You must have heard a saying like this:
I don't know what to do, but I go deeper.
This sentence comes from the famous drama "Peony Pavilion", which means that a person's feelings are unconsciously aroused and become deeper and deeper.
So, what exactly is the emotion inspired by, and what is hidden behind this "unconscious"?
What does it mean to be unattractive?
From a psychological point of view, the arousal of emotions stems from the attraction of a person.
The famous writer Jan Ma Barry once said: "Charm is a flower that blooms in a woman." With it you don't need anything else; without it, you have nothing more than nothing. ”
Just like Guan Guan in the previous hit drama "Ode to Joy", born in a well-off family, with a good education level, a good appearance, a well-behaved and gentle personality, and a serious job...
However, if a woman is not attractive, then all the good things will not be your turn.
It is such a girl who is not bad, after the end of the first season, she is the only one in the "five beauty". Even Dr. Zhao, whom she had been secretly in love for a long time, was abducted by Qu Xiaoxiu with the Soul Hook Dafa, and she could only hide to the side and be devastated.
The same is the love for Dr. Zhao at first sight, why did the "good girl" lose to the "Qu Goblin"?
How to awaken the attraction of "sleeping"?
Do you have this doubt:
Why does a girl who looks worse than you have a boyfriend who loves her very much?
Why do you obviously manage marital love very carefully, but your other half is still picky?
Why do others live like goddesses and you are always so unremarkable?
Why do you also feel mediocre, but you don't know how to change?
These troubles are actually because you have not found your own advantages, the most important of which is attraction!
What many people don't know is that attraction is something that everyone has and is born with.
Just as in the animal world, the sexes express the desire for mating by emitting odors, making sounds, or revealing their bodies. In evolution, this attraction still did not deviate from the original instinct.
This means that as long as you are a person with emotional needs for the opposite sex, you will be able to release attraction in front of the other person.
Just like Guan Guan, although the appearance is gentle and elegant, it hides infinite passion.
In the early stage, she was "dull and boring", because she was taught by her mother to be reserved since she was a child, she could only try to suppress her charm.
Qu Xiaoxiu, on the other hand, is much more "interesting" than she is, and every time she releases a "love signal" to Dr. Zhao, it is difficult to overwhelm.
Fortunately, Guan Guan has many mentors and friends around her, Andy encourages her to "you are a very serious and good person", and the dance teacher also teaches her to "express herself with her eyes".
In the process of exploration and learning, Guan Guan began to try to tap his own attraction, and eventually transformed gorgeously, winning the attention and admiration of the opposite sex.
Even her boyfriend Xie Tong couldn't help but say, "I don't think you're worse than Qu Xiaoxiu, you're much prettier than her." ”
But in life, we will not often get the guidance of "nobles", so how can we enhance our attractiveness on our own?
The secret is that you need to find an opportunity to "wake it up" from its slumber!
There is such a girl, her appearance is not good, and she is not very good at dressing. One day, she got a very beautiful headband, and when she put it on in front of the mirror, she felt that she was shining and confident in the mirror.
So, happily wearing a headband, she went to a party where she felt that everyone was attracted to her, full of kindness and appreciation.
It wasn't until the end of the party that she realized that her headband had fallen off when she went out.
For this girl, the "headband" in the belief is like the "switch" of her attraction, when the "switch" is turned on, her "attraction" is awakened by her for the first time, and her confidence naturally emanates.
Even without the "protection" of the headband, she can still be the one who attracts attention.
So, the girls in life who are more attractive than you are just because they project this "switch" from the outside to the inside.
That is to say, if you want to make yourself an attractive person, the only thing you have to do is to discover the attraction in yourself and cultivate it to the extreme.
So, what are the characteristics of your body that attract the most to the opposite sex? How to give full play to your own charm and strengths and harvest your own perfect love?
To this end, 8 professional psychologists of One Psychology jointly developed the "Fatal Attraction" test, which will explore the most fatal attraction in you from the two major parts of external attraction and internal attraction, as well as 7 aspects such as heterosexuality, interpersonal charm, personality quality, and image management. At the same time, according to your shortcomings, provide advice to help you become a more confident and brilliant self.
-Fatal Attraction Test-
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Test questions: 22 test report: 6 pages
After the test is complete, the generated report is saved permanently
- What will you get? -
"Part of the following presentation report"
01丨 Your attractiveness index
02丨Explor and dissect your attraction
03丨In-depth interpretation of your most deadly attraction
04丨How to enhance your attractiveness