It is not difficult to fall in love, and people will have many times in their lives. What is important is that this heartbeat leaves you with a flash of passion or an unforgettable thought.
There is such a bridge section in "Ode to Joy", which makes people quite impressed: Qiu Yingying saw Fan Shengmei applying a mask, so she believed that Fan Shengmei had a date that day.
Fan Shengmei said that she did not have an appointment that day, but Qiu Yingying insisted on this determination. So Fan Shengmei said: "The first thing a woman should please is herself." ”
The values of two people, the concept of love are high and low. Fan Shengmei applied the mask to make her skin better, to make herself feel happy when she looked in the mirror, and the core was for herself.
And Qiu Yingying believed in her heart that women's makeup and dressing up was to show men and to please others.
Some women's hearts are like a blank piece of paper, they first see the new, but they are bored after a long time of contact.
As a woman, of course, everyone does not want to be with the man who once swore an oath to the mountains and the sea, and in the blink of an eye, he puts himself down and forgets.
But what kind of woman can't let men put it down the most?
Gave him a lot of "first", women growing up
Some people say that in the heart of every man, there is an ex that cannot be forgotten. Even if he forgets each other's names and forgets each other's faces, it is difficult to forget the many moments when two people are together.
Especially the woman who accompanied him through many firsts. It is the most sincere emotion of youth, and it is also an obsession hidden in the heart.
Even after saying goodbye to the original emotion, this emotion will still have a huge impact on this man's life. Whether it's good or bad.
There is a friend who has always been a good gentleman, especially gentle and considerate to his wife, but only friends who have been with him for a long time know that his heart has been living in love for many years with his first love girlfriend.
But he also clearly understood that the first love is only once, and youth is only once, and living in the present is the most practical.
Just like tasting food, people will always be most impressed by the food they eat for the first time. Even if the food is not as delicious as you think, the taste buds will still expect and taste more than the food itself.
Something that has been pursued for a long time and is one step away from getting
Everything has a cost, and the more time, price, and effort we pay for a thing, the greater the weight of this matter in our hearts.
It is difficult for men to forget the women they have pursued for a long time, and it is difficult to forget the women who have hurt themselves, that is, after paying the heart, they can't ask for it.
There is a saying that what cannot be obtained is always the best. Like Lin Hui because of Jin Yuelin, Jin Yuelin for Lin Huiyin never married, even after Lin Huiyin's death, he still remembered,
At his funeral, he offered a pair of elegies, which has been passed down to this day: "A poetic thousand waterfalls, a four-month day on earth." ”
What is not obtained is the best, known in psychology as the "Zeignick effect", people are always easy to forget the things that have been done and have the results, and the memories of those that have been interrupted and unfinished are still fresh.
As Zhang Ailing said, every man's heart is probably two women, a red rose and a white moonlight. Whether it will become mosquito blood and rice particles depends on who is the one who can't get it.
When they were together, the girl was obedient to herself, but finally left
Many people know how to cherish it because they lost it, and for those women who were very good to him and once loved him deeply, many men did not feel that they were lucky at that time, but they would regret it after losing.
Like the Supreme Treasure and the Purple Xia Fairy, it is a regret that has no ending after all.
Of course, feelings are fair and selfish. Everyone has been young and crazy, and everyone has made mistakes, but this is not an excuse to hurt others.
The injured party will eventually stay away, which is also unstoppable. Life is like this, sad and happy, cloudy and sunny.
The older we get, the more we will find that everything we once had is so precious, and it is too difficult to meet someone who is really good to us.
So even if this woman is not the ultimate true love in the man's heart, the breakup of two people, the man will not be hit hard, but there is no doubt that in the days to come, he will definitely remember this woman's kindness to him.
No relationship is a waste of time, and if it doesn't give you what you want, then it must teach you what you don't want.
We will meet many kinds of people in our lives, there will always be a moment engraved in your heart, warm and worried, even without love, can also become a different kind of scenery.
Many people say that men are affectionate and women are dedicated, but in fact, this cannot be divided into men and women. Everyone's personality is different, their personality is different, and their experiences are even more different.
Even if the man who looks like a man is wandering on the outside, even if he looks like a man who is weak and widowed, there must be a soft place in his heart, sealing a woman that he will never let go of all his life.
Tang Xianzu said in "Peony Pavilion": "People are easy to grow old, things are troublesome, and dreams are difficult to grow." A little affectionate, three points shallow soil, half of the wall oblique sun. ”
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