Fan Shengmei said that she did not know how Qiu Yingying had such a good life, and found a job with a house and a car, a down-to-earth person, and a Shanghai household registration. But when Ying Qin really married Qiu Yingying, will Qiu Yingying definitely make a steady profit?
As we all know, Ying Qin has a very serious virgin complex. How serious is it? When he knew that Qiu Yingying was not a virgin, he did not say a word, directly left a table of people, broke out of the door, and threw Qiu Yingying's face on the ground and rubbed it hard. Then he didn't care about anything, decisively and directly proposed to break up, not giving a chance at all, cruel enough to delete all of Qiu Yingying's contact information.
Qiu Yingying is also stupid, just such a desperate man broke up with him, but she can make him lose his soul and can't work.
Some people say that Ying Qin is qualified to do this because his personal conditions are not bad.
Like Fan Shengmei said, he has a stable job, a lot of income, or a pure love man who has a house and a car in Shanghai at a young age, and many girls like this! And Qiu Yingying married him, very naturally became a Shanghainese, that is the dream of many foreign girls.
However, Qiu Yingying's love for Yingqin is not to his house and car, but really likes Yingqin. Compared with Fan Shengmei, the little earthworm sees the honest duty of diligence. Treat yourself well until you don't know she's not a virgin.
But to tell the truth, a man like Ying Qin is not necessarily Qiu Yingying, because Ying Qin is not suitable for marriage, let alone a good match. That is to say, Qiu Yingying rushed to like him and changed into someone else, really don't want it.
Just take, don't know how to give
In this relationship between Ying Qin and Qiu Yingying, Qiu Yingying paid much more than Ying Qin. As a man, Ying Qin has always been a taker, he only looks at what the other party has done for himself, what he can get from the other party, and rarely pays.
He is busy at work, so he needs someone who understands him, he is a program employee, he needs a person who will take care of him. In addition, those who are capable and virtuous, willing to give everything for him, and even a person who saves money are very good choices.
So when Qiu Yingying brought him sausage rice, sent him supper in the winter, and sent masks and scarves, Ying Qin was moved.
Isn't Qiu Yingying just a girlfriend who just meets all of the above needs? In addition, Qiu Yingying is very simple and kind, she will not calculate his house and car at all, and she is sincere and selfless to her own good! Ying Qin was very satisfied with such Qiu Yingying.
It was only as a result that when Ying Qin knew that Qiu Yingying was not a virgin, Ying Qin was very concerned about this matter, and he immediately felt that Qiu Yingying was just pretending to be simple, and even shameless, and did not deserve him at all. He could not accept it, and decided to dump Qiu Yingying without hesitation, and did not give Qiu Yingying a chance at all. He didn't give up a little, and there was only one sentence in his mind: "How can I marry such a woman?" ”
Then, Ying Qin broke up and changed to a virgin new girlfriend as quickly as possible.
Break up decisively, show no mercy, and do not give decency
The reason for Yingqin's breakup was complained about, and the same was true of the way. He chose to be at the dinner table, directly without saying hello, and did a very undignified and ungraceful way. He is completely venting his dissatisfaction in the way he feels most comfortable, and he must quickly withdraw from this woman who has "cheated" himself with simplicity, or, in her mother's words, is "unclean and shameless". But she never considered how much such harm would be to Qiu Yingying, and what her friends would think of her!
Ying Qin walked away very cruelly, as if he had never loved this woman at all. She also deleted all of Qiu Yingying's contact information, returned to her hometown to accept a blind date, and began a new relationship with a lightning speed. Qiu Yingying was like the garbage he casually threw into the trash can, completely without emotion.
Diligence is double-standard
After the breakup, Ying Qin began a new relationship, and this time, he first learned about the situation that his new girlfriend was a virgin, and he was satisfied. Then immediately took his girlfriend to Shanghai, still as a fiancée, he helped her find a job, the two of them lived together, and began to live together.
First of all, he demanded that the woman must be absolutely pure, which is why he chose to break up because Qiu Yingying was not a virgin. In his opinion, Qiu Yingying is not a virgin, so everything she has done for herself before, the experience of once touching herself, is not worth mentioning. Not being a virgin is not worth his feelings, and he even regrets developing a relationship with Qiu Yingying, thinking that it is also his stain.
But when the new girlfriend is a virgin, Ying Qin can violate all the rules and treat them differently with two sets of standards. The new girlfriend can live with him before marriage, although nothing has happened between the two, but before marriage, he thinks it doesn't matter. Because he is a virgin, he can tolerate.
But the biggest difference between Ying Qin's relationship and the previous period is not the difference between the girlfriend and the virgin, but the fact that this time the girlfriend is no longer like Qiu Yingying, who is willing to pay for him as the "weak side". In this new relationship, Ying Qin is the giver, he is the party who takes care of his girlfriend, he wants to arrange a place for her to live, help her and even help her relatives find a job.
At first he was happy, but slowly, Ying Qin began to get tired of giving. Because compared to when he interacted with Qiu Yingying, he only enjoyed the efforts of others, and this time he had to worry too much.
So Ying Qin was upset in his heart and began to miss Qiu Yingying's goodness. He began to take the initiative to provoke Qiu Yingying, telling his ex-girlfriend about his dissatisfaction with this virgin girlfriend, or secretly meeting Qiu Yingying with his girlfriend.
He wanted a virgin who could serve him, Qiu Yingying could serve him but not a virgin, but the new girlfriend was a virgin, but more like a mother, she did not serve herself at all. In the new relationship, for the first time as a giver, he felt so tired.
However, Ying Qin vented his bitterness and found that the object was actually qiu Yingying, the ex-girlfriend who was most disliked before, and he was at ease. This time, he didn't care about the feelings of two people, one was his fiancée, and the other was Qiu Yingying's! He was sorry for his fiancée, because it was a betrayal, and he was also sorry for Qiu Yingying, who was blood sucking. To put it mildly, Ying Qin's behavior is really too disgraceful, and it is strange that his fiancée does not find someone to beat him.
According to his words, people are virgins, living with you, your fiancée, and you are complaining to your ex-girlfriend, how simple are you?
And Qiu Yingying also rushed to listen to the complaints of a man who had abandoned himself fiercely, and it was her fault.
When Ying Qin and Qiu Yingying were both admitted to the hospital, Ying Qin suddenly woke up and clarified his intentions, he still wanted to find a wife who was willing to pay for herself, did not need to worry, and did not care about her for the time being.
But is it really worth it?
When Qiu Yingying heard that Ying Qin loved herself, she was almost overwhelmed. She even said that she could marry Yingqin, she could not want a bride price, a wedding, even a house, she could quit her job to take care of him!
If you don't want to marry Ying Qin without anything, will Qiu Yingying have a good ending in the end?
Ying Qin's so-called love for her is just a hasty idea in contrast to the barbaric behavior of his current girlfriend. If you love her, why did you break up before just because you were not a virgin, and you still avoided her and did not take care of Qiu Yingying's feelings, and even disliked her, and immediately began a new relationship.
With such a serious virgin complex as his, it is estimated that it will be difficult to pass such a hurdle in this life. On the night of the candle in the cave, he will still be disgusted, and even after marriage, every time the husband and wife quarrel, it is likely that Ying Qin will turn over the old account.
He didn't like his fiancée, but because he had measured it, he was a giver in that relationship, and if he met a virgin who was willing to pay for him, then how could he turn back to like Qiu Yingying?
Ying Qin's determination, as well as concealing his fiancée's complaints with his ex-girlfriend, announcing that he is a fiancée and then not marrying others after cohabitation, he puts his personal feelings and needs first, and he never cares about the feelings of the two women.
Ying Qin ate the "back grass" and then confessed to Qiu Yingying, and when he heard that Qiu Yingying was still the woman who was willing to give everything for herself, he still felt justified.
If he really loved Qiu Yingying, when his mother was embarrassed by Qiu Yingying, he would not choose to let Qiu Yingying endure, saying that it would be better to wait for her mother to go back.
If he really loved Qiu Yingying, he wouldn't even give her a decent wedding. Didn't he know that Qiu Yingying said that she didn't want to get married, but in fact she was also a little girl who was looking forward to wearing a wedding dress? It's just that Ying Qin feels that saving money and saving trouble is just that, and when he hears Qiu Yingying say that he can't do it, he won't take the initiative to give.
In this relationship, it has always been Qiu Yingying who feels inferior to others, feeling that it is not right for YingQin to be separated from herself, and she is either a virgin or sorry for him.
And after Ying Qin gets married, he is bound to grasp this point and let himself always be on the strong side.
Without change, Qiu Yingying could not be happy
Regarding giving, when in love, you should be diligent and consider the gains and losses, and you are shrewd and fierce. As soon as he felt that he had suffered a loss, he immediately withdrew and did not give him a chance, let alone marriage? Can Qiu Yingying really be very happy when she marries him?
In fact, it can be imagined that who loves who is more miserable, qiu Yingying is definitely a more tired party. After marriage, it will only be more accommodating to him, take care of him, you can not be self-sufficient, everything is based on the husband first, and then do not consider gains and losses.
If Ying Qin knows how to cherish, learn to pay, understand that it is far more difficult to run a good marriage than love, and only by paying each other is it easier to be happy, then Qiu Yingying may be better.
But if he always takes Qiu Yingying's efforts for granted, thinking that Qiu Yingying is not a virgin marrying him, it is a kind of high climb, then he will always be on top. Qiu Yingying will only take care of him for free as a daughter-in-law and a mother, and then she can sit back and relax, saving money and trouble and worry. Plus yingqin's mother is also a powerful character, will her life after marriage be better?
If so, really don't marry.
It can only be said that Ying Qin is not mature enough, and he still has a longer way to go before he can be a reliable man with responsibility and can marry and become a qualified husband. He also has to change everything to put himself first, not caring about the feelings of others, to understand the responsibilities and obligations of men and husbands, and to learn to pay for others. Otherwise, even if his external conditions are good, he may not be suitable for entering the marriage hall.