There are men who haven't dealt with a woman yet, but have done a lot of things. People say:
"The more the merrier", but some things are better to do than not to do.
So men must remember some principles before they get a woman, there are some things that once touched, they can't be recovered, once you do something, you have an impression in the woman's mind, some impressions are good impressions, some impressions are bad impressions, don't let women have a bad impression of you.
When a person remembers a man's badness, it is because of this one that is not good, and then he has to do several things to make up for it, most of the time, even if the man does something to make up, it will not help.
Because this thing you have done has stayed in the woman's mind, the woman has also identified you as such a person, so it cannot be remedied.
This also tells men: before getting a woman, men are best to remember the three principles, once touched, it will bring great trouble.
01.
No bragging
A humble person is also a person with charisma.
In life, you may have also encountered such a scene:
A person is particularly good, but when this person says that he is very good, you feel that this person is actually like that.
In the eyes of Chinese, subtlety is also a virtue, subtlety is also a kind of excellence, modest people tend to attract others, which is a plus.
Some people may not do a very good job when doing a thing, but when this thing is done a little better, this person is not impatient or proud, then at this time, everyone will think that this person is very good.
This is a psychological state of man, so men must be humble.
When a man has not yet dealt with a woman, just brag in front of this woman, women will feel that this man is swollen face and fat, even if this man has some money, but when the man brags, the woman also feels that she can't look up to this man.
There are some men who are even more irrational, and such men will always talk in front of this woman about how many women they have had before, and women are very disgusted after hearing such words.
And you will feel that this man is particularly unreliable, and slowly you will be far away from this man, and you will also feel that this man is only suitable for himself to play, and one day he may abandon himself.
So to say that a man is to put his relationship with the other person into a stalemate, and you may never get this woman.
Therefore, before men face women who are not done, they must make a draft, understand what kind of cow should be bragged and what kind of cow should not be blown, and it is best not to brag.
02.
No tantrums
In fact, many women do not like this man to lose his temper, when a man loses his temper, women will feel particularly bored, and women will suspect that this man has a tendency to domestic violence.
There are many men around who often smoke and drink, and after drinking too much, they like to make a big fuss and throw tantrums to the people around them, such a state will make girls feel particularly afraid.
Even if this girl has a good feeling for you, this girl does not dare to be with you, because this girl does not dare to bet her life.
So when a man argues with this woman, even if the woman likes the man very much, but the woman does not dare to get too close to the man, maybe the woman will fall in love with the man, but will not marry the man, at this point, men must understand.
The reason why some boys make a lot of noise at home is because the parents in the family pamper themselves, but you must know that when you are with a girl, you must suppress your temper.
Because girls are also other people's treasures in their own homes, you treat others with such an attitude at this time, and people will certainly not have a good feeling for you.
Men can be gentle with women, even if it is this man, usually a man with manhood.
But at this time, you must have the masculinity of a man, you must also have a thousand tender feelings, so that you are a strong and gentle person, you have charm, attract the woman in front of you, and be able to deeply conquer this woman.
03.
I don't move my feet
If a man is not yet with this woman, then men must not give this woman a hand, when you do it, the woman will feel at a loss.
Although the current society is more open, but most girls are still self-respecting and self-loving, if you want to find a good girl, together to fall in love, then do not move.
Some men even feel that if they had done something to this girl earlier, then the girl would be closer to themselves, and maybe one day, two people would really hold hands, two people would hug, and even make the next step.
When a man thinks like this, it shows that the man is not mature enough, because a normal woman is very eager to get the respect of the man, and if a man does not respect the woman very much, the girl is not willing to associate with this person.
Most of the time, if a woman sees a man doing something to herself, under normal circumstances, a woman will not think that this man is here to pursue herself, but instead thinks that this man may be trying to take advantage of herself, when a woman thinks like this, this man has become very obscene!
A man will not use his hands and feet on a woman, this is a matter of principle, a man who loves to keep his duty will also make women feel solid, after the first date of two people, if the man does not insult the woman, then on the second date, the woman will still come out to date the man.
But if the man moves his hands and feet the first time, the generally simple little girl is also more self-loving little girl, and will not date this man again, because this girl is already afraid.
So smart men often don't move their hands and feet, they can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, and sometimes because you realize that it's frizzy, the cooked ducks are flying, and it's too late to regret it.
In pursuit of a woman, we must know how to boil frogs in warm water, do not be impatient, take it slowly, and use their sincerity to impress women step by step.
If one day you find out that this woman is touched, then at this time, everything is a natural thing.
If you have paid a lot, but this woman is still not moved, then at this time, you must know how to withdraw in time, maybe this woman really does not like you, even if you pay more will not help.
Leaving is not terrible, the terrible thing is that you have been with each other but you are still very lonely in your heart, and what is even more terrible is that you have been paying, but in exchange for the indifference of the other party, which is also a more face-hurting thing for a man.