Love, is careful, is a decision made after careful consideration, and once it is determined, it is the only one in this life.
And flirting, more like seeing the color, is the product of hormones under the whim, is extensive, is to seduce you at the same time, may still be touching other people, this is an uncertain thing.
For us, love is bound to be more secure and more secure, but sometimes we can't be sure whether a person's feelings for themselves are love or pampering.
What we are afraid of is that we think that others love our feelings, and we respond with the same attitude, but in the end we find that we are just trying, we are serious.
The delay of the soldiers can be said to be also. Women are procrastinating, not to be said.
Due to the influence of emotional thinking, we sacrifice more than men in a relationship.
Therefore, we must not take it lightly in the relationship between the sexes, otherwise we will be eaten by people who are irresponsible for love.
In a relationship between the sexes, whether a man "loves you" or "pampers you" depends on his habits.
See if the way he talks to you is frivolous
Marx said: "It seems to me that true love is manifested in the implicit, modest and even shy attitude of the lover towards his idols, and by no means in the casual expression of enthusiasm and premature intimacy." ”
Love someone, only afraid that they are not good enough, only afraid of where they are not good enough, when they are together, they may talk bumpy, and how can they say something very frivolous at the beginning?
Suppose, not long after a man meets us or is together, he uses some very frivolous language and opens some meat paragraphs that he thinks is very humorous and funny.
Then it shows that this man doesn't really care whether his impression in our hearts is good or bad.
In a love, love is on the left, love is on the right, walking on both sides of the road of life, at any time will sow seeds, under the watering of love.
It will blossom at any time, and then the long-distance dots of love will be full of fragrant flowers, and we in it, even if we are stepping on thorns, will not feel pain.
This kind of love is what we should have, even if it will be slower at the beginning, but it must be steady.
In the long stream of thin water, to experience the happiness, steadfastness and security that a good love gives us.
See if he's self-respecting when he gets along with you
It has been said that the power of love is peace, never despite reason, convention and honor and disgrace, and it can make all fear, shock and pain sweet when suffered.
However, when a man loves you, even if he is wrapped in love in his heart, he will still maintain his sanity and restrain his desires, because liking is wanton, and love is restraint.
Director Bai in the TV series "Ode to Joy" just met Qiu Yingying not long ago, and began to work with him.
The clear-eyed people immediately saw that Director Bai did not have good intentions, and he was not decent enough, but Qiu Yingying's mind was simple, and she only felt that Director Bai talked to herself as a manifestation of liking herself.
You know, when a man really loves a woman, he must be very concerned about his words and deeds.
They are afraid of leaving a frivolous bad impression on each other, so they will definitely not use their hands and feet when they get along with the opposite sex.
Of course, the man who seduces you will not have these concerns, and he does not love you, so whether a good impression or a bad impression is not so important to them.
But Yishu once said: "The love that truly belongs to you will not make you miserable, the people who love you will not make you suffer from gain and loss, some people will win the jackpot with one vote, and some people will write a book and become famous." ”
With a frivolous man, you can't feel safe after all, so it's better to stop the loss in time.
See if he's generous when he gives you
If we want to study well in college, then we will listen carefully to lectures, take notes, and actively participate in extracurricular activities every day.
If we just want to get our diplomas, then our four years of college are spent playing, and listening to songs is a very distant thing.
This is the difference between serious and not serious, serious, you will be willing to spend time and cost, not serious, you are not willing to spend, therefore, care, do not care is only a thought difference.
Well, in the same way, when a man loves you and cares about you, he may not say romantic words, but things that are implemented in practical actions will definitely be done.
And when a man doesn't love you, but just wants to seduce you, then he will not pay for you, at least not for you in actual action.
Venus said a passage: "When my daughter grows up, I will tell her that if a man only feels sorry for you to squeeze the bus, cloudy days tell you to come home from work to pay attention to safety, send funny text messages to coax you when you are sick, please don't pay attention to him." 」 ”
Words are the cheapest to touch and pay, and only those who are implemented in practical actions can truly withstand scrutiny.