Ying Qin, in the original work of "Ode to Joy", was complained about by readers a lot of characters, especially his behavior with Ying Mu, and really responded to the sentence - "Be lenient with yourself and treat others strictly".
When his before and after were inconsistent, colliding with Qiu Yingying's burning body for love, in this small communication circle on the 22nd floor, it burst out of the thunder and fire, making the chickens and dogs restless.
Here, I don't want to say that Qiu Yingying has a lot of things that are not, after all, her personality can do such an act, which is really expected.
However, when breaking up, he showed a firm attitude, for the sake of the word virginity, he hurt Qiu Yingying fiercely, but after seeing the new girlfriend's various bad things, he realized Qiu Yingying's various beauty.
Regret is not terrible, but what is terrible is that when the fiancée has a problem, she immediately throws away her so-called code, does not turn around and squeeze Qiu Yingying's love and dedication, and finally, even let her be implicated into a small third and beaten into the hospital, which is terrible.
This farce, in addition to Qiu Yingying's single stupidity, is the greed of Ying Qin swinging left and right, without a position and responsibility.
Both want to make the new girlfriend give in, but also want to squeeze the benefits of the ex-girlfriend, this kind of man's eating appearance, is too ugly!
Inconsistent positions
Although, Ying Qin's full maintenance of the word "virgin" is his old-fashioned insistence, as some readers say, it can be understood and can also be said in the past.
However, since it is a firmly supported position, please do not give up your position under external oppression and consideration, otherwise it will show that this man is inconsistent and irresponsible.
Behind Ying Qin's lack of position, there is a greedy heart hidden in this man: he does not cut off the relationship with his current girlfriend, because this girl is from his hometown, and he proposes to break up is bound to make the family chickens and dogs restless, he has no courage; at the same time, Qiu Yingying's intimacy and warmth also make him happy, he is unwilling to return to the snobbish girlfriend, but he is entangled with his ex-girlfriend Qiu Yingying countless times.
In the end, the anger of the new girlfriend beat him into the ICU, and finally, the woman had to propose to break up with him.
It can be seen that this kind of man has neither concentration nor responsibility, and he has to shrink behind his parents after the situation is severe, waiting for the intervention and help of others, and waiting until the situation is so severe that he has to spread it out, and then he borrows the hand of others to solve it.
And the most disgusting point for me is that Ying Qin's change of heart to Qiu Yingying.
His purpose is not simple at all, he wants a free nanny, a partner who never says no, a girlfriend who will not make demands that are not conducive to his own interests, he calculates Qiu Yingying's obsession, so he wantonly uses and cheats on her.
He didn't love Xiao Qiu, but he was pushed by interests to a more beneficial side for himself!
And looking back at his comments on Fan Shengmei about Xiao Qiu, it is really ironic:
Ke Yingqin looked down and thought for a while, then looked up:
I recalled that Xiao Qiu's mind was not innocent. She kept talking to me about tradition, and she knew that I was a serious person, and I wouldn't mess around until I got married. Did she want to trick me into getting a marriage license and cooking raw rice to let me know? ”
……
"It's a stain. She didn't hold on, very undeserved. And she is usually a straightforward person, what is she thinking and saying in her heart, how can she only hide such an important thing? She's deliberate. ”
Selfish gestures
I remember such a sentence that Ying Qin said in the original work, which impressed me deeply, and it was this sentence that made me see the uselessness and cruelty of this man.
He said to Father Qiu:
"Don't fight, don't fight again, hurt Xiao Qiu." She had already made a mistake. ”
When Qiu Father learned that Qiu Yingying was walking with Ying Qin, who had a girlfriend, he wanted to deceive him, and when he and Ying Qin privately decided to live forever, he immediately became angry to beat Qiu Yingying.
And this is how Ying Qin responded to Father Qiu.
He felt that Xiao Qiu "knew that he was wrong", and it was the word "knowing mistake" that made this man's coolness and selfishness revealed.
Obviously, he took the initiative to provoke Qiu Yingying and let her bear Xiao San's insult, obviously it was his posture of only promise, so that Xiao Qiu was humiliated and beaten, obviously all these disasters were brought by him, and he felt that Qiu Yingying was wrong.
It's ridiculous!
Maybe even Ying Qin himself didn't know that he had the truest feelings for Qiu Yingying in his heart!
Remember that he once said this to Fan Shengmei, Xiao Qiu:
"How can a person who does not love herself love others, and how can others love her?"
In Ying Qin's heart, the evaluation of Qiu Yingying has never changed: he always feels that Qiu Yingying "does not love himself", he feels so when he proposes to break up, and after he changes his mind, he still feels so, he has never changed the thoughts in his heart, he just made a choice that is more beneficial to himself - he married Qiu Yingying.
This is Qiu Yingying's "high climb", why not pick up the cheap with diligence?
It can be seen that Ying Qin's mouth - his own "principled" has always been an empty phrase.
However, what still moved me in the article was the words that Qiu Father said to Qiu Yingying.
He said:
"It can be seen that the Ying family looks down on you and thinks you have no rules." Dad is also angry with you, but Dad knows that you are not a bad boy, and you must be dizzy and do a big thing wrong. But Dad has to let the Ying family know that our Qiu family children are people with rules, young people always do wrong things, a mistake can be forgiven, should be forgiven, can no longer chase. Dad can only be more ruthless than them, and Dad is not willing to do it, but Dad can't do anything for you. You know what? ”
My father's fist and love for his daughter moved me.
Therefore, all the love for Qiu Yingying that Ying Qin showed was just a concession by him in order to get benefits, and his protection of Qiu Yingying was beaten, which was also like Qu Xiaoxiu's comment:
"But any man, with a little conscience, sees his friend being beaten because he is not blocked, so why should he run away?" Wait for the handover, and then the rebellion is too late, how to do it, where there is something to realize his heart, the boy must understand these acids do not pull a few, will not break up with Xiao Qiu. ”
In a word! There is really only a qu goblin!
summary:
Although Ying Qin is not a completely bad person, he has his advantages, but just because he is involved in the interests of "eating back grass", let me greatly reduce his impression of him, his series of practices, is just a selfish man, want to spend the least price, in exchange for the greatest benefits, there is no love!
And his series of performances and practices against Qiu Yingying reveal the selfishness, coolness and lack of responsibility of this man, this kind of man cannot marry, after all, a "mother treasure man" who listens to his mother in everything can have any maturity and stability?
I can fully imagine Qiu Yingying's future life, although she married her lover, but lost her job, no status, no self-esteem, a lifetime can only be dominated by the diligence, with him reprimand, become the woman's most reluctant to become a yellow-faced woman, the day can only be bitter!
Therefore, from Ying Qin's "eating back grass" to Qiu Yingying's future bitter days, we should really warn all women that a man like Ying Qin can't marry, and a "love" like Ying Qiu can't!
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