01: Some misses would have been helpless
I don't know how I lost the other person.
This question is familiar, most people around them will ask themselves or ask their friends for help for help the answer to the first time after the breakup.
The vast majority of breakups are for a reason, it's just that sometimes we don't know it or are unwilling to face up to the mistakes we've made. And some missed, really helpless.
There was no third party, no major fault, as if a fork in the road had suddenly appeared on a straight road, and we went in two different directions.
Uncle once did a survey, after the breakup more than 80% of people want to go to the past to retain the ex, and the proportion of successful recovery is less than 10%.
For people who have the possibility of compounding after a breakup, the two tend to have the same frequency in these things.
After the breakup, the two people have the same frequency in these things, and most of them have the possibility of compounding
02: Both remain single
The first premise of being able to compound is that after separation, we are still single. The big premise of all this is based on the same frequency in this matter.
On the contrary, after breaking up with you, I talked a lot more, but a comparison is still the most suitable for you, and looking back, it must be you, then this is the worst reunion, even if the ending together is still separated.
I've seen a very resonant quote: I'm not struggling with being kicked by you, but worrying about who's going to spoil you when I'm no longer there.
Then there is a high praise answer below: I think she may also be struggling, so careless who will take care of you?
There are many reasons why we can't end up together, even the seven-year itch of marriage.
But if you still work alone after the breakup, you should be brave, resolve the contradiction, and upgrade the love!
03: Always remember everything about each other and remind them appropriately
Recently, a fan talked to me about her confusion, and she said that we were obviously separated, but it was as if we were still together.
Like most people who have to be sworn enemies after a breakup, we don't, and after any breakup, as long as a new relationship has not been opened, the other party is still a member who can lie in your address book.
Although we are not lovers, we will also take the initiative to remind each other of some important things, such as the small things I do every month but always forget, and his work experience that is often confused but no one complains about.
We maintain relatively low-frequency but important interactions, doing things out of the ordinary every month, like friends we've known for years.
But now I'm confused, and the reason is that after calming down, I found that the little problem that caused us to separate in the first place seems to be really less important now, because it's really hard compared to these people who understand you!
In the end, they were successful in compounding, because what both sides needed was an opportunity or the courage to start all over again, and once these were available, the compound would most likely be successful.
04: Once a common preference
Colleague Xiao Zeng and her ex-boyfriend met at a bookstore, a niche bookstore tucked away in a corner of the city and very characteristic and quiet.
They met here because they liked the same book.
After separating, the two people still retain this hobby, and they still come to this bookstore, but they deliberately change the time from morning to afternoon.
But fate is so wonderful, two people make the same decision, so there is a wonderful encounter. Open your heart once about the reasons for the breakup, and after the misunderstanding is cleared, the trust that was once there was again established, and happiness does not work.
Now that they have children, this hobby continues to be retained, and they bring their children here every weekend to read.
It should be a special fate, so that there will be such a happy life!
Likes start because we are the same people, or there are points of attraction to each other, and then the possibilities are infinite.
Uncle Comments:
Dare to love and dare to hate, not to provoke people!
If separation is due to a misunderstanding that can be solved, and you have the possibility of compounding, then don't let love you slip away from you, respect the arrangement of fate!