take the other party's efforts for granted, but you have no return

Do you know what is the thing that disappoints a guy?

You like to eat oranges, and he bought you a cart of oranges; but, as you eat them, you say that the oranges are so sour and so hard to eat.

What he was disappointed was not what he gave you, but what he gave you, but he didn't get any response; the only little expectation he had was also shattered by your cold words and blows.

Two people together should be mutual; giving is a two-way street, and taking should not be taken for granted; everything you do for each other in love should be guaranteed to be done willingly.

If the other party makes you feel reluctant, or that your original intention is not to do this because of love, but a sense of responsibility and face; then this relationship is a kind of pressure for you.

Any man who gives you, you should give back; the boy loves you, but it is not your reason to hurt him; everything he gives for you stems from his feelings for you, and he thinks you deserve it.

If one day he doesn't get the same treatment from you, he will leave you soon.

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Too strong and does not leave dignity for the other party

Some girls in love, especially like to occupy the "initiative"; from the important decisions in life to what to eat for dinner, all have to make their own decisions.

In the face of her boyfriend's suggestions and ideas, she will not take them at all, just thinking about how to satisfy her own wishes; such behavior is not only selfish, but also makes boys feel that being with you is full of pressure.

Girls who are too strong are easy to grasp and not measure up.

Some time ago, I went out to dinner with friends, during which a boy wanted to have a drink, and everyone did not see each other for a long time; however, his girlfriend did not give any face.

In front of everyone, the girlfriend said: If you dare to drink, I will leave immediately, and you will not see me again in the future.

The boy looked embarrassed and smiled bitterly at us with an apologetic look.

In fact, his girlfriend can drive, but she just doesn't allow the boy to do a little behavior that she is dissatisfied with.

Not saving face for a man outside, hurting his self-esteem again and again in front of everyone, such behavior is really inappropriate.

If there is anything, it is completely possible to go back home, when there are only two people, communicate patiently; even if you can't communicate patiently with each other, it doesn't matter if you have a big fight.

But on the outside, in front of mutual friends, not giving each other steps, speaking out to hurt each other's behavior, can only show a girl's vitriol, unreasonable.

Falling in love is not a game, don't give you the upper hand in everything, and don't want everything, you have to "win".

On the surface, it is true that you won, but in the long run, you lost a man who once loved you very much.

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There is no sense of boundaries, and maintain an ambiguous relationship with the opposite sex

There are also some girls who are going through a sweet relationship and are always showing affection; but this does not prevent them from being ambiguous with other boys and maintaining close contact.

They even date other boys privately alone.

Such behavior, euphemistically said: big grin, no sense of boundaries, do not care about other people's opinions.

To put it bluntly: don't pay attention to proportions, and don't care about your boyfriend's thoughts and moods.

In other words, any boy, deep down, can't stand the person he loves, and dates other people of the opposite sex alone.

Where there is a pure male girlfriend and female girlfriend relationship, it is just an ambiguity of a different identity.

There are also some girls who are good at the "spare tire love" state.

In the process of being with her boyfriend, she has never shown affection, declared herself to be single; does not refuse to maintain close contact with other people of the opposite sex, and even does not refuse gifts from the opposite sex to her.

Such behavior is the biggest harm to the boyfriend.

Feelings are never half-hearted, what attitude do you have towards your feelings today, and in what way will the feelings give back to you.

In love, do not "double standard".

What you want the other person to do, what to become, first you have to make yourself like that; if you want the other person to love you more, then you have to give; you want the other person to be gentle and patient, then you have to make a change.

Your lover needs your help to change gradually; if you don't give, just enjoy and hurt, then you will never meet the feelings that are right for you.