Preface
Love, like a warm spring breeze, blows into the hearts of men and women, and in an instant, it seems that the world has a different spring color.
In the Book of Poetry, Zhou Nan Guan Ju, it is written: "A lady, a gentleman is a good gentleman." ”
In the world of love, both men and women will long for each other for the rest of their lives when they meet true love. In the game of love, each other hopes: I hope that I will bring the wind and snow, but also the tenderness you desire.
It's like Paul. As Arya said, "I am the last passer-by on your road, the last spring, the last snow, the last battle to survive." ”
However, on the road of love, when men pursue women, they often feel that women are like snow lotuses on the iceberg, noble and holy, and out of reach.
In fact, there are some women who are not so difficult to chase. If you do what you like, you can easily get the other party's heart.
Achieving love requires courage and heart, and a woman is not good at chasing, in fact, it can be seen at a glance. Women who are easy to be chased have "three characteristics" that are particularly obvious.
Love material, and see her vanity at a glance.
Material is the basis of love, but vain women, they will consider materiality first in love, not love.
Vanity women, easy to chase, because they are easily confused by men's money.
Vain women often have beauty, but they do not have much ability, and they feel that they can get the favor of rich men by virtue of their youth and beauty.
Qi Tian in "Chasing the Love Family" likes Dong Yiyi, but she is dead set on being with Cheng Feng. Because in his eyes, the comparison is not between two people who love her more, but who is richer.
She likes to have a better material life, so even if Cheng Feng changes her mind many times, she can easily forgive him. What she was unwilling to give up was not Cheng Feng as a person, but his money.
Vanity women, as long as they have enough money, can catch up.
If a woman sees more money, luxury goods, beautiful dresses, and is very happy because of it, she will be more willing to associate with men who give him material things.
Goethe said: "Vanity is at best equal to a flirtatious and beautiful woman." ”
Women who advocate materialism are relatively short-sighted and do not have a big pattern. All you see is the immediate benefits, men don't have to pay true love, as long as they pay enough money, they can make women compromise.
Unsociable women, with low self-esteem.
On the road of love, the woman with inferiority in her heart is very easy to chase.
Zhang Ailing said: "If you like a person, you will be humbled to the dust and then blossom." ”
Women with low self-esteem in their hearts are often not sociable and always feel that no one will like her. She is very sensitive in her heart and will always hide in a small corner, not wanting anyone to notice her.
If a woman is not good at interacting with people, she will be in a state of lack of love, and when someone gives warmth, it is easy to easily touch her heart.
In the face of inferior women, men easily disguise themselves as very attentive, and they will easily get the woman's sincerity.
The more unsociable a woman is, the more sensitive she will be, and the more she lacks self-confidence and security. As long as the man is patient with her and gives her some care and affection, it is easy to move her.
When a man gives her some insignificant care, she feels like he has given her infinite care. Women with low self-esteem will be willing to give it all because of a man's little effort.
Moreover, women with inferiority and men together will spoil men everywhere, lest they do something wrong and lose each other's love.
Simple, innocent woman
Simple women, like a girl on a blank sheet of paper, are very easy to chase.
Women are too simple, they are easy to be moved, easy to believe men's words, and feel that everything men say is true. When a woman is immersed in the hanging garden depicted by a man, it is easy to surrender her true heart.
Qiu Yingying in "Ode to Joy" likes Director Bai. Supervisor Bai occasionally took her to work and bought her some milk tea and breakfast, and she thought it was true love.
Qu Xiaoxiu kindly tells her that Director Bai is a "scumbag", but Qiu Yingying instead suspects that Qu Xiaoxiu intervened in the relationship between them.
Simple women have no bad thoughts, always feel that men's love is single-minded, and when they know the true face of men, they will be hurt very deeply.
Simple mind, in fact, there is no pejorative meaning, but because the experience is too small, and it is easy to recognize people inaccurately.
Women can have a good heart, but also have a sense of self-protection. Too naïve, easy to be chased by men, the chance of being hurt will become greater.
Simple women, who can't see what kind of a man is, often regard "false feelings" as "true love" and will blindly invest in a relationship.
Simple, naïve women, easy to be fooled by men's sweet words, for this reason to give their hearts.
summary
In the face of a relationship, different women will have different ways of dealing with the relationship. If you want to get more happiness and happiness from your feelings, you must face yourself.
Good love is worth waiting for, as there is a passage in "The Grass and Trees on Earth" that says: "If you visit me and I am not there, please sit with the flowers outside my door for a while, they are very warm, and I have been watching them for many, many days." ”
Don't be too easy to believe and agree to a relationship, and understand that all love needs to have a gradual process.
Two people need to get along, need to be tested, need to understand and run into each other, and then slowly deliver the sincerity little by little.
Women should not be too naïve, protect themselves well, and do not be a woman who is easily chased.
Money in the face of feelings, in fact, can not be equated. Loving someone is not a sweet word to impress, but willing to sacrifice yourself to achieve your affection.
Judging whether a man loves you or not is not to listen to what he says, but to see what he does. Judging whether a man is worth marrying is not to look at what he plans for the future, but to see what he has created with his own ability.
When you can't see a man's character, lengthen the love period and slowly fall in love, you can make people's hearts.