In 2021, Ms. Jiang from Chongqing came to Chen's wedding dress shop and booked a wedding date in October, and then the wedding was not done, Ms. Jiang wanted the store to refund the deposit of 3500 yuan at that time, but the store said that she could not return, and Ms. Jiang cut the wedding dress of nearly 70,000 yuan in the store in a huff to vent her anger.
Ms. Jiang was particularly aggrieved, she felt that the store was bullying her, she thought that there was a reason for not doing the wedding, and also explained the situation to the store in time, besides, the wedding dress that was set was good and not damaged, how could this money not be returned?
Marriage is a festive thing, but in the end it is necessary to pay for a momentary impulse, angrily cut 32 wedding dresses, the store dropped to 50,000 yuan, she is not willing to lose, people say she is "crazy", who should blame this?
In April 2021, Ms. Jiang set a wedding celebration for October at the store, when the store offered a total of 8,000 yuan, according to Mr. Chen, this money was paid in three parts.
First of all, the deposit of 3500 yuan was prepaid, and then 3500 yuan was paid at the wedding on the same day, and then 1000 yuan was paid after the wedding, the process was clear and clear, Ms. Jiang and her family also agreed, and the deposit was paid.
But who would have thought that in August, due to the impact of the epidemic, Ms. Jiang's location was locked down, and there was no way to hold a banquet.
Therefore, Ms. Jiang immediately contacted the store and asked if she could postpone the wedding until next year, and then do it after this extraordinary period, and the store also deeply understood and happily agreed.
In this way, a few months passed safely, and by December, Ms. Jiang was pregnant, and the family felt that it was not okay to reschedule, and it was unanimous that Ms. Jiang was inconvenient to do the wedding with a big belly, and if she had a child, it would make people laugh.
As the saying goes, falling in love is a matter for two people, but marriage is not so simple, and important moments are indispensable to the advice of elders and family members.
Perhaps out of concern for Ms. Jiang's health, or fear of losing face, the family decided not to do it, although the guests were invited, but there was no way.
Subsequently, Ms. Jiang quickly contacted the store, informed her of her difficulties one by one, and wanted to ask if she could return the 3500 yuan deposit paid before, but the store said that it could not be refunded, but she could help them apply for a baby feast in the future.
Ms. Jiang did not say anything at that time and left, and went to the wedding banquet hotel, did not expect that the hotel's 3,000 yuan deposit was very painfully refunded, which made Ms. Jiang and her family feel very uncomfortable about the wedding dress shop's "resolute not to return" statement.
I think that if it is a baby banquet, there is no need to invite the host, nor do you need to arrange the scene, there is no need to spend so much money, 3500 yuan can buy more tables? Hotels can be returned, why can't wedding dresses?
Life is not easy, thinking of spending money on the blade, can save and save, is also the common sentiment of people, but if it is indiscriminate, afford yourself but let others pay, have to doubt this "saving" has a slight "calculating" taste.
Whether it is the epidemic or pregnancy, it is not the responsibility of the store, there is no need to refund the deposit, the rescheduling is Ms. Jiang's meaning, not to do it is also a joint decision of Ms. Jiang and her family, as a party to the loss, they should think about their own reasons.
Seeing how to say, the store still does not agree, want to let the store more sympathetic to her pregnant woman, it is not easy to run so far with a big belly, but the store still does things according to the rules, Ms. Jiang is anxious, she reported to the police.
She believes that the store can not produce relevant consumption vouchers, such as payment records to the host, makeup artist, videographer, is deceiving her, but the police said that they are a civil dispute, it is recommended to negotiate first.
But after the exchange, Ms. Jiang did not get the deposit back, which made her very angry, did not consider the consequences, went straight downstairs to buy a pair of scissors, came up and cut randomly, resulting in 20 wedding dresses, 12 pieces of Xiuhe clothes damage can not be worn.
Afterwards, Ms. Jiang also regretted it very much, "I don't know if it was the reason for getting pregnant, I was particularly sad and depressed there, so I impulsively cut the wedding dress, in fact, I am usually a person with a particularly good personality, and I am also very good at talking, I don't know what happened at that time, I was particularly excited."
It is said that what adults need to learn most is to control emotions, even if others are not in place, they must also restrain themselves from venting, choose other buffer methods to solve, after all, it is not family on the outside, it is impossible to accommodate you for no reason.
Although it is said that the physical discomfort and the pressure of pregnancy have caused the current situation, this cannot be a pretext for acting arbitrarily, after all, people are rational, and they must be prepared to accept punishment without controlling their emotions and indulging.
After that, Ms. Jiang gradually calmed down, and she also realized that her behavior was stupid, so she sent a message to apologize to the store manager Chen.
Director Chen said that at the beginning they negotiated to pay 60,000 yuan, and she and her husband agreed, but then they changed their minds, and then mentioned the amount of compensation.
Saying that his family's business is not good, he can't come up with so much money, saying that the wedding dresses in the store are old, and he is only willing to pay 30,000 yuan, so he should buy these old wedding dresses.
The store said that it can understand the emotional fluctuations of the pregnant woman Ms. Jiang, and also express sympathy for her plight, but the wedding dress should be compensated if it is broken, which is cut by Ms. Jiang, and it is necessary to give an explanation to the store.
In fact, the store only asked Ms. Jiang to pay the purchase price of these wedding dresses, about 70,000 yuan, but considering Ms. Jiang's situation, she was willing to reduce the price to 50,000 yuan at the end, but whenever mentioned, Ms. Jiang always had to bargain, either 30,000 yuan, or free of talk.
But at that time, when Ms. Jiang was cutting the wedding dress, the light cut was expensive, a few thousand yuan was not soft, and even the treasure of the tens of thousands of town stores in the store was not spared, during the period, considering that Ms. Jiang was pregnant, with scissors in her hand, the clerk did not take a forced stop, just verbally warned "You think clearly", and Ms. Jiang threatened to pay more than 100,000 yuan!
Who knows, after the export of wild talk, but even 50,000 do not want to take. The reasonable claim was rejected, there was no breach of contract, and there was no compensation, and the store said that it was really impossible to take the legal route to defend its rights.
If the store really sues, Ms. Jiang may be detained, according to the relevant regulations, deliberately destroying other people's belongings, the amount of loss of 5,000 yuan or more has triggered the law, not to mention the 50,000 yuan wedding compensation.
Such a price, let Ms. Jiang see the seriousness of the situation, and finally no longer insist on 30,000 yuan, but obediently paid 50,000 yuan, shook hands with the store and made peace, according to her, she has "not cut and do not know" with the store, became a friend, and hopes that this matter will not affect the business of the store.
Write at the end:
All the dissatisfaction, anger, and resignation, if you don't know how to release or adjust reasonably, will be like explosives, setting off a dangerous situation that hurts yourself and others, just like this Ms. Jiang, in order to vent her emotions, cut the wedding dress of the store, and had to lose 50,000 yuan.
A woman's dream wedding is gone, no matter what the reason, it is an indescribable pain, feeling that it can not be understood by the store, there will definitely be grievances and bitterness buried in the heart, unable to express.
Perhaps these negative emotions are the black hand behind Ms. Jiang's wedding dress, not Ms. Jiang's original intention, but things have happened, we must dare to face it, for their own gaffe behavior, they should actively cooperate with the store to complete compensation.
Although it was finally resolved satisfactorily, I can't help but wonder why people who usually have such a good temper will not listen to advice when they should least be angry, so that they will cause a catastrophe.
Perhaps, this is not only a matter of emotional control, but also the work of ideological concepts.
I feel that I can't suffer losses, even if there is no reason, I must find a way to fight, but the more I think so, the more I will have prejudices against others, and I feel that others are indebted to myself, and it is easy for small things to become big things.
If a person cannot look at the problem rationally and openly, he will be led by the emerging emotions, react too fiercely, and inadvertently enlarge things to the point of being difficult to clean up.
Looking back in hindsight, I can't regret it. If everything can be found as a "bystander" posture, and leave room for calm communication, perhaps there will be different results.
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