What kind of performance will a person with a strong desire for control have?
For the other half, perhaps the reason why the other party is more controlling is because they care about themselves.
But more often than not, it is a manifestation of a tendency to be pathological.
In the TV series "Xiao MinJia" starring Zhou Xun and Huang Lei, there is a role with a strong desire to control.
I thought he was the perfect man, the ideal marriage partner.
However, with the broadcast of the plot, the plot direction of this role has left many viewers speechless, and more netizens have bluntly said "hurry up and stay away from such people".
"Little Minjia" Xu Zheng.
In this drama, Liu Xiaojie, who flashed marriage and flashed away, met Xu Zheng, a handsome and golden lawyer.
Xu Zheng, who is younger than Liu Xiaojie, gave people a warm and understanding character setting in the early stage.
But Xu Zheng in the later period was accused of "strong desire to control" and "man with a clever heart"?
Controlling, cunning man? Why is Xu Zheng not suitable for marriage in "Xiao Min Family"? The look in his eyes actually gave the answer.
01 "Face-changing" heart machine man
Liu Xiaojie and Qian Feng are the kind of feelings that belong to "good brothers", but Qian Feng has always liked Liu Xiaojie.
Because of a chance encounter in basketball, Liu Xiaojie met Xu Zheng, who was younger than himself.
At this time, neither Liu Xiaojie nor Qian Feng took Xu zheng seriously, but Xu Zheng had already begun to "approach" Liu Xiaojie.
Xu Zheng, who likes Liu Xiaojie, began various contacts and encounters.
When Liu Xiaojie was injured, Xu Zheng was also busy with her various tasks, giving people a sense of déjà vu of a close boyfriend.
It is also because xu zheng's excessive "invasion" of Liu Xiaojie's life that he can get Liu Xiaojie's approval and "turn positive" to become a boyfriend.
But before becoming a boyfriend, Qian Feng saw through Xu Zheng and planned to confess to Liu Xiaojie.
However, at this time, Xu Xu played a careful machine to let Liu Xiaojie "miss" the confession.
Qian Feng was not as brave as Xu Zheng, nor did he explain to Liu Xiaojie, and the tragedy came.
It can be said that although Xu Zheng is handsome and golden, he is still engaged in the legal profession and is a perfect person.
But Xu Zheng played this little careful machine, which made many people feel that this role was very unkind and loved to play tricks.
If Xu Zheng only plays this means, and then can get along with Liu Xiaojie, netizens will not be so angry.
In the "Meet parents" link, Xu Zheng was smiling on the surface, facing Liu Xiaomin and Chen Zhuo.
Just because he heard the two words "Qian Feng", Xu Zheng said goodbye to Liu Xiaomin and Chen Zhuo, and then revealed his "true face" to Liu Xiaojie.
Jealous, do not want to let his girlfriend mention the word "Qian Feng", Xu Zheng's approach is actually beyond reproach.
After all, Qian Feng had been hanging around Liu Xiaojie, and it was normal for Xu Zheng to refuse.
But what people did not expect was that Liu Xiaojie and his nephew Jin Jiajun's fights and quarrels could cause Xu Zheng's dissatisfaction and instantly blackface.
How can such a controlling man be the ideal marriage partner?
The more outrageous "god operation" is still to come.
02 Be possessive
With the development of the story, we can see a possessive Xu Zheng.
For Xu Zheng, he could not accept that Liu Xiaojie had half a relationship with other men, and decided that he should "keep a distance from all men."
When Liu Xiaojie contacted Qian Feng, Xu Zheng was jealous and refused.
Liu Xiaojie and his nephew played and quarreled, and Xu Zheng was even more jealous, and very seriously expressed his "refusal" to Liu Xiaojie.
When he saw Liu Xiaojie chatting with others on his mobile phone, Xu Zheng did not forget to ask "male and female".
When Liu Xiaojie got a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for promotion and salary increase, Xu Zheng said something that made people speechless and unreasonable.
"Work is more important than me? Do you know? Why would someone as good as me find a divorced woman? Because I love you. ”
Xu Zheng, who is so crazy, it is no wonder that after netizens saw this plot, they all called for "staying away from such people".
People like Xu Zheng completely regard Liu Xiaojie as their own "exclusive item", not only to keep a distance from all men, but even a little negotiation, Xu Zheng will collapse.
The most frightening thing is that Liu Xiaojie, who promised to keep a distance from men, is still questioned by Xu Zheng and is even more mad on the way.
"We're about to get a license, you're so close to other men, are you mad at me?" Liu Xiaojie. ”
Such a control freak, the key Liu Xiaojie also feels that Xu Zheng's approach is because he loves himself too much and cares too much about himself.
But what she didn't know was that Xu Zheng's personality was the most terrible type in marriage, and such emotions were difficult to maintain.
And from the look in Xu Zheng's eyes, this role gives people a feeling of "very wrong", but Liu Xiaojie did not find it.
03 Yin and Yang Strange "Eyes"
Refusing to get close to Qian Feng, Xu Zheng looked at Liu Xiaojie's eyes and felt that something was wrong.
Although Xu Zheng's move was a request, in the face of Liu Xiaojie's appearance, Xu Zheng's eyes had a feeling of yin and yang.
In the follow-up plot, Xu Zheng rejects Liu Xiaojie's intimacy with Jin Jiajun, and his eyes are very firm.
This is because Xu Zheng is unwilling to have contact with Liu Xiaojie "except any man of his own", and even hopes to "stay away from men".
Liu Xiaojie told Xu Zheng about the content of the job promotion, Xu Zheng had a smile on his face, but the fluttering look had already shown that he could not accept Liu Xiaojie's promotion.
This is also in the later, when Xu Zheng and Liu Xiaojie are unreasonably quarrelsome, let Liu Xiaojie choose one of the two.
In the early stage of Xu Zheng, the "illusion" that gave the audience full score was because he was very well disguised and had a perfect image.
But the shrewd audience can see that Xu Zheng is not a suitable object for marriage.
After Xu Zheng became Liu Xiaojie's boyfriend and fiancé, this phenomenon was gradually exposed.
04 Marriage options
Xu Zheng is not suitable for marriage, not suitable for the ideal object of marriage, because he is too controlling.
Liu Xiaojie, who had experienced a "flash marriage failure", did not learn a lesson, but lost his rationality under Xu Zheng's "warm care".
Facts have proved that to find the ideal partner for marriage, you have to find a man like "Qian Feng".
Qian Feng and Liu Xiaojie have known each other for ten years, and obviously like Liu Xiaojie, but because of "courage", they stand still and are first boarded by Tong Bing and Xu Zhengjie.
However, Qian Feng's care for Liu Xiaojie is meticulous, and at the same time, he also respects Liu Xiaojie's words and practices, and does not overdo and be strong.
More importantly, Qian Feng is not a "mother treasure man" and will not "listen to his mother's words" in everything.
Perhaps after thoroughly seeing the true face of Xu Zheng, Liu Xiaojie will know who is really good to him.
As a family ethics drama, the TV series "Xiao MinJia" does a good job of interpreting the "life after divorce" of each character very vividly.
Although the plot is disgusting and terrible, "Little Minjia" really creates the most real emotions.