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The ancients said: "Fifty know the Destiny of Heaven, sixty ears are obedient." ”
When people reach middle age, their marriages are stable, their children have gradually grown up, they have experienced the warmth and coldness of human feelings, they have also learned what to do and what not to do, and they have begun to become more stable and open-minded.
At this time, most people should also think about how to make their second half of their lives better, how to make themselves more blessed, and how to enjoy the happiness of the world.
There are many ways to make yourself comfortable, and everyone has different definitions of comfort, good life and bad life.
Some people think that money is something outside the body, and that life does not bring death or death, and it is not so important at all.
Some people also think that the second half of life depends on "money", without money, everything will not work, which is the real sadness of people after middle age.
In my opinion, the real sadness of people in middle age is not that they have no money, but that they have gone to the following three places.
01 Hospital
I went to the hospital once at seven o'clock in the morning, and I thought there would be very few people, but I didn't expect it to be comparable to a wet market.
It is true that if you get sick, you should go to the hospital, check it out as soon as possible, and treat it as soon as possible. But the reason why some people go to the hospital is actually all done by themselves.
Friend Li Quan is 55 years old and has two sons, both of whom have reached the age of talking about marriage. In order to prepare a dowry and a marriage room for his two sons, Li Quan worked day and night, and worked several jobs at the same time.
In the first two years, in order to provide for his two children to go to college, he had already overdrawn his body, and after the age of fifty, he knew that his health was obviously not as good as before, but he still desperately tried to make money.
The consequence of this was that one day, while working on a shelf five meters above the ground on the construction site, he accidentally fell out of his mind.
Concussion, arms and legs are fractured to varying degrees, although after a lot of buffering, he has been hurt to the lowest extent, but this into the hospital, but also spent more than 100,000 yuan.
The most important thing is not to spend money, but to suffer, to lie in the hospital for a month. During the month, when he was lying in bed and unable to move, he thought a lot.
The money he earned in a year is now spent in the hospital like flowing water, and he has also ended up like this, what is the picture?
Sons already have their own work and life, but also have the ability to buy a house for themselves to buy a car and marry a daughter-in-law, originally at this age, he did not have to toss himself like this, but as a parent, he wanted to reduce the burden for his children as much as possible.
But now it puts the cart before the horse, not only does it not lighten the burden for their children, but also makes them worry more about themselves.
People who do not obey anything can not obey the old, almost sixty years old, do not embarrass and toss themselves anymore. Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and when they become adults, they should let them go on their own.
As a parent at this age, the most important thing to do is to protect your body, exercise more, ensure the health of your body, let yourself get less sick, reduce the occurrence of accidents, and minimize the opportunity to go to the hospital, which is the real burden on your children.
May all parents over the age of fifty bear this in mind. Don't cling to money, the saddest thing about middle age is not that people have no money, but that they have become regular customers in the hospital.
02 The place where the wind and snow moon are
Some people have been accustomed to going to some places of wind and snow since they were young. In my opinion, young people are not in love, have no family, are alone, lonely and bored, within the scope of the law, can occasionally go to relax.
But once you have a family, have children, especially in middle age, you should clean yourself and not go to these places of wind and snow, otherwise it is likely to provoke the fire.
Xu Rui was very stable when he was young, and he went home after work and never stayed out of the house. But after middle age, maybe he had money in his pocket, or maybe now that the temptations outside had become more, he began to come and go to these places frequently.
At first, the wife did not know, he also had fun, just be careful, do not be seen by the wife. But once, he met an acquaintance, and within a week, his wife knew about it.
The wife did not make trouble, just said a few words to him, Xu Rui thought that his wife agreed, and began to blatantly enter and leave these places. Until one day, he met a woman in such a place, and the two became confidants with red faces, and the other party also introduced him to an investment.
When he had deposited most of his savings, the money was lost without incident, and the so-called confidant disappeared.
Xu Rui's wife and children learned of this and left him decisively. Xu Rui never thought that going to these places would actually make him reach the age of fifty, and his wife and daughter were separated. He regretted it.
There are not a few middle-aged men who have had similar experiences with Xu Rui. People of their own age, the life of husband and wife has entered a period of flatness, once in and out of these places, tempted to stay, a wrong step, it is possible to fall into a situation of doom.
Is the saddest thing about middle age is that people don't have money? In my opinion, it should be at the age when we should know our destiny, and we have not yet self-consciously gone to these places to squander and waste time.
03 Where fox friends gather
When I was young, who didn't have a wine and meat friend, in his twenties, flesh and blood, love face, can allow several such friends to talk big and brag together.
But when people reach middle age, they should understand that there are not many friends in the fine. Having such a friend will not only be of no benefit to you, waste your time, consume your energy, and cost you money, but also make you have the possibility of being deceived.
There is also a saying called "low-quality social, not as good as high-quality solitude". When people reach middle age, they should have one or two close friends, talk about life together in their leisure time, and be able to help each other when they have something.
Instead of going to the place where fox friends gather as soon as they have time, wasting their lives and creating trouble for themselves.
When we were young, we did a lot of forced things for life, and now in middle age, we should be tough, say less insincere words, do less forced things, and keep ourselves loyal to our hearts.
After fifty years of age, these places should not be visited on these occasions. Instead of wasting time in these places, it is better to enrich yourself, do something worthwhile, and let yourself have a happy and stable old age.
May everyone understand the importance of learning to please themselves at the age of knowing their destiny.
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