01.
After the breakup, is it no longer possible for the two people to reunite?
Thinking of a post where the girl shared her marital experience, she and her ex-husband divorced because of the separation of the two places, both felt that they had no feelings for each other, as if they had become people in two worlds, not like a husband and wife at all.
The ex-husband was temporarily unable to live with her because of the working relationship, and she could not abandon her job to follow the ex-husband, who took the initiative to propose a divorce, and the girl agreed.
The divorce procedures went smoothly, the joint property of the husband and wife was divided, and the two people were about to go their separate ways.
After the real separation, the girl found that she still had feelings for her ex-husband, and she always remembered the time they had lived together and the miss when they couldn't see each other.
On the third day of the divorce, her ex-husband took the initiative to call her and cried as she chatted.
After that, her ex-husband would call her almost every day, without mentioning remarriage or feelings, just chatting with her.
Until recently, the girl's ex-husband said he was going to her city to meet her, the two of them said goodbye after divorce, cried to each other, and the ex-husband tentatively asked her if she could remarry, he could find a way to move jobs, just couldn't do without her. The girl agreed to her ex-husband's request to remarry.
After reading the girl's post, I was very moved, we always feel that true love is difficult to find, and some people love and love and disperse. However, people who are truly in love, even if they accidentally get separated, will meet again.
We must believe in love and not underestimate the magic of love.
02.
Men can't let go of a woman, there will be the following kinds of performance, can not hide.
Men can't let go of you, so they will often contact you
The most direct manifestation of men in love is that I love you, want to be with you all the time, want to see you, hear your voice, and want to know what you are doing and how you are doing.
He may not directly say that he misses you and wants to start from the beginning with you, but the tone and content of his speech tell you that he can't let go of you.
You may not know how many psychological struggles and how many bad outcomes he imagined when he decided to call and text you. The moment I heard your voice, how nervous and excited I was.
When he was calm, he told himself that you were separated, it was better to get together and disperse, don't bother you anymore, and return your pure life.
Once caught up in anxious longing, all sanity disappears, especially in the dead of night, after a day's work, dragging a tired body, the fragile one who needs you is back.
You have never left his heart, how can he let you go?
Men can't let go of you, they will compromise for you
Men can't let go of you, will compromise for you, not together in those days, he suddenly figured out that what is important in love is not right or wrong, not those external things, but you as a person, whether you are still in love.
Before you separated, you may have experienced several fierce quarrels and did not give in to each other; you may hate him from the bottom of your heart, and feel that he should hate you as much as you should, so that you will do this to you; you may feel that he has changed a long time ago, and no longer loves you as gently and lovingly as he was in the beginning.
When you decide to separate, each of you scolds each other in your heart, reminding yourself that you should never meet this person again.
But at the moment of separation, as agreed, no one deleted the other's contact information.
One day after the separation, the man suddenly talked to you about the past, reviewed himself with you at that time, and told you that he should not win or lose with you for something, without the slightest consideration of your feelings, and should not just talk quickly and say a lot of words that hurt you.
You find that he seems to have changed, knows how to think for you from your point of view, knows how to reflect on himself and bow his head and compromise. That's because his heart has never been able to let go of you.
Men can't let go of you, so they will keep everything about you
When a man can't let go of a woman, there is a very obvious manifestation, that is, he keeps everything about you, whether it is a gift you give him, or a souvenir left in the process of your relationship, or the joys and sorrows about you in his circle of friends.
As large as a piece of clothing, as small as a ticket, he was well preserved, except for the matter of separation, the others seemed to have never changed.
Maybe in the middle of the night he'll flip through pictures of you together and imagine the joy of that time; he'll listen to the songs you've recommended to him and think back over and over again about what happened; he'll deliberately reveal all of this to you so that he knows he never let you go.
As mentioned in the opening chapter, when she sees her ex-husband again after divorce, she finds that her ex-husband's mobile phone screensaver is still a photo of them. In that photo, two people are laughing so hard that they can't see their teeth. The attitude of the remarriage of the former husband is sincere, the girl has mixed feelings for a while, and the two people slowly come together again.
If a man can't let go of you, he will definitely let you know, because he also wants to know if you still love him.
03.
The performance that a man will only have when he can't let go of you is actually obvious.
However, do these performances mean that men love you deeply in their hearts, and you still have the possibility of starting from the beginning?
It is recommended that girls must think clearly and choose carefully.
For example: What was the trigger that led to your breakup? Is this a problem that can be solved or a problem that will never be solved.
If it is a problem that can be solved, have you found a solution to the problem? Will you encounter a similar problem next time?
If it is a problem that will never be solved, can you agree on this issue and not let it become the fuse that destroys feelings?
Be sure to face up to the problems that led to the breakup, rather than having a hot head and feeling that as long as two people love each other, all the problems are not problems.
If you don't pay attention to the problems in the intimate relationship, even if you get back together, you may break up next time because of similar problems, and the possibility of getting back together is very low.
Another example: you can't let go of each other, what is the real reason?
After the breakup, there are many reasons why you can't let go of each other, some people because they still love each other, some people because of habits and dependence, and some people are inferior to the old people because of the new people.
Therefore, whether it is a man who can't put down a woman, or a woman who can't put down a man, you must clearly see the reason why the other party can't let go of you, and the reason why you can't put down the other party.
Don't choose to get back together because of loneliness and habits, but because you really love each other, you have to be with each other.
If you choose to compound, remember that after compounding, you must update your relationship mechanism in time.
Couples who lack communication and understanding must learn to communicate and listen in their daily interactions. Digging into your partner's needs, learning to express your needs to your partner, the process of compounding is also a process of growth, through this level, your understanding of love will be deeper.
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