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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Joe Byron said: "Love is nothing but an external thing for men, but for women it is a whole life." ”
It is true that men's attitude towards feelings is sometimes far more rash than that of women, and it is difficult to really do it from the beginning.
Therefore, men talk about love with women, please themselves, more than the responsibility on their bodies, for a momentary freshness, even if they fail women, they do not feel that they have done wrong.
They constantly pursue love, rarely for marriage, usually treat women as an episode in their feelings, release a little truth when they love, and gradually become estranged after getting it.
Therefore, some men are inherently very careful, and women are easily hurt if they can't see them through.
This requires women to learn to recognize this kind of man, and once they find that he is not sincere with your feelings and shows special care, they must stop the loss in time.
When you meet this kind of man, don't be entangled, after all, he is not sincere with you, has no preference, maybe it is just a random flower on the side of the road, and it will be discarded when it is finished.
In fact, the man with the heart will definitely show some performance, and when interacting with you, he will always show flaws, which is not difficult to find.
I hope that women can understand the three typical manifestations of a man who is very "flower-hearted":
First, especially will seduce women, but not sure about the relationship
This kind of man has a lot of opposite sex, and when he sees what he likes, he will talk to him, and no matter where he goes, he can know the opposite sex.
Their biggest feature is that they are particularly good at flirting with women, seeing who they say, no matter what type of woman they are, they have a set of coping methods.
For quiet women, they will behave very gently, for generous women, they will be very fanatical, different types of women, they will use different methods to pry, very pleasing to women.
If you want to see their true face, you don't have to be tempted, just look at the way they get along with the opposite sex.
Such men, basically have a strong skill of flirting, always like to flirt, and women will constantly talk sweetly, carefully manage the illusion of love.
However, unlike men who are truly affectionate, no matter how far they develop with women, they will not determine the relationship and deliberately make the relationship ambiguous.
Because, this kind of man will not be responsible, and he will not confirm the relationship with the woman, just want to flirt.
Therefore, when a woman interacts with a man, she must keep more thoughts, if he only flirts with you, talks to you about love, but does not want to determine the relationship with you, there is basically a problem.
Moreover, this kind of man will say a lot of beautiful love words and make a lot of promises when he interacts with you, but you will never see his actions.
They are very good at coaxing women, even when they are forced by women to ask, they can do not panic, but calmly cope and continue to draw cakes for women.
Occasionally, they will give women some sweetness, but the real promise, will not be fulfilled at all, never think that he will definitely have a relationship with you.
This kind of man, talking to women, is almost familiar with the road, one set after another, as if he had memorized it beforehand.
At first, women may be touched by these sweet love words, but after a long time together, you will find that what they say is too rigid, and there is no trace of sincerity to speak of.
In essence, they are like the new and tired of the old, constantly immersed in women, has long practiced the characteristics of "bold and fierce", if women encounter the best to stay away, do not entangle.
Second, be good at disguise, deliberately create the illusion of money
The man who truly loves you will not be disguised, will make you feel real, have the texture of love.
However, the men who spend their hearts are completely different, they are particularly disguised, deliberately creating the illusion of wealth for you, and deceiving your true heart.
When interacting with you, they will consciously or unconsciously show off their strength and pretend that they have money and status, so as to paralyze your judgment.
Whether or not such men are really rich and powerful, they will quickly show you the bottom card, the purpose is to make you lose your defenses.
In their view, the most direct way to quickly take down a woman is to use strength to conquer.
If they don't have the strength, the best way is to disguise, from appearance to conversation, they will pretend to be rich people, as long as you lower your defenses and give them the opportunity, basically fooled.
After all, such men will not spend too much time on you, they are constantly looking for goals, once they get their hands on it, they will not be nostalgic, but rush to the next date with the new love.
Because of this, when they talk to you about love, they will not be as gradual as the truly affectionate men, but pay attention to efficiency and chase you in the fastest way.
Therefore, they have to pretend, and in the early stage of their interaction with you, they will show great strength, first be generous to you, and then they will not pay.
In reality, some women always can't stand the temptation of men's small profits, and eventually fall into the trap of feelings, which is a pity.
Usually, the man who spends his heart will use this disguised means to seduce women, and he will definitely behave very richly and be extremely generous to you at the beginning.
Once you lose the defensive line, let him easily get it, and it's finally time for him to leave. Because, this kind of man will not pity you, and will turn the page after that, and will never pestering a woman.
Like to label you and talk about breaking up as your problem
A man is very careful, basically will not stay with you, once possessed, will quickly break up with you, this is their usual means.
At this time, they will continue to pick your thorns, like to label you, and make the breakup your problem and transfer the responsibility.
For example, the most common kind of man is to label you as "too clingy, ignorant, eccentric, and materialistic" and say that there is no way to get along with you.
In fact, this is just a deliberate excuse for him to leave you, which is essentially not to be responsible for you, especially hypocritical and irresponsible.
Therefore, women should understand that if a man always labels you when he interacts with you, it is actually an excuse for not loving you and looking for a breakup.
In fact, such men, no matter what kind of women they are with, will be used to saying that women have problems.
Before starting a relationship, he will be particularly enthusiastic about you, saying that you are good everywhere, and treating you as a "little baby" in his heart.
However, once he gets it, he will quickly change, and you are no longer the treasure in his heart, basically no longer cherishing you.
At this time, he will put the responsibility on your head, so that he can retreat from the whole body, deliberately say that you are not good, say that you can't get along with you, and make you mistakenly think that it is really his own problem.
If women are gullible, they will end up being hurt a lot, and their irresponsibility, causing and hurting, leaving you alone to bear, is very painful.
Therefore, when a woman interacts with a man, she must learn to recognize the man's sincerity, and once she finds that he likes to pick your thorn and label you, she must pay attention.
You know, it's not that you're bad, it's that he's too careful and has never loved you.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Wilde said: "If a man's love is not single-minded, then he will feel happy with any woman." ”
Such a man will not spend his mind on a woman at all, but will spend his mind with many women, they constantly provoke women, regard feelings as child's play, and are not worth associating.
To sum up, when a man who spends his heart and a woman interacts, he generally has these three typical performances:
Especially good at flirting with women, but not sure about relationships; good at disguise, deliberately creating the illusion of having money; likes to label you and talk about breakups as your problem.
If a woman finds that the man you are involved with has these aspects of performance, it is best to stop the loss in time so as not to consume herself.
The man who truly loves you will pay sincerely, will be responsible for you, will give you pity in action, and sincerely wants to walk with you into the future, which is what true love looks like.
And the men who are very emotional, everything in front of you is disguised, if you are gullible, it is easy to be hurt, I hope that women should be cautious and do not easily give themselves.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.