As a man who works hard to make money, what are they really for, in a family, men are often the head of the family, they have a dominant position in the family, they continue to work hard in life, constantly make money to support the family, in order to make their wives and children security in life, but also get a little warmth in life. Men try to hand over hundreds of thousands of hard-earned money to their wives, but the wives transfer their hands to their mothers, which is also very painful for a man. He ended up with nothing, no children, no wife. In the end, a lawsuit was settled.
What happened:
The recent contradiction between a couple of Yan Weijian and Tang Xin is also the focus of many people's attention. As a husband, Yan Weijian was frightened by his wife's brother with a long knife every year when he went back to look for his wife.
It turned out that on the day of the Lantern Festival, which was also just the anniversary of Yan Weijian and his wife Tang Xin, Yan Weijian broke his wife's finger and stitched 8 stitches in the hospital. The reason is that Yan Weijian painstakingly gave hundreds of thousands to his wife, and all the wives took back to their mother's home.
In this matter, Yan Weijian has always emphasized that Tang Xin's finger was accidentally cut off by the door, but his wife Tang Xin said that his husband Yan Weijian broke her finger, and the two people insisted on their own words, in fact, in this marriage, Tang Xin belonged to the third marriage, but Yan Weijian belonged to a marriage, at that time Tang Xin took the child to Yan Weijian's home to live with Yan Weijian, and after marriage, the two people also gave birth to a child, but in this family life, Tang Xin has always said that Yan Weijian is very bad for her children. Often scolding, she is to protect her children. After the two men had an affair, the matter was taken to the courtroom and now the judicial process is proceeding. Yan Weijian also revealed that the children brought by Tang Xin were raised from childhood, and now Yan Weijian will be driven out of the house by him every time he returns from working. He also revealed that the child grew up and did not like him to come home as much as his mother. For this kind of family dispute, many people feel that it is difficult for officials to distinguish family affairs.
Netizen views:
Many people have different ideas about the disputes between these families.
Some netizens said: Why would he choose a woman who is married three times? Experiencing three marriages also proves that this woman has a different story behind her, and is also a woman who is not very simple.
Some netizens said: Hundreds of thousands of hard-earned money is really not easy, and in the end Yan Weijian has nothing, which is also worthy of sympathy for many people for him.
Some netizens said: Many families will have such a problem, which is also the need for children's education in many ways, so both sides will be wrong.
Some netizens said: Breaking the finger is also very serious, but for a person's youth is limited, hundreds of thousands of exchanges are driven away, although the practice is a bit excessive, but also out of their own hard work has not been rewarded venting.
Editor's opinion:
Husband and wife both people actually have mistakes, first of all, as a father, Yan Weijian, he often works outside the home, has been neglecting the education of the child, which has led to the child's relationship with the father has not been good, and the father-son relationship is also established step by step.
In addition, Tang Xin, as the mother of the child, in the case of her own three marriages, should have more experience in marriage than anyone, and she should also work harder on the child and her husband, not to spoil the child all the time, plus the husband has been working outside for many years, and the money saved by hard work is handed over to you, and you should also understand his hardships, because hard-earned money is not easy to earn.
What the husband and wife need is to live in peace, how the two people to maintain the family is to rely on two people to run, such a thing happens, not two people to blame each other, but to find a way to find out the cause, and then to solve the problem. Hopefully they can settle things peacefully.