Men who like flowers, generally have these 4 characteristics, you see how many he hit?

Flower heart, as can be seen from the literal meaning, it refers to a person's attitude toward feelings is not specific, just like walking around the flowers, unwilling to understand a thing in depth and detail.

People with flower-hearted traits tend to see one love one and they don't seem to know what true love really is like.

With the person who spends his heart, the unpleasantness we experience is self-evident.

Because they don't focus on it at all, when we are with them, we will still suffer from gains and losses, worried that the other party will abandon themselves at any time, and our hearts are full of insecurity.

The love we have can certainly give us a warm, comfortable and down-to-earth feeling, not those uncertain things.

Therefore, we need to master the ability to distinguish love, and we also need to master the ability to distinguish whether a person is a flower.

Psychological research has shown that men who like to spend their hearts generally have these 4 characteristics, how many do you see him hit?

Doing things is always three minutes of heat, not good at persistence

The white supervisor in the TV series "Ode to Joy" almost did not spend any time and cost when pursuing Qiu Yingying, but it was a few days of chatting, and Qiu Yingying had no heart and no lungs, and did not know how to deal with love.

Therefore, as soon as Director Bai confessed to her, she agreed.

Within a few days of the two establishing a relationship, Director Bai and the other opposite sexes frowned, and unscrupulously engaged in ambiguity, not paying attention to Qiu Yingying at all.

Love should not be impatient, and true liking is not once and for all, but gradual.

Rushing like this has never been a single-minded feeling.

Unwilling to delve into the nature of a thing, the light is fleeting

Regarding the occurrence of love, women are more inclined to their own ears and hearts, while men are more inclined to their own eyes.

That is to say, men's love is concerned with what a person looks like, while women's love is concerned with a man's character or attitude.

Everyone has a heart for beauty, and everyone likes good-looking people, which is understandable, but we should also know that love is not a superficial substance, and it is not a matter of relying on appearance to the end.

Single-minded love is like calligraphy, "into the wood three points", is to take time to understand a person's hobbies, personality and temper, etc., and then think about whether the other party and themselves are suitable.

Not all of them have not been studied, just rely on the appearance to like a person, or rely on the appearance to deny a person.

Feelings that rely only on appearance will eventually collapse by relying on appearance.

Good at self-familiarity, the first time you meet will be too intimate

Men who spend their hearts generally do not really like each other in their hearts, because they do not know what kind of emotions single-mindedness is, and they will only feel that everything is premised on their own happiness.

We all know that liking someone can become cautious.

Because we want to get closer to each other, we will pay extra attention to our own words and deeds, and we don't know which of our words that are inappropriate will make the other party angry.

Marx said: "It seems to me that true love is manifested in the implicit, modest and even shy attitude of the lover towards his idol, and by no means in the casual expression of enthusiasm and premature intimacy." ”

Therefore, when getting along with people you like, especially when you meet for the first time, you will be nervous and confused, and you don't know what to do.

And those men who spend their hearts are bound to not have such nervousness.

They spend their hearts, so they don't really like a person, because they don't like it, so whether the other party will hate themselves is not an important thing for them.

When you don't get a person, you lower your bottom line infinitely

If we pay attention to observation, we will find that men who spend their hearts will inevitably lower their bottom line infinitely when pursuing others.

We can see that we obviously open our teeth and claws and make unreasonable trouble, but the other party will never be angry, and say that our teeth and claws are very cute;

Again and again, we reject each other, but instead of getting angry, the other person becomes more frustrated.

Just when we think we have met true love and let go of our defenses, the other party will be exposed, no longer tolerant, no longer good-tempered, and no longer gentle.

That's because people's level of interest is always higher when they haven't yet been obtained than when they've already been.

Because the purpose has not yet been achieved, he uses all his strength to achieve his own purpose; once the purpose is achieved, his hunting desire and curiosity are satisfied, and naturally he will not spend any more effort.

Flower heart is a bad adjective, and women and flower heart men together will not get happiness. Don't feel like an exception, don't feel like you have the ability to make the prodigal son of the other person turn back, these childish thoughts will only make you suffer more.

We don't want to be so stupid, what we have to do is to find the inferior root of the other party's heart, and stop the loss in time.