Written by: Reader + Galaxy | Editor-in-charge: Galaxy | Image: Huang Zai
Hello, hello everyone, I'm Galaxy~
It's weekly talk time again!
Some time ago, we solicited #What are your sudden insights or suddenly understand the truth#, and received passionate submissions from friends! I have selected 10 of the most representative shares, let's take a look at it
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"Procrastination is a waste of time."
It seems like a nonsense, but it was something I suddenly realized when I rushed to DDL.
I always don't do what I should do when the time limit is too long, but I always have to wait until the last few days are too late to fight wildly.
You could have saved a lot of time doing other things, so don't delay
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When I divorced my husband before, I confided in two friends around me who seemed to be happily married.
A man said that most married men think that other people's wives are good. (Hint that you've cheated, but won't get divorced)
Another woman said she couldn't guarantee that she wouldn't cheat in the future.
Only to find out that it turns out that infidelity in marriage is a common thing, and most people choose to accept it silently and will not choose divorce.
Galactic has a saying: infidelity is just an act of personal infidelity, not a group. Whether love and marriage are worth looking forward to and trusting depends on the specific person.
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I always think that some small things can be just a moment, and I can tolerate temporary dissatisfaction, but the things that need to be endured will gradually accumulate until I go to an unbearable situation.
Galaxy has a saying: people's energy and endurance are limited, in the face of dissatisfaction must be solved in time, wait until the cattle bear the weight to solve it is too late.
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I would like to give a few suggestions to girls who want to get married:
1. Before getting married, ask yourself "Do you have the confidence to deal with all the trivial things in the family?"
2. Are you unwavering in your desire to marry this person and spend the rest of your life?
Although everyone says that marriage can also be divorced, but marriage is not a "child's play" after all, it is a serious and solemn thing, but also related to two families, can not act impulsively, adults should be responsible for their own choices.
3. Take safety measures before marriage, do not get pregnant before marriage, and do not rush to get married because you are pregnant.
There's a saying that I think is very much like married and unmarried life, "The dog inside the wall has a home but is not free, and the cat outside the wall has no home but is very free."
These are some personal thoughts that I, as a married person, have given to the girls, after all, there was no one to remind me at that time.
Being nice to others may not be remembered by the other party, but an occasional rejection may make others hold a grudge.
Every time I encounter this situation, I feel that I have paid wrong.
No matter at any time, do your own conscience, see the most important thing, and always can't punish yourself for the mistakes of others.
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I don't dare to watch the news, I don't want to watch the news, and the recent wars and epidemics have made me feel very powerless and disappointed.
At this time, I suddenly felt, "It turns out that human beings are really very small."
I peeked out the window to see that there were very few cars on the road, there were seals and locks everywhere, and I didn't know when the disaster would pass.
But seeing that everyone is united in their efforts to break free from the predicament, and how about the smallness of human beings, our strength may be beyond imagination.
Galactic has a saying: in the face of the epidemic, we humans may be small and helpless, but we can still unite in difficult situations, and this power can definitely break through the shackles of disaster.
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The road should be taken step by step, and the food should be eaten bite by bite. Other than that! Only parents in the world are really good to you.
I had just finished the summer vacation after the college entrance examination, and my friend asked me if I wanted to go to the internship together. I told my mom that I was going to try it, but I needed to go out of the market and solve the problem of renting and eating by myself.
The early funds definitely need to be given by the family, just manage the parents to ask for 2k, at that time did not know where the confidence came from, felt that 2k rent + eat for a month must be no problem, now think about it is really naïve.
In the end, my parents couldn't help me, but they still let me go along with me.
The good times are not long, the house is not smooth, the early borrowing to live in a friend's shop, the third day began to have a fever, a week later the high fever did not go away, I rented a compartment.
There was no air conditioning in the summer, I had a high fever lying in the compartment, about the tenth day or so, I really couldn't bear to choose to go home, I just remember that when I got home, my parents didn't say anything about me.
Looking back now, it seems that in the past few years, I always did things according to my own ideas, imagined everything beautifully, felt that everything would develop in this direction, only stared at the goal I imagined, but forgot to lift my feet.
The top of the mountain is beautiful, but first walk the steps in front of you.
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Humans are social animals, and it seems that there is no way to live independently on their own. Therefore, we need to meet strangers, know each other, and love each other.
Whether it is friends, colleagues, family, or lovers, they all need to support and understand each other in order to complete the rest of their lives. No matter what kind of relationship, what form, it is the same bondage, it is the embodiment of love.
Sometimes these seemingly fragile relationships are really my strong backing.
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People really need to be curious and have the courage to change the status quo all the time.
Some time ago, I was a little confused, I don't know whether it was because the epidemic disrupted my plans, or because I was anxious because I was about to enter the age of 30.
Suddenly find that I have less and less desire to share and talk, no longer care and curiosity about many things in life, like being covered in a cage, no longer have desire and freedom in my heart, and the whole person thinks about problems more and more decadent and timid...
I don't know when this change began, in short, it is a bad omen, so I choose to take time to run every day, feel the air, because I am afraid of being beaten down by life, so I also cultivated some new hobbies, struggled for a while, and gradually picked up confidence in life.
So I think we still have the courage to be enthusiastic about life and move!
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Sisters, don't interfere too much in other people's feelings and lives!
Friends always complained to me about some sad things in her relationship. Every time I listened to it, I was angry to death, and I bitterly advised her to break up, and after a while she still continued to fall in love.
At first I thought she was in love with her brain and didn't listen to advice. Later, I found out that the things she told me were one-sided, and it was normal for couples to make small fights, and I didn't have to feel sorry for her or hold her unfairly.
So friends! Really don't care about the feelings of girlfriends, can't manage it!!
Galaxy has a saying: some emotions in love always belong to both participants, and as outsiders, it is difficult for us to evaluate the good or bad of a thing fairly and objectively, so when the girlfriend "spits" again, we listen silently!
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Well, the above is all of today's content, if you also have any sudden feelings you want to share, welcome to move to the message area, don't forget to click "like" and "follow" before leaving!
I love the world.