Retired Chinese teacher with a baby really has a set, never force children to memorize ancient poems, only take the child to do 3 things a day, at first the child's mother is very incomprehensible, but after going to school, the child's performance makes her relax.
There was a retired Chinese teacher in a public primary school in the community, and we all thought that this grandfather and grandson must have taught him to memorize ancient Chinese and ancient poems, but later found out that grandpa never taught ancient poetry specifically, but paid attention to the cultivation of language expression ability.
At the beginning, the child's mother was also very confused, is language expression ability so important? It is said that "the belly has poetry and self-glorification", take advantage of the child's good memory, read more poetry, cultivate the child's temperament, and go to school later to be easier, is it not good?
Grandpa smiled and said to his daughter-in-law: "Reading poetry is indeed good for children, but for children aged 2-3, I don't think learning poetry is the most important thing."
1-3 years old is a critical period of language development and behavior training, in this stage to cultivate children's language expression ability, good behavior habits, will directly affect the child's learning performance and performance in school, and also help future work.
After teaching for more than 30 years, I have found that the class leader of each class is not necessarily the best graded child, but it must be the most vocal child.
Good language expression ability is a direct embodiment of a child's comprehensive quality, they are not only good at eloquence, emotional intelligence is also particularly high, can properly handle interpersonal problems, get along with others in harmony, and often have good interpersonal relationships. ”
Under the cultivation of grandpa, the grandson is very eloquent, and can talk to anyone, when he is mentioned, there is no one who does not praise, polite, sweet mouth, high emotional intelligence...
After going to school, he quickly integrated into the group life, often helping classmates and teachers, and was well received, and was praised by the teacher every time.
Seeing the child's performance, the mother was very happy, and finally understood the grandfather's intentions.
Eloquence is not innate, and the quality of eloquence has a lot to do with the learning and practice of the day after tomorrow. From the age of 1, Grandpa insisted on taking him to do the following 3 things:
1. Practice nursery rhymes and tongue twisters
Grandpa takes the child to read nursery rhymes and tongue twisters every day, which can not only stimulate the baby's language sensitivity, but also help the child practice clear pronunciation, speak fluently, and cultivate the child's language expression ability.
2. Talk to your child more
American pediatric professors found in a study of the cumulative number of words heard by 3-year-olds that children in high-income families were 45 million words, while children in low-income families were 13 million, a difference of 32 million words.
The gap between different family language environments is very large, and the gap between these words causes the child's IQ in the future, and will also affect the development of mathematics, spatial reasoning and literacy skills of children.
The more parents talk to their children, the faster their vocabulary will grow and their IQ will get higher and higher.
Grandpa communicates with his children as much as possible every day, everything from north to south.
He also often communicates with children with open-ended questions, stimulates his thinking problems and language organization skills, and throws children "how to do" and "why", so that he can do it in his own thinking world.
3. Insist on telling bedtime stories
If you want your baby to have good eloquence, the language environment is very important. Children who often listen to bedtime stories, in a good language environment, the child's brain development is promoted and becomes the child's leading edge in later learning.
The text of the story is beautiful and logical, and the children listen to more stories, their language expression ability is stronger, and their understanding of the article will be more profound.
Grandpa will tell his grandson bedtime stories every day, not simply reading according to the book, but painting and coloring, imitating the story scenes and dialogues, which seem exaggerated, but the children listen very attentively every time.
Grandpa picked out a set of early education bedtime books specially written for babies aged 0-6 for his grandson: "Bedtime Enlightenment Stories".
This set of 40 books, each book is a small story, including character training, emotional intelligence training, behavior management, emotional management four major themes, teach children to express love, get along with others, understand politeness, understand gratitude, etc., cultivate good character, high emotional intelligence of children.
The content of each story is not long, the content is simple and close to life, the child is easy to understand, the sense of substitution is strong, and the child likes it very much.
Another advantage of short story content is that it is convenient for children to practice telling their own stories, and if the story is too long, it is not easy for children to finish and give up.
After the child listens to the story repeatedly every day, the grandfather lets the child try to tell the story by himself, and in the process of retelling, it can not only deepen the child's impression of the story content, but also better exercise their expression ability.
If you also have a 1-3-year-old baby at home, it is recommended that you also learn the methods of retired Language teachers, insist on doing the above 3 things, and cultivate children with good eloquence and high emotional intelligence.