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I had dinner with friends on Saturday, and one of the couples brought a 9-year-old boy with them.
During the meal, the children did not stop, did not eat a few bites and ran around, squeezed into the table from other guests, picked up their favorite dishes to eat, and finally put a bunch of dishes in their own bowls.
But the child's mother, like no one else, just chatted with the people around her, as if she didn't see several guests being splashed by the child's soup.
Although the children were excellent, since then, I have labeled the mother and son as uncultured.
If the child does not change, he is likely to stumble on the word "upbringing" in the future.
Because the upbringing at the dinner table determines the future life of the child.
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The upbringing of a child determines the future development
A few days ago, a friend told me about an incident that happened when their company was hiring:
At that time, there was a new recruit, graduated from a famous university, had a beautiful resume, scored high in the written test, and was invited to participate in the interview dinner attended by the company's executives.
During the meal, he talked loudly, spitting on the stars, and treating other guests as nothing, which was a great disappointment. Finally, the company told him that although he was capable, he did not know how to respect others, did not have education, and could not admit him...
Dining etiquette is very important because catering is an essential social activity in our lives.
We eat with colleagues, with friends, with our families, at the dinner table, at the dinner table, at the dinner table, at the dinner table, at the dinner table, at the dinner table to develop relationships.
It is safe to say that developing good dining etiquette is an important prerequisite for ensuring the success of children's careers after entering society in the future.
The cultivation of this upbringing is the most valuable intangible asset left by parents to their children, and this asset is eternal and infinite.
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To cultivate children's table manners, parents must pay attention
At the dinner table, more and more parents pay attention to their children's nutrition, but pay little attention to their children's upbringing.
We are accustomed to the indecentness of children eating: there are those who see their favorite dishes desperately clipped into their own bowls, and there are those who snort and whistle when drinking soup... In this regard, parents should not be strange, accustomed to it, and even spoiled a laugh.
When you neglect your child's table manners, you close a door for your child to show himself.
At the dinner table, through sitting posture, movements, looks, expressions, eyes, etc., children have used silent and rich language to tell people who you are, what mentality you have, and even your attitude towards life.
Therefore, cultivating good body language at the child's table also means helping him correct the bad habits of a lewd, loose loser and develop a decent, measured habit of success.
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A good habit for children to develop at the dinner table
1. Before the meal (the elderly first, the young ones later), the family members are seated, and the whole family can move the chopsticks after they are seated;
2. Learn to serve the bowl correctly, use your thumb on the edge of the bowl, and put the other four fingers at the bottom of the bowl;
3. During the meal, keep the desktop clean and tidy at any time;
4. When eating, chew carefully and swallow slowly, and do not speak in the mouth; eat and drink soup without making a sound;
5, do not turn over the food on the plate, some dishes use public chopsticks; chopsticks do not clip vegetables when there is food on the chopsticks;
6. Do not wave the tableware to refer to people;
7. Three meals are regular, quantitative, not partial, not overeating, cherishing food and not wasting;
8. When you leave the table, you should collect the residue in your own bowl, sit in a chair, and say to the same table: "Please use slowly, I will go first."
What your children will be like in the future, what kind of work they will do, who they will marry, and what they will achieve is actually inseparable from the teachings of their parents when they were young.
The good habits developed from the dinner table will accompany the child for a lifetime, and to some extent, determine the upper limit of his life.
So, pay attention to the children's behavior at the dinner table and teach them well! Please forward and share, carry forward the traditional Chinese culture!
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