As the saying goes: "raising children to prevent old age", this sentence is deeply rooted in the concept of many elderly people, so it is difficult to accept that their children do not marry or have children. But for contemporary young people, such a concept of marriage has long been outdated, they have always had a ning deficiency and non-indiscriminate attitude towards marriage, and career is far more important than marriage!
Liu Yan talked about the reason why she was single in the show, in fact, it was not that she did not want to go on a blind date, but for women of this age, others were not willing to go on a blind date with her at all. Liu Yan also begged his friends to introduce himself to the object, but he never met the right person!
Up to now, Liu Yan has been single for more than 3 years. Liu Yan is also looking forward to talking about a vigorous love, but every previous relationship experience seems to be very flat, and she has never even collapsed and cried because of the loss of love. Therefore, in the matter of feelings, her blunt sensitivity is relatively stronger than other girls!
As Liu Yan said, any woman who is too strong or capable is not easy to find a partner! Because most men in the traditional sense are not willing to find a woman who is too invincible to marry, the perfect partner in their hearts is a young and beautiful girl who is controlled and shaped by me, rather than finding a woman who is too strong to fight with herself at home every day!
And Liu Yan has many such high-quality female friends around her, who are not only more successful than men in their careers, but also have a higher pursuit of the quality of their lives. So they don't have to worry about their marriage at all, for these high-quality women, falling in love is just the icing on the cake, if you really can't meet the right marriage partner in this life, then you have to live the second half of your life with high quality!
I believe that Liu Yan was influenced by these friends, so he gradually changed his view of marriage over the years.
In fact, in her 30s, she was very anxious about marriage. Because my career was not very successful, I thought about marrying someone. At this stage, Liu Yan often appeared on various blind date occasions, because he was still very young at the time, so basically one photo was accurate, but few Liu Yan could see it!
But when she went on a blind date in her 40s now, she was hurt by a sentence from the blind date: "We are not suitable, after all, the age is there!" This sentence is really quite harsh for a female star, and it is also in the show, Liu Yan realized that he may really be past the age of blind dates!
It is said that the best age for blind dates is 28 years old, and Liu Yan is already 41 years old this year, although his face is still very young, but his physical state cannot deceive people. It is said that the best reproductive age for women is between 23 and 30 years old, more than 35 years old is the elderly mother, and Liu Yan has obviously passed the age of childbirth, I believe this is also the reason for her repeated blind date failures!
However, for Liu Yan at this stage, in fact, he has already made plans not to marry and have children. Although her mother still occasionally urges marriage, Liu Yan has long been accustomed to living alone. Liu Yan also revealed in the show that if she is still single after 10 years, then it will be so long, so even if she is single to old, I believe she will definitely plan her old age life and make her old age more fulfilling and meaningful!