Although popular family ethics dramas such as "Xiao Min Jia" pay great attention to the relaxed interpretation method, they do not deliberately pile up the "dog blood" conflict. However, in the entire TV series, there is still an extremely disgusting domestic violence male character Xu Zheng, which makes people see the stain of human nature in real life.
If 2001's "Don't Talk to Strangers" tells the public that domestic violence with bad behavior does not only occur in remote and ignorant villages, but behind those moral intellectuals, there may be a crazy butcher personality hidden.
Then Xu Zhengze of "Xiao MinJia" told the audience that possessiveness and hurt in the name of love are equally mad. And such a stubborn personality disease is often hidden behind flowers and romance, so that girls who are not deep in the world can not be prevented.
1 Xu is Liu Xiaojie's redemption
We can see throughout the plot that Xu Zheng was almost the redemption of Liu Xiaojie, a woman after divorce, at the beginning.
He has a glamorous profession, a handsome, tall and handsome character appearance, such a man is originally a scarce resource. And he also looked at the divorced Liu Xiaojie, which is not only emotional comfort for Liu Xiaojie, who has just been disgusted by his mother's baby man, but more importantly, the recognition of his female charm.
You must know that a divorced woman, especially a divorced woman who has been begged for property by her ex-husband, is extremely fragile in her heart. At this time, Liu Xiaojie's mother and sister, coupled with the comfort of 10 years of male friends, are not as good as the pursuit of a high-quality man, and have a more impact on her.
After all, as the saying goes; the best way to cure a lost relationship is to start another relationship.
And Xu Zheng's follow-up operation really makes it difficult for women to refuse.
After helping Liu Xiaojie at the beginning, he had a purposeful encounter and took Liu Xiaojie to a romantic high-end restaurant for dinner to further deepen his impression.
After a month of intensive pursuit, he officially expressed his love, and publicly confessed in electronic text in the office building next door, just imagine which young woman encountered such a trick and could continue to refuse.
Liu Xiaojie thought that this was heaven's compensation for her encounter with her ex-husband scumbag, so after the so-called serious investigation, despite the opposition of her family, she and Xu Zheng received a marriage license, which she thought was "love".
But she didn't know that she was just Xu Zheng's prey.
2 Liu Xiaojie is Xu Zheng's prey
For Xu Zheng, he actually likes Liu Xiaojie, after all, she is beautiful and high-quality, but his liking is not love, but possession, or full control.
This was not obvious in the early stages, and he had his own way of chasing prey.
First of all, I found out Liu Xiaojie's hobbies and met her in the stadium, creating a sense of déjà vu that you and I are "fellow travelers".
Then there is the flower pursuit that is difficult for women to refuse, and what he is more tall is that in the "flower" offensive, he also clarified his love attitude -
He only loves Liu Xiaojie, and even when his parents are not satisfied with Liu Xiaojie, the marriage partner, he can directly break off relations with his parents.
But this is all early bait, and when the fish is hooked and becomes his wife, which is what he thinks is his possession, his attitude changes.
At first it was only a slight temptation.
He told Liu Xiaojie that he did not like her dealings with men, including work partners. In this temptation, Liu Xiaojie gave in, she refused the cooperation of the male author, and even later Xu Zheng asked him to break off relations with his 10-year friend Qian Feng, which she also superficially approved.
Liu Xiaojie thought that this was the payment of love, but her concession made Xu Zheng become more intense. His later scolding and threatening Liu Xiaojie, forcing her to become pregnant, and restricting her freedom were all gradual, and all of this was Liu Xiaojie who gave him the opportunity.
3 Timely stop loss is king
Towards the end of their relationship, the plot gives The reason Why Xu zheng did all this, that is, he suffers from schizophrenia.
It also tells that the illness he brought from the shadow of his original family is very similar to Anjiahe in "Don't Talk to Strangers".
Xu Zheng's father brought a lifetime of harm to Xu Zheng and Xu Zheng's mother.
When he was young, because his career was not smooth, he developed the habit of beating and cursing his family at every turn. Don't look at Xu Zheng's mother when she goes out, she looks like a noble lady, but she hates this man who brings her wealth in her heart, and she knows that her son's pathological symptoms are exactly the same as his father's.
But she did not break away from this family, which was her choice, and gained the wealth in the eyes of outsiders, but at the cost of having a deformed family, such a woman was pitiful and disgusting.
It must be said that although Liu Xiaojie is a "love brain", there is still room for salvation.
With the help of her sister and Qian Feng, she was lucky to finally get rid of Xu Zheng's control. Because if she and Xu Zheng's mother are as condescending as xuzheng, her children grow up in such an environment, and they are a "little Xu Zheng", it is simply too terrible, And Liu Xiaojie, who stopped the loss in time, can be regarded as winning back the second half of his life.
This TV series is extremely wide-ranging, there are many scumbag images in the play, and domestic violence men like Xu Zheng are not a minority in reality. The TV series distills such a hundred forms of life, using the older generation of Xu Zheng's mother and the new generation of Liu Xiaojie as a comparison, so that people understand the horror of "domestic violence" men, should not compromise, and avoid the tragedy of the next generation.