How a man will change after being emotional, in our lives, as long as we carefully observe, we can find many characteristics. When men do not encounter love, their lives are very simple, and there are not many things on their minds, and what they want is immediately realized.
But after encountering love, everything began to change. Many times, men will take the initiative to consider women, take the initiative to care about women's lives, even if they are very busy, they will also worry about women in their hearts, afraid that the other party will encounter something unhappy.
At the same time, men's hearts have thoughts, worries, but also anxiety, a lot of hearts, no longer live as free as before.
Love, seemingly a tie, is actually a driving force for men to improve themselves. Once men move their true feelings, they will naturally want to change their lives harder and bring more happiness and security to women.
As Swedenborg put it: "Love exists in the desire to give and regards the pleasure of the lover as one's own." ”
Many times, women don't understand men's minds because they only remember what men have said and ignore what they have done or changed.
Women should know that once a man is emotional, in fact, there will be great changes, and even if they do not say these changes, women should observe and feel these changes of men through their own eyes.
Because, once a man is emotional with you, these changes cannot be hidden.
01 When you encounter something, he will be anxious and will find a way to solve it, rather than just verbally concerned.
Plato said, "Love, only love, can make a person dare to give his life for the person he loves; this is something that not only men can do, but women can do." ”
The more a man cares about a woman in his heart, the more he will care about everything about a woman. It's just that this kind of care is not perfunctory in words, but to show their concern with the most practical behavior, to give women the greatest sense of security, the most adequate warmth.
If a man does not love a woman so much, he will often have a perfunctory attitude when he is with a woman. When you hear that women are unhappy, they will only say some sweet words to temporarily coax women, and there is nothing else. If a woman can't distinguish a man's sincerity, she can only bear the hurt caused by this perfunctory feeling in the end.
A man who truly loves you will not be willing to let you face those bad things alone, even if he is not by your side, he must give you more than just verbal concern. Maybe he'll find a way to come to you, maybe he'll get rid of the help of his friends. In short, he will do his best to solve your troubles for you.
02 When he sees that you are more intimate with other members of the opposite sex, he will fight for the wind and jealousy, and even deliberately be indifferent to you.
Hardy said: "In love, once there is an ingredient for fighting for the wind and jealousy, a person will become very vicious and fierce. ”
Under normal circumstances, a man who loves you will definitely face you with the gentlest and warmest side of himself. However, there is a situation where a man's emotions are also very fickle, that is, when he sees you with other people of the opposite sex, and even some very intimate atmosphere.
Love is the world of two people, once in love with a person, there is only the existence of the other party in their own world, in this world, we are not allowed to have a third person appear. For men, it must be so, and no matter how tolerant your man is, he can't tolerate you being intimate with other members of the opposite sex.
Once such a situation occurs, the man will definitely be jealous, he may show some very childish, even irrational behavior, or may treat you with a very indifferent attitude. Women learn to observe these changes in men, and they should understand that he has moved his true feelings for you.
03 After the truth has moved towards you, he will not mind some of the gaps between you.
The production of love is not always in two people who are equal in all aspects, and if this is the case, love will not have so many tribulations. Many times, there are often many gaps between two people who love each other, or age, or family background, or education, or temperament.
If the opposite sex is just an ordinary friendship relationship, these gaps can easily make two people drift apart. But in love, these gaps are not the biggest obstacle, as Roland said: "When there is true love between two people, it is not necessary to take into account the problem of age, economic conditions, beauty and ugliness of appearance, height and shortness, and other external insignificant factors." If there is such a problem between you, then you have to ask yourself whether you are really in love. ”
For a man, if he does not love a woman, many conditions will form obstacles. As long as the man is truly emotional, these obstacles are less important. These performances of men can not be hidden, two people in the relationship, as long as women pay more attention to these performances of men, naturally also know the man's intentions.
Wovinag once said, "Habit is everything, even in love." ”
Men are emotional about a woman, in many habits and behaviors are not hidden, these expressions of love, although not expressed in words, but these behaviors are enough to make women feel the sincerity of men.