Night reading 丨 Ephemera do not know that there is tomorrow, grasshoppers do not know that there is a next year, frogs do not know the outside world

Text/Su Mo

A small ephemera has a life cycle of only one day. Ephemera and Grasshopper made friends and happily spent a day together. In the evening, the grasshopper said I was going home and would see you tomorrow morning. Ephemera wondered: "What is tomorrow"? What is "tomorrow morning"?

Later, the grasshopper became friends with the frog. In the autumn, when the weather was getting colder, the frog said, "I'm going back to sleep, and I'll see you next spring." This time the grasshopper was puzzled and asked: "What is next year"? What is "spring"?

The frog begins to hibernate, wakes up the next year when it is stung, and begins a new year of life. Later the frog met the tiger. At the foot of the mountain, it played with the tiger for a while. Until the tiger said: I am going back to the mountain, I am the leader of the mountain, I can not not be there.

But the frog does not know what a mountain is, nor does it know what is called "occupying the mountain as the king", and it does not understand the responsibility that should be assumed as a tiger and as the king of the beasts.

For ephemera, grasshoppers, frogs, and tigers, because of their different experiences and cognitions, the world they see is different, and the whole life presents a completely different scene.

For us, why not.

A person's cognition and vision often determine the height of a person's view of the problem, determine the breadth of a person's vision, and determine the breadth, thickness and temperament of a person's life. And this is the pattern of one person.

The "pattern" can be divided into three dimensions, one is the height of looking at the problem, the second is the length of the problem, and the third is the depth of the problem.

Height, a person's foothold is different, determines the height of the problem is different, just like we start from the perspective of a clerk and from the perspective of a leader, the problems considered and the decisions made are naturally different, that is, the overall situation, a far-sighted person can always start from the overall situation, long-term.

When encountering problems, don't keep going your own way, learn to jump out, look at it from a higher perspective, so that you will understand some things and make better decisions.

The length, a person's vision is different, determine the length of the problem is different, just like a story that has been read, in a town, a person opened a gas station, the business is particularly good, everyone sees that his business is good, they have opened gas stations, and it did not take long for the store to be posted with transfer notices. In another small town, one person opened a gas station, the business was particularly good, the second person came to open a restaurant, the third person came to open a supermarket, and the area quickly became prosperous.

Therefore, look at the problem not only in the present, do not stumble on the current dilemma, but also learn to look farther and go farther.

Depth, the thickness of a person's thoughts is different, and the depth of the problem seen is naturally different. The best achievement in life is to find the direction of the heart, and to cultivate it until the fruit is retained.

The larger the pattern of a person, the more it has height, length and thickness, which is why some people are not flustered when they encounter problems, while some people are in a big mess; some people can always see the essence of the problem, and some people are always floating on the surface; some people have a forward-looking vision and are good at breaking through, while some people always draw the ground as a prison.

Everyone does not want to be like an ephemera who cannot see more wonderful things in the world, nor is he willing to be like that frog who does not know the wider world, but expects his world to be broader and can appreciate more beautiful scenery of life, so as to live up to this life.

The pattern of people is fed by experience, and the pattern of no experience is often an empty talk. Because even if it is a setback, it is a passbook, and often the more low, the more the pattern shaping period.

Suffering enlightens wisdom, and suffering tempers the state of mind. So, embrace all the good in life, all the bad. Every experience in life is wealth and adds to your pattern.

The pattern of a person is backed by the thickness of thought, and the pattern without thought is just a castle in the air, ethereal and ethereal. And reading is the cradle of thought. As Sanmao said, the books you have read, the roads you have traveled, in your temperament, in your conversation, in the endlessness of your mind.

Read more books, read good books, let books enrich life, arm your mind, and enlarge the pattern.

After all, a person's wisdom, strength, and vision are limited, and only by standing on the shoulders of giants can they see farther, and standing on the shoulders of everyone can they grow faster.

In life, we are always too conceited, always feel that we know a lot, easy to see everything, this is almost everyone's common disease, do not know that there are mountains outside the mountains, there are people outside the people. Each person has their own unique shining point, and people who have different perspectives with you will bring you different ideas, which is the power of communication.

Therefore, more communication, more learning, you will harvest unexpected inspiration, new ideas.

Life is a process of constantly improving oneself, some people live more and more narrowly, some people live more and more broadly. The difference lies in the pattern.

A person's pattern often determines a lifetime. When those unexpected "stones" on the road of life fall, if you are a small puddle, it will splash and sludge will fly, and if you are a sea, it will be calm and calm.