When a person is really in love with you, he wants to live happily with you, especially to give you happiness, at this time, he will force himself: be yourself, try to give yourself a happy life, become your dependence, so that you do not regret being with him.
At this time, he will have the following transformations:
He who was originally careless will also become careful, because he wants to take care of you meticulously and make you feel loved.
Originally plagued by vices, he will also become self-disciplined, change himself, get away from vices, and make himself better, because he does not want to disappoint you, he wants to give you confidence.
Originally timid, he will also become brave, he will be brave to show love to you, hold hands with you, bravely take on his responsibilities, and strive to give you a better life.
The other party will let himself have some positive and heart-warming changes because he is in love with you, indicating that he has already fallen in love with you.
On the contrary, the other party is with you, if there are some negative changes, the original careful him, in front of you, appears to be very careless, the original very self-motivated him, in front of you, always indulge himself, I do my own thing, do not take you seriously at all, the original brave him, always excuse "timid", saying that he "does not dare to love you", "dare not do these things you expect me to do", which often shows that he has no interest in you.
You know, there is a kind of "thin feeling", called "timidity", accounting for one, just think about the countermeasures.
1. Excuse that you dare not disobey your parents' orders and give up your feelings.
If the other party loves you deeply, he naturally wants to spend this life with you and is willing to join hands with you into the palace of marriage.
At this time, if his parents and relatives and friends do not look favorably on you and do the "stick to beat the Mandarin duck" thing, at this time, he still loves you deeply and will love you to the end.
At this time, he will have the courage to resist and defend his marital autonomy.
Just as Zhuo Wenjun fell in love with Sima Xiangru, her parents opposed it, she did not hesitate to elope with Sima Xiangru, when selling wine, this is still in ancient times, a woman still has such courage, it is because she is really emotional.
On the other hand, when the other party is in contact with you, you want the relationship between you to "go further", but the other party says to you, "My parents don't like us together, let's break up." ”
After saying this, he walked away without turning his head, he did not give you the opportunity to save it, he was not willing to make any more efforts for the feelings between you, and the other party released such a signal, indicating that he originally had no feelings for you.
2. Excuses are timid, dare not be in the same boat, and cannot be relied upon when the key is critical.
If the opposite sex gets along, if the other party has moved the truth for you, values you from the heart, and wants to hold hands with you for a lifetime, it will naturally cherish the fate and cherish your time together.
He will be willing to cross the river together, sleep together and listen to the rain, hold hands and complain to the intestines, and stay together for the rest of his life.
Whether the boat you are on is a luxury steamship or a flat boat, he is willing to stay with you.
When you are hit and you are in trouble, he will be in the same boat with you, stay with you, and send you charcoal.
The reason why the other party dares to share hardships with you and face the ups and downs of life hand in hand shows that she has deep feelings for you.
On the contrary, when the other party is in contact with you, when your development is smooth, he is also willing to have contact with you.
However, he lacked confidence in you, afraid that your boat would not be able to sit for a long time, so he stepped on two boats and found a spare tire for himself, not daring to fully entrust himself to you.
Or, your life is raining, you have encountered some bad things, in trouble, at this time, he does not dare to share the pressure with you, is not willing to share your worries, afraid of being involved by you, and finally chooses to leave you, the other party released such a signal, obviously did not take you seriously.
3. Excuse being timid and not daring to do what you expect him to do and disappoint you.
When a person is in contact with you, he really looks at you and wants to hold hands with you to live a life, and will naturally treat you kindly.
In front of you, he will become brave: dare to show love, dare to do something to please you, dare to hold hands with you for a lifetime, dare to make a three-life covenant with you.
At the same time, when you point out some of his shortcomings, he will bravely face his shortcomings, continue to develop himself, and make himself better.
On the contrary, when a person interacts with you, he always uses the excuse of "timidity", does not dare to take on his responsibilities, falls, does not dare to stand up, and the reason is that he is afraid that after standing up, he will fall down again.
For what you expect him to do, he always does not do, he always says, "I am timid, dare not do", so that in the end you repeatedly disappoint, the other party will treat you like this, obviously did not take you seriously, do not realize.