How to save the boyfriend's most correct operation, don't let go easily

In terms of saving a boyfriend, it is very difficult, in fact, everyone treats their love most clearly, and there is still a certain way to save the reason for the breakup. So what can you do to get back your broken-up boyfriend?

Don't dwell too much on each other

Whether it's love or marriage, after encountering a breakup. Be sure to remember that you must not dwell on it. Many friends often keep calling, \/letter, and qq after breaking up, hoping to save it. You know, at this time, the other party's state of mind can not be completely calm, if it is just blindly pestering and harassing, it can only make him more disgusted with you. Xiaobian suggests that in the short term after the breakup, try to contact each other as little as possible or not, give the other party and yourself a calm time, and calm the mood.

Empathize

From the perspective of the other party to think about the problem, after being broken up, many people will want to ask why they broke up, let the other party give you an answer, but in fact, you are clear about the result, but do not accept this fact. Men generally do not threaten each other with a breakup, and once they are proposed, they must have given you a chance before, but you did not perceive it.

So after the breakup, you must first stand in the other person's position to think about the problem instead of being overwhelmed by your own emotions, voluntarily beat yourself or hate the other party, stand in his position and think about things, you will find out where the problems between you are, you deserve to solve the problem, not to solve your emotions!

Change yourself, high frame reversal

Change yourself, of course, this change includes both internal and external, to build on the strengths and avoid the weaknesses. For example, if you can't dress up, then learn to dress yourself and improve your image and taste. You don't understand the psychology of men, you can also learn more to improve your ability to fall in love. Every time you go to a place, change your hairstyle, you can take more photos, and post them on social platforms such as Weibo and WeChat, don't take the initiative to contact him, but "unintentionally" appear in his line of sight. Get everything ready and let him contact you by attracting curiosity.

The high and low frame reversal, to know this, he has taken the initiative to contact you, indicating that you have successfully attracted his attention. At this time, you must control yourself, you are in the breakup stage, do not take the initiative to talk about feelings, do not show too enthusiastic, just like ordinary friends to talk about home, talk about what they have been busy with recently. He initiates contacting you to show that he has seen your change too and that your attraction to him has been halfway through.