Do you know how low the marriage rate is after the 90s? Only about 10%, the current situation is that the post-90s marriage rate is low, while the post-80s divorce rate is high
Now the post-90s, ah, the heart actually yearns for love, but it has witnessed too many points and combinations, and has already seen all of this very thoroughly, but the reality is that the post-90s have already reached the age of marriage and children, and have to face the choice of marriage
But I think that in this world, there are only feelings that should not be married, there is no age that should not be married, and anything in this world can be done, but marriage alone cannot be done, because it will affect you for a lifetime
Ning Que is not indiscriminate, rather than marrying can not be, but also to marry love, this is a lot of post-90s and even 80 and 00s of the idea, but your family does not agree ah, the family is very anxious, the reason why they are anxious, but also because of the problem of traditional marriage concepts, the ancients cloud thirty and standing, to 30 years old and established, not yet married, can the family not be in a hurry?
But that is only the concept of the past, now 30 years old, your life has actually just begun, many people in their 20s at this age, no career, no income, it is this poor and white need to work hard, when you are not excellent, you can only find this not very good partner, that when you are excellent, ah, I tell you, like you will be a lot, don't say that the opposite sex will like you, may be along with sex will like, don't think too much, just want you to be his son-in-law or brother-in-law
Therefore, at the best age, it should be the first to get rid of poverty, you are qualified to find a better, will have a more wonderful life, in addition, there is a point, that is, both men and women, young to get married, parents in the short of that kind of life, will wear out your will, so that you have no momentum.
If you are an ambitious person, first learn to be lonely for a few years, work hard for a few years, make yourself more excellent, you can meet a better partner, the second half of your life these decades are actually happy, but you have to find the wrong partner, a bad marriage will consume your life, so that you do not have any energy to do anything
I tell this girl a truth, that is, do not fall in love with a boy when you are in a low mood and have nothing, he can only be the icing on the cake for you, not the snow, when you are excellent, his love is to love you, but when you are bad, his love will test the water, your grasp on the boy comes from your wisdom, not how much you love him, and it is not that he can give you everything you want
You have to understand that love is actually sometimes that is a few seconds, it is a chemical reaction, the rest, basically the higher your value to him, he will naturally hold you in the palm of his hand, and you are worthless to him, and even become a burden to her, you don't want to give much love, he can give you how much love, but the more you pay, the cheaper you are in his eyes, delusional through the value of others to attach to themselves, often in the end will be very miserable
In fact, whether men or women, falling in love with themselves is the only way to happiness. In a word, first of all, we must learn to be independent, first make a living and then seek love, first love ourselves and then love others, stupidly wait for miracles, and wait for a chicken feather