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Contributed by | Mo Qianqian, | Lin
True story
Issue 6
Recently watched "Dear Child" and was angered by Fang Yinuo's mother-in-law:
When Fang Yinuo gave birth to a child, her husband and mother-in-law were not around to accompany her, even if the mother-in-law had been worried about her placenta and wanted to take it away for her younger son to eat.
The daughter-in-law gives birth to a child in the delivery room, and the mother-in-law stews the placenta at the outside door, and the screenwriter is also quite angry.
There are even more infuriating, the mother-in-law looks at the child when she is double-minded, looks at the card playing to see herself, and the granddaughter forgets to pull in the car!
As a result, the stroller slid down the slope like this, and my throat eyes were going to be lifted across the screen!
The child is sick, and the mother-in-law's operation is even more confusing! I picked up the yellow paper and burned it downstairs, saying that there was a little ghost. What's even more outrageous is that the downstairs burning paper can also clash with passers-by, and they directly fight a fight.
This mother-in-law is really a desperate child, 300 years of rare encounters! Can't help much, even if it's still going to add to people's blockage!
No wonder some people say that the best mother-in-law relationship in the world is "it doesn't matter."
So about those things between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, we also received a submission, I hope the following things, you have not encountered.
1
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are the most unlikely people in the world to be related, and if it were not for the husband, there would be no crossover.
Before there are no children, there will not be much connection, basically the well water does not violate the river water, and each other maintains the dignity and politeness of the face. But after having a baby, everything became different, and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law completely broke out.
In the month, the mother-in-law did not think about you because she had the same experience, on the contrary, she raised your husband by herself, always posing as a person who came over, pointing fingers at you.
You run out of milk, and she won't adjust your diet for you, but complain that "your breasts are too small!" It's because you're afraid of getting fat and not eating well! You don't want to drink oil soup..."
I also want to show off her great achievements: when I was young, the conditions were much worse than this, I could have milk when I drank cold water, and now how good the conditions are, why don't you have milk?
The child got a red ass, and her first reaction was not to quickly help you think about how to solve it, but to immediately draw conclusions next to it:
"Wear diapers without getting wet!" How many times have you told me not to wear that stuff, just don't listen! ”
"How economical are diapers, and buying diapers is a waste of money!" And sin! ”
In short, it's a nagging.
The child is sick, you take care of the child day and night, a person holding the child in one hand, holding the payment slip in the other hand, and carrying a bag, shuttling upstairs and downstairs in the hospital, doing various examinations.
But she can't seem to see this, she won't understand your hardships, and she won't care if you're still confinement, your body is still repairing, or you're a new mom.
She will only accuse you: "You should not turn on the air conditioner, the child is cold, it costs money to get sick, and my grandson suffers a lot." ”
In her place, you abused his grandson like a stepmother.
But we mean, on the third day of the big three volts, the mother alone holds the baby without leaving her hand, and does not turn on the air conditioner, can there be a hand to free up the fan?
02
If it is not confinement at the mother-in-law's house, people have to bow their heads under the eaves; if it is not for the rush of life, the husband is not around; if it is not the child who is not yet full of moons, he cannot go out of the house...
How can it be possible to endure such a irrelevant person, pointing fingers at himself and sneering at himself? It's all for your own good!
When encountering such a mother-in-law, if there is no strong heart, it is estimated that he will collapse and die a long time ago.
Since confinement, I have finally understood why so many women will be depressed during the confinement and jump off the building with their children. They're really desperate for life, desperate for marriage.
What about you? Have you ever despaired of life? How did you solve it? Let's talk about it in the message area, and you are welcome to submit articles.
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Author Introduction: I am Mo Qianqian, a baoma on the 80 tail, good at thinking, observing, summarizing and inductive output, and willing to share. He currently works for a big data products company.
Source: TV series "Dear Child"
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#你对生活绝望过吗? How did you solve it?
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