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1. Minnan Net - Zhang Yimou's ex-wife Xiao Hua recalled the divorce: Gong Li's letter stabbed her
2. People's Daily Online - Zhang Yimou's "Superbirth Incident" continued: Only give birth to children, do not get married, and give birth to 1 10 million
3. CCTV International - Zhang Yimou's ex-wife: Gong Li dedicated herself to Director Zhang and was beaten by her ex-boyfriend
4. People's information - Zhang Yimou's wife talks about the three-child birth policy and was fined 7.48 million for overbirth
"Abandoning her is the biggest mistake Zhang Yimou has made in his life."
In 1987, Zhang Yimou's directorial career reached its peak for the first time, and his "Red Sorghum" not only appeared at the International Film Festival and won the Golden Bear Award, but also caused great repercussions in the society.
However, it was also this year that Zhang Yimou abandoned her knotted wife.
And the fuse of divorce was because of a laundry.
Once Zhang Yimou rarely came home, his wife helped him wash his clothes as usual, but when he opened his pocket, his wife took out a letter written by Gong Li from inside.
Source: Minnan Net - Zhang Yimou's ex-wife Xiao Hua recalled the divorce: Gong Li's letter stabbed her
The short love words, as well as the four eye-catching words "I want to get married", made the wife stunned.
There is no doubt that when her husband was filming the movie, he had already betrayed himself and got together with the "big star".
But even so, for the sake of family stability, the wife decided to "endure the humiliation and burden", and persuaded her husband to change his mind and leave Gong Li.
It's just that she underestimated Zhang Yimou's determination to "cheat", even if she pleaded "in a low voice" again and again, Zhang Yimou did not have the slightest nostalgia, and finally divorced his wife ruthlessly.
Now, after many years, what kind of life does the abandoned wife live? Has the relationship with Zhang Yimou eased?
Mistaken innocence of love
Zhang Yimou's ex-wife is called Xiao Hua, and if she hadn't married Zhang Yimou later, she would probably be an "intellectual" with a decent job.
Because his great-grandfather was an "ancient Xiucai", his mother was also one of the few people who went to school in the early years.
And when she was a child, she actually lived in Beijing with her grandmother, and the courtyard house was her childhood memory.
When she grew up, she was finally reunited with her parents in Xi'an and began to go to school in Xi'an.
But because she is a transfer student, she has a lively personality, but she can't let go here, and she is often alone.
And there is a boy in the class who is the complete opposite of him, who studies well and has a cheerful personality, and is very popular in the class.
This person is Zhang Yimou.
In fact, Xiao Hua's grades are not bad, and she has a good family education, and she lived in Beijing when she was a child, so she has a wide range of knowledge, so the teacher arranged for her to publish a blackboard newspaper.
At the same time, Zhang Yimou was also found for her as a partner.
At the age when love first opened, the two quickly fell in love and came together secretly.
But the good times didn't last long, and not long after the two people fell in love, they ushered in the era policy of "going to the countryside".
At that time, Zhang Yimou's family had no background and no outstanding results, so he naturally became a member of the team in the countryside.
Xiao Hua is different from him, because of her parents, she doesn't have to go to the countryside to suffer, and she can stay in the city all the time.
But Zhang Yimou didn't feel sorry for her, so he insisted on persuading her to follow him.
After learning about this incident, the parents were opposed, but their daughter also made up her mind and followed Zhang Yimou to the difficult countryside without hesitation.
At that time, Zhang Yimou had a dream in his heart, and he had to take responsibility for Xiao Hua in the future, constantly encouraged himself in the hard life in the countryside, and also took care of Xiao Hua's feelings.
Xiao Hua, who used to "don't touch the spring water with ten fingers", had to come to everything by herself after going to the countryside, laundry, cooking and work, so that her hands quickly grinded calluses.
Compared with being with a lover, these are not worth mentioning, Xiao Hua always feels: "With a lover by your side, no matter how hard it is, it is worth it." ”
But later events proved that all the hardships she had endured were not worth it.
Zhang Yimou's life opened
In 1970, Xiao Hua suffered from hepatitis because he was not suitable for rural life and diet, and Zhang Yimou immediately ran to her to take care of her, and used his savings to take her to see a doctor and buy various nutritional products.
Under Zhang Yimou's care, Xiao Hua finally recovered, and the relationship between the two was stronger because of this incident.
A year later, the days of going to the countryside finally ended, and Zhang Yimou was assigned to the factory as an ordinary worker.
Of course, Xiao Hua went to the same place with him again, but in fact, they were 50 miles apart.
In those days when transportation was not developed, it took a long time and effort to visit each visit.
However, the distance did not wear down their feelings, and in order to show his sincerity, Zhang Yimou also saved up money to buy an alarm clock for Xiao Hua.
Of course, Xiao Hua didn't just enjoy Zhang Yimou's love, and later she also gave all her money to Zhang Yimou and helped him buy the first camera in his life.
This shows how sincere their feelings are.
The days are hard, but the person you love the most is around, so there is always sweetness.
It's just that Zhang Yimou is a poor boy, why should he marry Xiao Hua?
This problem once kept Xiao Hua's parents awake at night, and even had the intention of breaking up the two people, and in the end, Xiao Hua said that "Zhang Yimou will not marry", so he coaxed his parents.
In 1978, the parents couldn't resist Xiao Hua's insistence and finally agreed to marry them.
After marriage, in order to let Xiao Hua have a good future, her parents were ready to send her to college through a relationship.
What the Xiao family didn't expect was that after Zhang Yimou learned the news, he immediately disagreed.
He felt that there were so many excellent men in college, and he was useless, so he was robbed of his daughter-in-law if he couldn't keep it.
So he once again persuaded Xiao Hua to stay by his side, and in the end, Xiao Hua compromised again.
As a result, after Zhang Yimou persuaded his wife, he turned his head and went to Nortel, which is really incomprehensible.
Perhaps it can be seen from here that he is not a person worthy of being entrusted with his life.
Because of Zhang Yimou's persuasion, Xiao Hua gave up the opportunity to become a better person, until he was "reduced" to an ordinary woman.
On the other hand, Zhang Yimou, with college experience, began to step into the showbiz, and gradually opened up his "social status" with her.
Putting everything aside, Zhang Yimou is indeed a rare artistic talent.
"One and Eight", which was filmed by him as a photographer, has won many awards, and he himself won the actor crown by starring in "Old Well".
In fact, from this moment on, Zhang Yimou no longer goes home frequently, and is immersed in his artistic career.
After becoming a director, his first work "Red Sorghum" was a great success.
And this play has also become a love work between him and Gong Li.
In fact, when they were in the crew, everyone had long acquiesced that Zhang Yimou and Gong Li were "lovers", because they were glued together whether they were filming or acting in private.
But paper can't contain the fire after all, Xiao Hua, who has never noticed it, felt like the sky was about to fall when he turned to the "love letter" in Zhang Yimou's pocket, and he couldn't figure out why his husband cheated.
Is it because I don't give enough to him? Or do you have less to worry about this family?
In fact, it is not, Zhang Yimou cheated because Gong Li is beautiful, understands art, and is his soul "partner".
Xiao Hua has long been an "old man" under the ravages of the years, no matter in life or career, he can't help Zhang Yimou, and he has long had no common topic.
And who is the "culprit" of all this? is Zhang Yimou, who persuaded her to go to the countryside and prevented her from going to college.
However, as a wife, Xiao Hua decided to bear all the criticism alone and was willing to give Zhang Yimou a chance.
It's just that Zhang Yimou, who transferred his love to Gong Li, how could he be willing to give up Gong Li, and it seems that abandoning Xiao Hua, who is "useless", is the most cost-effective decision.
In 1988, also the year after discovering the love letter, Xiao Hua knew that she couldn't keep her husband, and finally chose to let go.
But Zhang Yimou never thought that he was willing to abandon the woman his wife wanted, and he did not go to the end with him.
True love or passion?
Xiao Hua is pathetic, she didn't even have the heart of "revenge" after being betrayed.
But what she didn't do, her daughter did for her.
Daughter Zhang Mo has always felt that Gong Li robbed her father and was the "third party" who caused her parents to divorce, so she never gave Gong Li a good face, and often quarreled with Gong Li with a white face.
And Zhang Yimou, as a father, has already taken away his daughter's mother, so he can't teach his daughter a lesson, so he can only turn a blind eye, but this move makes Gong Li feel that he is "and muddy" and doesn't love himself enough.
In the long run, the love between the two wore out until they broke up.
After that, Zhang Yimou won many awards in the director industry and became a veritable director, and his feelings have also made new progress.
In 1999, Chen Ting, who was 31 years younger than her, appeared by his side.
But in the past five years, Chen Ting has never been recognized as a girlfriend, but even so, she gave birth to three children for Zhang Yimou.
It wasn't until the 12th year of being together that Chen Ting got a marriage certificate.
After remarrying, Zhang Yimou became famous, his wife was young and beautiful, and his children enjoyed a good education and a rich life.
And Zhang Mo, who is also his biological daughter, has a "divorced original family" behind her back, has a rough life, and later marries a foreigner in a hurry because she desperately wants to be loved.
As a result, there were frequent quarrels soon after marriage, and finally divorced in a chicken feather.
Fortunately, with the favor of the god of love, she lived happily after her second marriage, and she was also led into the director's circle by her father in her career.
Husband and daughter have a new life, but Xiao Hua has not heard from him for many years, sometimes good and sometimes bad, no one knows.
It is said that she has always been alone and has never married.
In contrast, Xiao Hua seems to have turned his life into a "joke".
If she had followed her parents' advice and stayed in the city, maybe everything would have been different if she had studied well at college at the time.
But there is no if in the world, Xiao Hua lost what should have been a good life in the wrong decisions again and again.
is also because of "credulous belief in men's promises", and tasted the sourness of marriage failure.
With such an ending, anyone who sees it will feel embarrassed.
And what do you think of Xiao Hua's choice and Zhang Yimou's ruthlessness?
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1. Minnan Net - Zhang Yimou's ex-wife Xiao Hua recalled the divorce: Gong Li's letter stabbed her
2. People's Daily Online - Zhang Yimou's "Superbirth Incident" continued: Only give birth to children, do not get married, and give birth to 1 10 million
3. CCTV International - Zhang Yimou's ex-wife: Gong Li dedicated herself to Director Zhang and was beaten by her ex-boyfriend
4. People's information - Zhang Yimou's wife talks about the three-child birth policy and was fined 7.48 million for overbirth