We often hear such a sentence: woman's heart, the needle under the sea. Especially for men, when they like a woman and want to get to know her, they find it difficult to guess the woman's mind.
Especially in some small things, sometimes women say they don't like it, but they actually like it. Women say no, in fact, they hope that men will take the initiative. However, men do not understand these careful thoughts of women, so it is easy to miss a woman who likes.
Although when getting along with the opposite sex, women tend to behave very reserved and shy, and will hide their thoughts. But when women meet a man they really like, they will also be anxious, anxious, and will want to attract the attention of men, so as to take the initiative to pursue this feeling.
When encountering the right opportunity, women will also pluck up the courage to hint at men in some way. Especially when getting along, a woman will deliberately say something to hint at the man and let the man guess her thoughts.
So, men should know that when a woman takes the initiative to say these things to you, the subtext is to tell you that she is already in love with you, don't understand.
01 Will be very shy to ask you, "What type of girl do you like?" ”
After a woman falls in love with a man, she can't help but get close to the man, to get to know him, to try to attract his attention. It's just that some men are more retarded, even if women have these active behaviors, men may not feel that women are in love with him.
If women understand men's minds and know what kind of women they like, they tend to move closer to this type to impress men's hearts. If women are not quite aware of men's minds, they will also pluck up the courage to test men's minds.
Men should know that when a woman takes the initiative to ask you: "What type of girl do you like", you should understand that she is no longer ordinary to you. Men don't think women are just curious or bored.
Generally speaking, when the opposite sex gets along, women don't specifically ask men this question. Because they don't care, they don't want to know what the other person thinks.
Since she asked you this, it means that she has ideas about you and is curious about your thoughts. When a man understands this, he must learn to observe the woman's attitude towards you in order to judge her mind.
02 Asking you as if in jest, "Are you missing me?" ”
Jack London said: "There is love in the world, and then there is a language to express love, and in the adolescence when love first came into the world, it learned a set of methods, and it has never been forgotten since." ”
In women's hearts, only by living in love will they take the initiative to say something and do something. When the average opposite sex gets along, women keep a good distance. They also know very well in their hearts that once some words are spoken, they can easily cause misunderstandings and troubles.
But when it comes to meeting the man she likes, this love will give the woman a lot of courage, even if the woman will not show her heart, she will use some other way to hint at the man.
When this love completely occupies the heart of women, they will be eager to have this love. When the right opportunity is met, women will jokingly say to men, "Are you thinking of me?" ”。
In this way, a woman is not only testing your heart, but also hinting at you that she is already in love with you and hopes that you can take the initiative.
03 Say to you, "A person is so bored that I want to find someone to accompany me." ”
Shakespeare said, "Love is nothing but madness." ”
When we meet love, we sometimes become less like ourselves. Love can change a person's personality, change a person's habits, and even change a person's life status.
Just like a rational person, when encountering love, he will become blind and impulsive; an introvert will become brave because of love; a person without a goal will also work hard because of love and will try to do everything well.
Love happens to women, and we will also see such a kind of "madness". They may take the initiative to pursue this love, may take the initiative to attract men's attention, or may often say some obvious codes to men.
Men should know that if a woman takes the initiative to say to you: "A person is so bored, I want to find someone to accompany me." "It's actually telling you that the person she wants to accompany her is you."
Women will not easily say such things to a man, there will be such behavior, it must be this woman who is deeply in love with you.
Freud said: "In addition to the positive psychological effect of love, it can also break the sense of loneliness and alienation between people because of the emotional communication and mutual care between men and women." ”
After a woman falls in love with a man, she is most afraid of this loneliness. The more lonely you are, the more you will miss men and want to have this love in your heart. Women will take the initiative to break this sense of alienation and will even take the initiative to say these words to men. Men should know that the woman's subtext is actually to tell you that she has fallen in love with you, hoping to let you understand her mind in this way.
If you also truly love her, just take the initiative a little, show your sincerity, and you will soon get what you want.