Wang Lihong divorced Li Lianglei, I roughly browsed the process of the whole incident on the Internet, and finally found that in Li Lianglei, there are many shadows of failed women.
Why would a woman with such a high degree, high IQ and high emotional intelligence end up failing in her marriage? There are definitely reasons for this, and they are all mistakes that most women make in real life.
First of all, Li Lianglei should not give up her career to become a housewife.
In married life, whether it is a man or a woman, only take the initiative to reach out to the other party for money, then your status will be reduced, even if the relationship between husband and wife is good, if you are only a spender in a family, a consumer, even if your contribution to the family is large, all day around the child, it will be considered no status.
Therefore, housewife is also a relatively dangerous profession in this world, when a housewife seems to be able to work hard in the workplace, no longer have to worry about interpersonal relations, but once a housewife, it is directly out of touch with society, there are only children and pots and pans in the eyes, men are your only material source, so once you open your mouth to spend money, then the woman's family status will gradually decrease, so in this society, no matter how many children you raise, women do not easily give up their jobs, To be a housewife, women must learn to be financially independent, but also to learn to be self-reliant.
Secondly, Li Lianglei can't turn a blind eye, and conniving at the other party's mistakes is equivalent to murdering herself.
Why their marriage has come to this day, men are all flowery and lustful, this is the nature of men can not be changed, as his open wife, the rightful wife, when he finds that he has problems outside, he should stop it in time, rather than letting it go.
A man is this virtue, as long as you indulge him once, he is sure that he can still make a second time; if you give a man a death order from the beginning and cannot violate the red line of marriage, then can there be today's end?
Three children as far as losing a complete family? So all of this is inseparable from her own mistakes.
Take a look at the online reports, this so-called "quality man" star, this is how many mistakes made after marriage, betrayal again and again, coupled with women's connivance again and again, led to men's ambitions finally getting bigger and bigger, more and more dissatisfied with the family.
Moreover, the woman did not tie the man's wallet, did not control the financial power (the actual power is her mother-in-law), the man has money and becomes bad, this sentence is not false at all.
In this world, men are the same, after having money, they can still keep their original intentions unchanged, that is, good character and self-control, money can increase the weight of men to do bad things, and can make men not afraid of everything and do whatever they want.
So whether your husband has money or no money, you must want to set up a hair to grasp the financial power of the family, let the man hand over the financial power to you, only if you master the financial power, you have a position in the family.
In the case of Li Lianglei, the financial power of their family is in the hands of the mother-in-law, and such a property distribution makes the woman directly lose her family status in this family, so this is also a major failure of women in marriage.
Finally, the most important point is that Li Lianglei has had a total of 3 children in the short period of five or six years since she married him. What does this mean? It shows that in addition to preparing for pregnancy, she is giving birth to a child and serving the child, and she has completely fallen into a robot that gives birth to a child.
Therefore, the above Li Lianglei stepped on the pit in marriage, which is worthy of every woman's reflection.
If a woman wants to win the victory in marriage, it is best not to be a housewife, even if she becomes a housewife, she must grasp the financial power of the family, and finally she must love herself, maintain herself, and do not let herself become a machine that gives birth to children. You can finally win in your marriage.