When men meet the women they like, they will pursue, decision-making thinking, and they will show their feelings for the girls they like in many ways.
As we all know, liking and loving have always been two different things.
Likes may be a whim, for example because of a good-looking face, because the other person is wearing clothes that just make you like today;
Love is also a long-term love, which determines that after loving someone, it will not change because of some factors.
The emotion of love is naturally much stronger than liking, and for women, it is also the most important thing to be able to get the love of men.
How to distinguish a man's feelings for himself has become a skill that women need to master.
In a relationship between the sexes, the man's "reaction" after getting you shows whether he really loves you or not.
Men are as good to you as ever, that is, love you
The white supervisor in the TV series "Ode to Joy" always greeted her when she did not get Qiu Yingying, and bought her snacks that she liked to eat.
Qiu Yingying, who is not familiar with the world, does not know how to deal with this type of thing, she thinks that maybe this is love, so when Director Bai confessed to her, she agreed without hesitation.
The strange thing is that the white supervisor, who was willing to spend money to coax Qiu Yingying to be happy, immediately became stingy after getting Qiu Yingying and no longer spent a penny on Qiu Yingying.
The ignorant Qiu Yingying also thought that Director Bai had financial difficulties in recent times, and would not have thought that Director Bai was just holding the mentality of going to love.
When there is no chase, it is natural to be willing to please, chase, the purpose is achieved, and then pay is not necessary, this is the kind of irresponsible man's unified mentality of love.
Women in a relationship to be very simple, do not need to be rich, but at least can see the other party's sincerity.
Like the kind of man who pays for the purpose and achieves the goal and changes a person, it has never been worth the woman to give the heart.
As Yu Qiuyu said: "Love is equal, you can give more, you can also love him more, but it is by no means compromise, will, and tolerance." ”
The attitude of men is consistent, that is, love you
In the TV series "Hello, Old Time", in order to improve his grades, Xin Rui continued to read and study even after the midterm exams.
This is the attitude of people who love learning to learn, it is consistent, not to temporarily hold on to the exam, and will not read a book after the exam.
Examples like this can also be migrated into gender relations.
When men do not chase women, they boo cold and warm every day, remember each other's preferences, are not happy and are willing to spend time to coax, and will carefully select gifts on birthdays;
After chasing a woman, men will become very "indifferent", do not remember each other's preferences, will use cold violence when they are unhappy, and will be casually perfunctory on their birthdays.
If a woman is not happy, the man will say that she is doing it, that she is unreasonable, that she does not know how to understand herself.
He completely forgot what kind of intentions he had when he didn't get the other person.
Therefore, we can judge whether a man loves himself or not based on such a situation.
If the attitude contrast is great, it is not love; if the attitude is consistent, it is love.
In the variety show "Strange Story", Bo Bonnie once said a sentence: "No doctrine is greater than your life, no value can kidnap your freedom, you are a woman, you love how to come, how you are comfortable to live." 」 ”
The change in men's attitudes is obviously the other person's business, and the other party is not only unwilling to pay, but also puts the hat on our heads.
Such a man is not responsible for love, and it is best to stop the loss in time.
The time a man spends on you doesn't change, that is, he loves you
Romance is actually very simple, just like Lin Qingxuan wrote in "The Taste of the World is Qinghuan": "Romance is a waste of time to eat slowly, waste time to drink tea slowly, waste time to walk slowly, waste time to slowly grow old." ”
In life, the romance between couples is nothing more than two people visiting the supermarket together and buying some small snacks that they like to eat;
Two people huddled on the couch watching a movie with extreme literature and art, and they were very moved;
Or go out to dinner with each other, order a hot pot, and share interesting things about what happened to each other today at the steaming table.
Things like this don't change because you get it, because the man who loves you can't wait to stick to you every day.
Men who don't love you are three minutes of heat, and after getting it, it's like completing a task, and it's too boring to spend time, and it's not as important as playing a game by yourself.
For men, after getting a person, it is actually obvious whether they are sincere or hypocritical. This provides us with a reference, sincere men, take it seriously, and men who are hypocritical will stop losses in time.