Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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It seems that when mentioning the circle of friends, you will touch the "reverse scales" of many people. The freedom to send and not to send has become an excuse for too many people to be unscrupulous and self-willful!
Circle of friends, three days visible or a few years down, rare two or two people, in the past may be mistaken for "thin feelings" people. In fact, the more such a person, the more thoroughly he lives.
In life, I am pursuing self-satisfactory wisdom and transparency, but the proportion of people who are truly transparent is not much! Because, in the adult world, if you want to live thoroughly, you need to achieve rational "renunciation".
What is broken? What is it that is sacrificed? What is it that is away from?
In fact, when people live, the best way to give up is the correct choice and abandonment in interpersonal relations.
With the connection of various "realistic" values of the relationship between people at present, when people are eager for sincerity, they dare not really dig their lungs out to anyone.
Think of those who used to take care of each other with all their hearts and guts, and exude an abominable and hateful human nature and human heart in the face of interests, and it is really difficult to know oneself and seek.
Real life together, is already so, what can the interaction of the circle of friends explain?
A person's advanced way of life is to break off the relationship in real life, to make their circle clean, not to be burdened by any relationship.
The existence of the circle of friends, although it is the territory of personal freedom, but because the content will be displayed to the public, so the so-called life sharing and the freedom of others to love to see or not to see, is just to cover up the truth that the heart actually wants to be concerned.
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Suppose, if the content of a person's circle of friends, the article is not liked and commented, will it still be sent? It certainly won't last long!
Although the original intention of the circle of friends is not to win the interaction of whom, the subconscious expectation of who to interact cannot be hidden. Otherwise, why not set yourself to be as visible as possible?
What's more, the excessive "freedom" of the circle of friends does not benefit anything except to add unnecessary influence to oneself.
Therefore, smart people, the circle of friends either does not send, or send appropriately. If, too, you are such a circle of friends, then congratulations! "Transparent" people, but that's it!
People who know how to break off interpersonal relationships will not deliberately cater to anyone in real life for a certain relationship, nor will they "share" in the circle of friends for the sake of eyeballs.
Transparent people naturally understand that in real life, it is difficult to find true feelings, and the people on the mobile phone's friend list only occupy a position in the list. In their circle of friends, no one is really interested.
People who really care about you will understand your recent situation in real life and care about your happiness and sorrow.
Circle of friends interactive people, do you borrow money to try? Or do you ask the other person to be on call and be interrupted at any time?
Sorrow and joy in the world are never connected. The hugs you like when you're happy with other people's comments, and the hugs you're sad about other people's comments are nothing more than fingertip friendship.
Occasionally, appropriately, appropriately... Congratulations to people in such a circle of friends, this is really "transparent"!
In ancient times, there were sayings that the four parties had made friends in the world, but there was no conflict of interest between them. Nowadays, when people chat a few words, they are called brothers and brothers, but they are just friendships on the tip of the tongue.
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Truly transparent people don't mess up their circles to the point where they put too much time and energy into a relationship that isn't worth it.
The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and good friendship comes from not contacting each other for a long time, and occasional contact is pouring out to help each other. Do you have such a person around you?
When you are sloppy, your circle of friends is miserable, and probably no one is willing to directly transfer money to solve your urgent needs, right?
When you succeed, too much joy in the circle of friends is nothing more than Versailles!
Truly transparent people will live their lives with their hearts, sad or happy, without being shared and shared.
People have no thousand days to spend a hundred days, people in this life, the best and most loyal friends are only themselves, and they can only be themselves! True friends are not absent, but they may not really be found.
Survive in the world, never know who is true and who is false, never know who is far away and who is near!
Often, the people you think are closest to you, the more you can't see the people you are! Especially, when you are down, you will understand how realistic and cruel your so-called close people are to you.
What are you demanding?
The sprinkling in the circle of friends will only increase the amount of topics after others' tea and dinner to a large extent. Don't envy the lives of others in the circle of friends, and don't become a joke in the circle of friends.
How many people, countless friends list, but very few who can really open the heart?
You know people and add friends to whom, that doesn't mean you're great. When interpersonal relationships are broken, you can be yourself down-to-earth in your true self-knowledge.
People live, and as they get older, they should learn to subtract life.
There is a kind of sobriety called the circle clean, and there is a kind of transparency called the circle of friends moderate.
You know, among those people in your friends list, there is no shortage of negative energy, narrow-minded people, and your "free expression of emotions" will cause unwarranted consumption of yourself!
Life is your own, and sorrow and joy have nothing to do with others. Laugh when you're happy, cry when you're unhappy, but you don't have to expose these emotions.
A person, if you want your life to reduce unnecessary negative effects, a clean circle of friends is a necessary move!
In the years to come, I hope that you can positively understand the four words of "running yourself", start from the circle of friends appropriately, moderately, and be a truly transparent person!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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