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Love is caught off guard and genuinely protective.
Many women will ask, when you are in a relationship with a man, how can you know that the other party is really with you? After all, there will always be some examples in this world of only falling in love and not getting married, and there are some men, and the attitude of the gamer world may bring painful past to women.
How to polish your eyes in love, in fact, many times only need your careful and meticulous observation, many details can expose the true intentions of the two in love.
As a woman, in fact, don't always blindly ask the other party whether you love yourself, such behavior will appear to be very childish, but also make the other party feel tired.
You know, when men treat you as a baby, they will give you these two things, and once you have them, you must cherish them.
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First, his time and money
When he is willing to give you both, then, he must care about you very much. First of all, women should never only value material benefits, and do not think that the other party is willing to spend money for you is really like you.
When a small number of girls are looking for a marriage partner, they attach great importance to the material, only to see whether the other party has a house, a car, whether the house is large enough, whether the car is good enough, so that from the beginning of the wrong purpose and essence of love, they will also be classified into the ranks of material girls, naturally it is difficult to win the heart.
Men who really love you will be willing to spend money for you, the premise is of course rational consumption, even if the other party is willing to spend money for you, as a woman, you must have your own principles and standards, do not blindly take advantage of each other.
In contrast, more importantly, it should be seen whether the other party is willing to spend time for you, and people who have had true love will realize that when they fall in love with someone, they will involuntarily think of each other all the time, they will involuntarily wander anytime and anywhere, they will make each other happy, surprise each other, and desperately take time to find each other in front of her eyes.
So, when he's willing to spend a lot of time with you, he must be treating you like a baby.
Second, his sincerity
Psychologists once said that in front of the people they love, men tend to put down all their defenses and masks, and people who are cold and silent on weekdays may talk a lot in front of their lovers, and their demeanor and expressions will become like children, all because of love.
Once in love, they will unconditionally trust each other, rely on each other, and treat each other as writers and people.
"Ode to Joy" can be said to be a more classic urban theme drama in the past two years, Dr. Zhao in the play does not smile on weekdays, looks particularly cold, but after encountering the eccentric Qu Xiaoxiu, from the initial surprise, anti-feeling gradually understand and finally like, his personality is also constantly changing, and when he is with Qu Xiaoxiu, he changes the stereotype and coldness of the past and becomes happy and naughty.
Love is what it is, it can change a person's state. Many words that can never be said to outsiders will tell each other unreservedly.
As a woman, you must first feel this change in the other party, but also respect the sincerity of the other party to yourself, especially the secret he confides in you, which can be said to be the exclusive secret of the two of you, not only witnessing the sincerity of the other party to you, but also requiring you to abide by the secret for him, do not go around to show off and spread to others. Respecting each other is actually respecting yourself.
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In fact, what is needed for love is emotional intelligence and IQ.
For women, we must be good at observing, good at understanding, the details and words of getting along, in fact, is the key to interpreting your feelings, whether the other party has injected sincerity into you, as long as you use your heart to experience, you must be able to feel. If you can't feel the sincerity of the other party, even if it is difficult to give up, you must think about the pain and end the feelings.
On the contrary, if you really feel the sincerity of the other party, then you must learn to cherish, a lot of feelings, if you do not know how to cherish, not good at business, in fact, inadvertently will slowly pass, do not let yourself into the "once missed is not there" situation.
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